How can I live like an adult?

I don't like it, I haven't had enough of it.

It is to live independently, to be independent, to no longer rely on parents, and to have your own career and family.

Don't just consider your own feelings, start from the overall situation, weigh the pros and cons from multiple angles and aspects, and then make a decision. Because when you grow up, you have to learn to take responsibility for your actions.

I think when you learn to drink tea, when you learn to drink tea alone, you will seriously think about some life or work matters, you are an adult. Personal opinion! ‍‍

If you want to live like an adult, you have to become mature, learn to be a person and do things, don't agree to things that can't be done, don't do it when you're not sure, be responsible for what you say, and be responsible for what you say will live like an adult, this is my opinion. ‍‍

Everyone is talking about maturity, and I would like to share some feelings based on my own situation and that of the people around me. What does maturity stand for? It means that you are responsible for all your words and actions, for the possible consequences, and for your family and their future.

It means that you can recognize yourself objectively, don't take yourself too seriously, recognize the cruel social reality and unpredictable people's hearts, and then love yourself and the world with a normal heart. It is recommended to read more history books to understand the history of Mingzhi, and all the laws of human nature and social development are repeated again and again in history. ‍‍

An adult should have a basic sense of responsibility, a sense of responsibility, and be responsible for himself and others in everything he does. Independence, not only personal economic independence, but also need to have an independent personality. An adult does not only need to reach age, but the most important thing is to mature mentally. ‍‍

Adults are able to think correctly about all the pros and cons, know what to let go, what not to give up, to people and things, to become a better version of yourself or to enjoy all the results of the process, is a kind of attitude to life, regardless of good or bad interests, love yourself and know how to love yourself is mature! ‍‍

You are not a child anymore, please learn to be independent and be a person who can take care of your emotions and life. You always have to adapt to being alone, no one will always be by your side, even your parents will get old. So, learn to be alone in solitude. ‍‍

The so-called adult is that you are an adult, can think independently, live independently, can distinguish between truth and falsehood, right and wrong, can influence your own behavior, and be a useful person to society. ‍‍

I feel that it is inappropriate to make such statements publicly, as a thoughtful person, who is not extreme, unconcerned, not angry, and has no regrets, who treats himself with a sufficiently deep cultivation, and who is becoming more and more spiritually young as he grows older.

So how should we be a thinking person?

Only with thought can people live better.

At present, people have begun to generally realize that in order to live and live like a person, people must have the material conditions to ensure food and clothing, as well as rich hobbies, which is a good thing for social progress and the development of the times.

However, what can really make a person become a person in the true sense of the word, or a spiritual aristocracy, at the soul level, people still have certain thoughts, use ideas to scientifically explain the objective world and see themselves correctly.

Thought is different from simple views, different from one-sided cognition, and not with the expression of personal emotions. Thought is a systematic world outlook and outlook on life based on dialectical materialism and historical materialism.

In a certain era, people are divided into three, six, nine and so on by material indicators such as wealth, power, and appearance, and each enjoys its glory. However, the happiness index of people's hearts is divided into high and low peaks by the spiritual level of knowledge, concepts, and thoughts, and thinking is the highest peak of life.

Life, the ultimate direction and return, is to detach from the animal attributes of human beings, from the relatively abstract process of species reproduction, in the most sophisticated and magical brain world, to create their own highest-level system ideas in this era, so that life is not confused and control destiny.

Let us all strive to become thinkers in our own lives and participate in society, you must know that billionaires or supreme people are also three meals a day and one bed rest, only thought can make your dignity and self-confidence celebrate and happiness, comparable to the heat of the sun, the height of Mount Everest, and the width of the ocean.

You are a person yourself, and then you have a good character, three views are right, and then you can accept yourself.

Those who are self-aware have already lived. People with rhapsoia often can't live the way they want, and there are many such people.

In fact, the longer you get along, the more similar your behavior and thoughts will become. When the dust settles, it's too late.

No one counts this. Happiness is actually very easy.

The value orientation varies from person to person, and the ideas are different, and I personally feel it

I can do the work I like and be with the people I like

Don't be under too much pressure, just do your best, think more about learning skills, and learn from others.

Set your own goals, and all actions should be goals. As big as the heart is, the future is as far as it is

It's not a lot, many people don't live the life they want, but they have been trying to pursue the life they want, in fact, what is the life they want, some people may not understand! And some people understand that in fact, life is a process, and the important thing is to live every day happily, which is the life that people really pursue.

Many people want to quit their jobs and live the life they want, but most of the time the economic conditions do not allow it, and people are under pressure in society, so they can't do whatever they want.

One in 10,000.

Is this also forced by life? Now this person's heart is cold? If you tell too many of your thoughts to others, the consequences are self-evident.

The gentleman offended the villain, alas, the world is hot and cold, why bother to say it, the secret arrow is difficult to prevent is this reason, but if you say it directly, it is easy to offend some villains and some things unconsciously.

It's as hard as you think. You may think it's nonsense, but it's true.

I have been through these difficulties, so I feel it is my responsibility to share this information with those who come after me, so that they can have a comprehensive measurement and evaluation before making important life decisions. Because I know that there are many people who actually know little about the news media industry, and with a little shallow understanding, if they want to wear the void halo of the so-called "uncrowned king", they can easily flaunt how they love to do news, or feel that fashion magazines can contact luxury brands and celebrities every day, and often travel the world, so they feel that they should love to make magazines.

Chinese society is moving forward rapidly, and more and more people want to take control of their lives in their own hands, do the work they want to do, become the person they want to be, and live the life they want. The public, especially on social networking, is mass-producing inspirational chicken soup of "you have to be yourself" every day, often with a touching story of how an ordinary person in a corner of the world realized his dream and insisted on doing what he wanted to do. As a result, "living as you want" seems to be becoming less and less difficult.

There is also a direction to work hard, whether it is to work hard to be what you like or to work in the direction you hate.

However, the environment is also powerful, and if you work hard, you may not succeed, even if you work hard to do what you like, the final result may be the opposite, but after all, you have tried, isn't it?

There is a saying: "Many people spend their lives trying to live like an ordinary person." ”

However, no matter how ordinary people are, they also have extraordinary dreams; No matter how ordinary life is, there is a special joy.

No matter what life gives us, whether it is good or bad, the world is worth a visit.

There is no absolute happiness in the world, and happiness is always mixed with troubles.

Pain and sadness are what we have to face, and no matter how carefree a person is, it is impossible to have no troubles at all.

Keep a calm mind, hardships and ups and downs are just tools to help us grow.

If you can survive those difficult days, you will find that you have long been reborn as a new person.