What personality flaws do you have that were the result of growing up at an early age?

My character flaws are lack of self-confidence and low self-esteem, which are not caused by the education of my parents, but by the early death of my parents and the departure of me. It was my brother and sister-in-law who raised me, so I had the defect of not being confident and more humble in my personality. Main performance:

I feel bad at doing anything, and I'm afraid of being judged by others. Walk with your head down. Do things ahead and backward, afraid of not succeeding.

I don't dare to challenge myself and follow the rules. The road of life is long, and the character is not static, gradually changing oneself at work, having their own pursuit in life, having a sense of achievement, and gradually becoming confident and inferior, only to find that they have so many advantages, I can do what others can do, and I can do better, and get the recognition of family and friends. So I'm confident now, and the way I walk has changed.

Everyone has character defects, not necessarily the education of their parents, but it has a certain relationship with the words and deeds of their parents, and the character is malleable.

My family is patriarchal, and since I had a younger brother, I basically don't care about me. When I was a child, they always loved to scold me, and for no reason, I didn't do well. It's an eyesore.

Once, when I was very young, I accidentally made my younger brother cry, and my mother directly slapped me on the corner of the table, and my head was covered with a mouth, and it hurt very much. Grandparents said that your brother is a dragon, and you are a worm. I'm nothing.

I don't expect their care, I live in someone else's house in junior high school, and I never pay attention to me. The boys in the class bullied me, and I envied the children who were loved by their parents, and their parents brought them food and clothes every day. There is basically no pocket money, and the clothes are all worn by my cousin, which is said to be very dirty.

It's okay now, but I'm always inferior, I'm just a worm, and I don't deserve anything. No matter how good I am in the future, those bitter and embarrassing days cannot be erased, and the love of those family members can never be made up.

When I was a child, I was beaten almost every day, coupled with closed management, I was not allowed to make friends, I couldn't go out to play, and I had to be beaten when I went out to play. Leads to no friends now, serious character flaws. Don't know how to get along with people.

When you meet such parents in reincarnation, you can only count yourself as unlucky. This life is ruined. Everyone is like a blank sheet of paper when they first come to this world, what kind of life they have, parents play a great role, and if it is a white paper that is crumpled into a ball, no matter how hard the child tries in his life, he can't smooth it out.

Family reasons, when I was a child, my parents did business in Beijing, I grew up in my grandmother's parents, I had a strong sense of self-esteem, I was careful in what I did, I was more bored and introverted at that time, and I was always considered a fool by some relatives, and my sense of existence was gone after my brother, and the effect must be inferiority, and I had to figure out others before doing anything, and I must be fully prepared before doing things for fear of embarrassment, but I don't think it's a bad habit. But I lack the energy that young people should have between me and my peers, and I am not afraid of losing and have the courage to try.

I grew up with my grandparents and grandparents, and I didn't spend more than a year with my parents. Every year, I am so happy during the summer and winter vacations, I can go to them to play; At the same time, they were so scary, they were always arguing endlessly, and every time I quarreled, I would be beaten, forced to do multiple choice questions, with my mother or father! Going through this upbringing, I had low self-esteem, sensitivity, and insecurity.

Afraid of marriage, afraid of getting along with other people, not trusting anyone, seemingly sunny and optimistic, strong and independent, in fact, they are all pretending, aren't they?

Inferiority. I don't know why, my parents never saw my strengths, (now I believe I must have had advantages when I was younger) to me a classic saying is "look at who is who, work more, study better, more sensible, look at you all day long know how to play" woo, who is who, we often play together. In the eyes of my parents, I was always not as good as others.

My character is cowardly. My parents pursued the educational concept of "filial piety under the stick" and "if you don't fight, you can't become a talent", although I am a girl, but when I disobey my parents' hearts, I will be scolded at least and beaten and kicked at worst. My mother's usual technique is to hit the top with a golden palm.

I don't know if my current state of being a fool is the result of always "eating meat" on the top of my head, but I am sure that my cowardly personality is the reason for this golden palm.

Since I was a child, my parents would never take me to dinner with friends, drink or anything like that, so now I am very uncomfortable with the occasion of staggering, and I don't like it, and sometimes I am at a loss.

Actually, I was quite happy in my childhood, because my personality was really different, my brothers and sisters would quarrel, and my parents would reprimand me when I was disobedient, my grandfather still loved me a lot, never scolded me, once it was very cold, my grandfather was wearing a thick military coat and hugged me, not to mention how warm I was at a young age. And I always ask all kinds of questions that my elders can't answer, most of them are physical phenomena, and I really have the potential to be a physicist