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First of all, we must let go of the heart of comparing with others, and often see the shining points of others and ignore our own strengths, so that you will never be happy. At the same time, we don't have to feel inferior, we don't need to live like others, others may have stood at the top of him, but we are just starting, as long as today is better than yesterday, every day is improving, one day we can also stand at our own peak, as for the peak of high or low completely depends on our own decision. Be a self-confident person, a confident person is the most attractive, and can give the people around him a sense of security.
In fact, boys are very simple, and they can make friendships when they fight, and they don't need to be afraid of fighting. As long as you treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely. Speaking of studying, is it necessary to be anxious?
Anxiety is because you expect too much, we have to see the reality, divide the long-term goal into several short-term goals, and then complete them one by one, in the process of completion you will feel more and more confident, and then you will be more and more successful. I wish you a sooner and greater popularity.
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You're well aware of your problem, that's good.
You can read books on mass psychology, such as beyond inferiority, beyond shyness and so on. Or other, more general, such as inspirational books on success and how to deal with people.
You just need to have the courage to change yourself.
There are ups and downs on the road to growth, but don't give up on yourself and have the courage to break through.
Courage matters.
Reading books is really important and can make you understand a lot, so, read more books.
Practice is more important.
Finally, don't give up on learning, it's your life, and you have to blame for it.
Take a good look at the advice given to you upstairs and think about what is best for you.
Full of blessings!
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Then find out your strengths. You will always have an aspect that is better than others. And then keep zooming it out. Until you can be confident.
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According to the information you have provided so far, there is a reason why you have a weak sense of achievement, escapism, lack of self-confidence, depression and anxiety, and a dazed low self-esteem, and if you are willing to communicate with me, I believe I can help you. This.
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I sincerely hope that you will come out of your inferiority complex soon. A word for you: there is only the worse, there is no worst.
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Tell us why, and we'll be able to help you.
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In my opinion, not daring to face one's mistakes is not necessarily a sign of inferiority, but it is certainly a lack of courage to admit that one's mistakes will be made. I think that this situation is generally not due to low self-esteem, but may be caused by your overconfidence. Of course, this is my personal opinion.
Because I don't know what your specific situation is, that's why I have such speculations.
Generally speaking, people with low self-esteem are prone to give up their opinions. Especially when they meet some of the more powerful people, it is easy to give up their opinions. However, I don't think facing mistakes and low self-esteem is a problem.
As the saying goes: No one is perfect. Whether you can face your mistakes is a question of whether you can accept and admit that you are not perfect; And low self-esteem is a clear character flaw.
Of course, both are not facing up to their all. The difference is that the reasons for the former can be complex, while the latter is self-indulgent.
If you don't dare to face your mistakes, you should not be able to accept your own shortcomings and shortcomings. Personally, I think this situation generally occurs in people who are overconfident.
I don't know if what I'm saying fits the answer you want. If there's anything else you want to communicate, you can send me a message. Hehe!!
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Mistakes should refer to the kind that cannot be corrected or difficult to correct, unable to face is to escape, but avoiding will escalate the mistake, facing the hurdle is the first and most important step, unable to face it should be in the heart of no solution to it, not confident, that is, what you call inferiority.
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Human nature, don't mind, you have to work hard to let yourself know that there are many benefits to facing your mistakes, try to face it, and you will find that your world will be more sunny and beautiful in the future.
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1. I don't like to communicate with people, especially with strangers, and I always worry that I am not as good as others. Second, I don't dare to express my opinions in public, for fear that if I say the wrong thing, others will laugh at me. 3. No backbone, indecisiveness, always doubting that their ability is not enough, etc.
These are caused by lack of self-confidence, you must continue to learn, try to participate in social activities as much as possible, enrich your social experience, you must firmly believe that you are not worse than anyone else, just dare not say, do it, from now on, you must be brave to face life, strengthen self-confidence. Those signs of low self-esteem will gradually get better.
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It's nothing, if your girlfriend has too many flashes, then you are willing to be her warm man, isn't this quite harmonious, you see those well-known female stars, what Fan Bingbing, Jia Jingwen, Yao Chen, etc., their husbands or boyfriends are intimate and warm men who take care of them with peace of mind, and they are also very harmonious and happy. Don't listen to some people who come up and make you tough regardless of the actual situation, that is all to pit you.
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You must not even dare to take off your clothes in the summer at home.
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You can get used to it, and you will receive it in the future.
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Because you love too much, because you care too much, you want to depend on her for everything, and you are afraid of losing.
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Did people admit that it was her girlfriend?
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