When did you feel that society and life did not match what you imagined?

Talk about a person you know, he is very picky in life, can use other people's bus card to punch in and will never use his own, every time you invite someone to dinner, you have to calculate how much money you spent last time you were invited, and then you won't spend more, of course, try to eat and drink for nothing.

I have been working in the company for two months, and I really can't understand what these colleagues are thinking in their heads, and I have suffered all kinds of white eyes.

When I just graduated, when I was 14 years old, I came to Beijing at that time, and I was alone, hoping to do a big job in this city and find my dreams, but the first thing I did was to lose money, and I thought it was a very simple thing to find a house, but because I accidentally found an intermediary, I was cheated of some money by the intermediary, which made me begin to have some vigilance against this society.

After entering the company, the environment has changed greatly, and the working and learning environment is not as quiet and quiet as in school, and I work hard every day for work.

When I went to my father's company, it was very hot in the summer, but the air conditioning in the conference room was turned on very cold. I went downstairs wrapped in my coat and waited in the security room for the driver to drive me up. The security guard blew a creaking old fan, his face was covered with sweat, and his face was flushed, and he asked me, "You have two cars at home."

I'm 17, he's 19, and I don't have anything more to do than him, but I sit back and enjoy a more comfortable life. He didn't work hard, his family conditions were not good, and he came to work after school.

There is no tuition, and they all work on their own to earn money. Look at it with a correct attitude, I really can't stand it, I can hide, I can't hide, I don't think it's very picky in life, it's just very thrifty, I buy what I should buy, and I don't want to buy what I can't buy or don't need.

The students are relatively simple-minded, similar in age, and know each other better. After entering the society, the personnel are more complicated, everyone has it, and they have to be careful in doing things, for fear of saying the wrong thing and doing the wrong thing.

After graduating, I looked for a job, but I couldn't find a professional counterpart, and the salary was so low that I couldn't even afford it.

Everyone does things differently, it's confusing, and it's hard to move forward. It feels stressful and life is not interesting.

There is a roommate who is too calculating, and he has to ask you for a dollar lent to you, and he can never suffer a loss, and he has nothing to take advantage of.

The first time I went to an interview, only five of the more than 100 people were recruited, the odds were so small, it was not as easy to find a job as I imagined, this society is cruel and too realistic.

It is necessary to adapt to society as soon as possible, because only by adapting to society as soon as possible can it take root in society.

You should quickly adjust your mentality, let yourself re-plan your life, re-choose a major that suits you, and summarize your life experience.

To adapt to society, improve your abilities, and make yourself stronger.