Is this in love or maintaining a relationship? Ask a married person to enlighten a brother. 10

...I can only tell you that when a woman says she breaks up, she doesn't really want to break up, she just wants to see your untimely expression to affirm your feelings for her. It's a sign of insecurity, it's a kind of dependence, and we only spoil men who are secure.

In the future, Donu worked hard to create good material conditions for her, and then said more nice things and communicated more.

My personal opinion is to write down the questions you want to ask on the paper and memorize it, and then talk to him well, or give him the paper directly, and say, I will give you time to think about it, no matter how you choose, I will approve, if it doesn't work, then use the last resort, give up directly, and die and live: I have always liked you but you have no feelings for me now, I have worked very hard, you are still like this, I don't know how noble you are, but I can't lower my personality, this is the foundation and principle of my life, everyone has principles, You are no exception, I know you want a stable home, I may not be satisfied in a short time, but you have to understand, we don't care if we are married or not, my goal will not change, you and someone else's family may you have, that does not mean that you have sovereignty, at least we will not have such a problem when we get married, of course: no matter who you marry together, for a long time, there will be differences of opinion for some ordinary things in ordinary life, at least I am dedicated to you and the future children, I may not be able to give you so much, But I know that China's thousands of years of cultural accumulation is nothing more than the words firewood, rice, oil and salt in the mouths of ordinary people, and I only work hard for my family.

Through the above confession, I hope you think about it, you want to find someone who loves you! Or find someone you love! Think about it yourself.

This is our last chance, and I hope you think about it carefully, and you don't have to give me time right away.

The brother is too tortuous, in fact, you can promise him first, and then tell him to bear the burden together after marriage. Mature women certainly won't mind. If she doesn't agree to put you alone, then I can only tell you that she's immature or that she doesn't belong to you at all.

In fact, I think she probably doesn't love you anymore, and the reason why she is reluctant to leave you is probably because of your guilt or she has no other shoulder to rely on for the time being, so keep you first, and once she has a good place to go or she feels that the guilt is paid off, she will leave you. It is recommended that you hang her for a while, be cold to her, and hint that you have a new goal, see how she reacts, and you can make the matter clear after the conflict intensifies.

Society is changing, people are also changing, if this is not the feeling you want, it is best to cut through the mess quickly, don't be afraid of anything, the happiness of your life is fought for by yourself, don't hesitate, it will hurt yourself and the other party, think about it.

I wish you a lifetime of happiness and joy every day.

Ok, it's been explained that it's enlightenment, which means that you are ready for all kinds of things. Married people are also not emotional experts, so it is not easy to give you advice. There are a few points that I understand from a personal point of view, and I hope it will be helpful to you.

1. Your girlfriend has emotional sustenance in you and is unwilling to separate, but it is certain that she will not marry you. Second, the tug-of-war relationship I encountered, the final result is only limited to marriage, only in the stage of falling in love, because you must know that love and marriage are managed by two people, not by one person, and that will not last long after all. Third, the purpose of some people's love is to enjoy love, and they don't have to get married, maybe you happen to meet it.

All I can say is that you haven't met someone with whom you can spend your life. I was married, and we knew very well at the time that the other party was our lifelong partner, and we didn't have the slightest doubt. So we can face all kinds of difficulties together after marriage.

It's also important to ask yourself how well you know her, and you make a decision based on what you know about her, so that you don't regret it no matter what the outcome is.

First of all, I'm not married. However, this is not a problem that you will experience if you are married

Again, I must say, are you having fun together? In fact, it's not someone else who gives you the answer.,,It's what you think in your heart、、Maybe you can delay it for another three or five years.。。 But will the question change over time?

Listen to what you're thinking. Maybe our lives are not long, maybe tomorrow is the end, but we live today. So today you have to live happily, and you have to be right.

Also worthy of others.

You can ask from her friends.

What I want to say is that parents are filial love, brothers and sisters are friendship love, are different from the love of husband and wife, the most important thing is that the person who can accompany you to the end should be your lover and your partner, your girlfriend may not realize these yet, slowly she will understand.

Zhi's pretty good. I used to think that love was very important, exclusive and even the most important, but then my family changed this view. I have three brothers, the family conditions are not good, I am the youngest, and my brothers are all trying not to go to college, so I was able to finish college.

Later, my second brother was gone, my eldest brother got married, and now they all pay me back, and our brother's love is not lighter than love. During this period, there were also changes in my family in the past few years, and after thinking about it, I felt that my family was the most important thing to me. Maybe your life is smoother, without my family affection.

I'm not saying that love is not important, but it depends on how deep your affection or love is, and how deeply affection and love affect you. You haven't experienced that kind of affection from your girlfriend, so you can't. It is believed that you love each other, but before you fall in love, the affection of your girlfriend's family brings her a lot of joy and strength.

It's something you can't replace, she loves you and she loves her family. Her sister is younger than her, and as an older sister, she will naturally take care of and protect her sister, just like my brother fought with his classmates to protect me. This is where your girlfriend's heart is innocent and beautiful.

If you observe and understand more, I believe you can understand that your girlfriend can also see the changes you have because you love her. When love encounters problems, understand and care for each other, many problems will be solved, and your relationship will be deeper and stronger!

1. From the perspective of life, love is important. Because the other half is the one who will accompany you for the rest of your life;

Second, from the perspective of survival, brotherhood and sisterhood are important, because love is too unreliable, and there is no eternal love but brotherhood and sisterhood. Come to think of it, it's actually both important!

In my opinion, family affection is still important, and when you are hurt when you are not happy, it is often relatives who are with you.

Family affection will understand when you grow up.

These are two different feelings, to some extent love is more important, you are looking for someone who has accompanied you through your life, you have to spend most of your life with her, she knows her heart, understands you, cares for you, and gives you spiritual strength.

Look at the situation analysis, if the brother also sees you as a brother, but the lover is not wholeheartedly devoted to you, then the brother is more important than love. And vice versa, both of these are difficult things to choose.

If it is between husband and wife, it should be the love of husband and wife, and brothers are also important. Because you want your wife to live every day, it should be love.

If you love your lover, you should take care of his brotherly feelings, because you love him, it's as simple as that, don't think about it, unless you don't love him enough, he will slowly understand what love is.

Brothers for a while, husband and wife for life.

Women and men are fickle, and it's good for brothers and women to stay away, I personally think.

Ask the woman how she feels about your brother, how she feels about you, if she likes your brother, don't continue, the brother's relationship will not be saved.

It's better than cuckolding you in the future, think about the worst, and think about it now.

Big brother this is emotional, which means that your brother is better at picking up girls than you, flirting with sisters, and if the girl gets it, he is not interested in you, why contact you, it's because the woman originally wanted to soak your brother.

It is recommended to give up, he is very careful, and it is not worth waiting for him.

You don't need an expert, it's an individual who can explain it. No, it's wrong in this sentence. Rather, it means that he doesn't like you, or that your material conditions are not up to the mark.

What's the matter with your brother? People don't know you like that girl. The point is, what did you say to make the girl ignore you?

The difference is too big, the wife is the person who stays with him for life, and it is impossible for a brother to do it, although it is not a surname, but it has already connected fate together.

The wife is his lifelong companion, the red chess in the family, and the backing of the children.

There are many brothers, and there is only one wife.

First of all, I thank you for your friends, because in these years, you are really rare to see men and friends who really think about others, and you are used to seeing people fighting for the sake of interests.

Then it is certain that you are definitely not a pain in the ass, because a woman, since she is married, will agree to travel alone with other male classmates, it is certain that either this girl is not good enough, even if the relationship is a classmate, it can be said that it is not good enough. Either their relationship has been in crisis, and the girl has begun to figure out how to find someone else for divorce, so it involves a problem, the girl must first have a goal, a goal to confide in, and then make a further choice. And the chat history between your buddy and her will not be known, you may not know how many things people have talked about each other, so you are not wrong to be afraid that the other party will become a junior.

But what if that's not the case? You should ask your buddies this, that is, if we get married ourselves, my wife and my former male classmates go on a trip without you, and the two of us go alone, what would you think? He himself will understand the pain and discomfort of being green in the head, a person, must be upright in doing things, in order to get the respect of others, don't take the initiative to green others, and his daughter-in-law will not be green by others in the future, this is a certain thing, because integrity can be transmitted to husband and wife, the husband is a good person, an honest person, and the wife must not be wrong.

It is conceivable that the husband of your buddy's female classmate must be the master who can travel with other women, and to be honest in this situation, it is best not to swim in this pool. Therefore, as long as you ask him to think about it from his heart, he will naturally understand your feelings.

Between buddies, it is already due diligence to be able to remind him, if he understands and still decides to do it, then even if you forcibly stop him, you can't stop his heart, so why bother.

In the end, I still thank you for your sincerity, no matter if you don't convince the other party in the end, your sincerity will definitely win the trust and appreciation of more friends, at least I appreciate you. I also hope that your buddy can think more and make the right choice, I believe that this choice must have your strength, even if he still insists on the wrong, it will be a wavering mistake, and you will do your best.

There is affection in the pen.

If it is really a good buddy and a good brother, you must persuade him to think twice about this matter and plan for his future.

If you don't persuade this kind of thing at the first time, there are the following kinds of Ken from good to bad;

First: In the end, the good result is that your friends and the two of them are tired of breaking up safely.

Second: Break up the woman's family, and your friend marries the woman.

Third: Maintaining an improper relationship for a long time like this, the longer it lasts, the greater the harm, and sooner or later it will bring irreparable damage to both families.

I advise you to persuade him well. Since they are friends, they will not watch him go down this road. What is a true friend? It's about being able to care for you when you need it, and at the same time to persuade you when you see you doing something wrong, that you want to be that kind of person.

In fact, this kind of thing can only hurt oneself in the end. If you have this kind of thing with someone else's wife now, there will be people who will do this kind of thing to your own wife in the future. It's as simple as punching someone and your own hand hurts.

Tell him quickly, stop the precipice, stay away from that female classmate, and don't go out with her alone!

Family is the bottom line, and it must not be destroyed But both of them are willing, and you better know it.

Calm down! Analyze the potential harm of the third party with him! If he doesn't listen, that's his business, it's none of your business, just do your best! Your heart is in place, and you have a clear conscience.

Feelings can't be controlled, so there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone, but how to do it after falling in love, if there is a problem with the way you deal with it, it is wrong. When you choose to fall in love with a married person, you are burdened with moral condemnation. Some feelings are destined to be fruitless.