The happier you are when you see others, the sadder you are

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You're going to have to read a book on finances. If you don't manage your money, your money will naturally ignore you

    Do you care about other people's eyes? Don't take yourself too seriously. This makes it easy to become jealous.

    Everyone's goals and dreams in life are different. I don't think your dream is to compete and win the applause of other people, right? If you live in someone else's world, you don't have a self.

    When you meet friends and classmates, you can chat with them, and from what they say, you may know why they have today's economic strength and move closer to them. Why do they have the ability to live this life? Of course, there are many possibilities, but it is more likely to be obtained through their own hard work.

    Behind the aura of beauty is often the unimaginable hardship and sweat of others. Don't keep complaining, think about whether you have made an equivalent effort, and think about your own problems.

    Two years after graduation is still the beginning of the independent stage of life, who can have the last laugh I don't know. In the process of struggle, there are many insurmountable difficulties and an attitude towards life that you need to savor slowly.

    I think that only the rewards I get through my down-to-earth efforts are what I am happy about. It's not about doing superficial work for anyone to see, but about being right. Their happiness may only be temporary, everyone has their own difficulties, and you can't see their dark side.

    But there's no need to know. Because you are who you are, you have your own life and attitude towards life. Be yourself, and by overcoming yourself again and again in your future work and study, you will slowly find that you can do as well as you imagined! Come on

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Jealousy, very common.

    Indifferent people, now are too few to get used to. Abandon vanity. If you don't, you don't, and you can earn it tomorrow.

    Say 1800...- January is not enough to spend. You have to learn to be frugal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are two ways, one is to find comfort in someone who is worse than you, and the other is to find the reason in yourself.

    I'm sure you'll choose the second option.

    Work hard, you can do what others can do, and you will definitely have what others have.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hehe. He is a very powerful person who is oppressed by the world. It seems that you are a person who seeks fame and fortune. You can't get real happiness. Never get it. It's true. Once you understand what I'm saying, try to change your mind. There is still a long way to go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. A person who makes others miserable but rejoices himself, that is schadenfreude, ah! Such a person lacks kindness to the people around him, a person without kindness, in the process of growing up, must have been hurt, unable to fight back when he is weak, can only mentally imagine the counterattack process, seeking psychological comfort, over time, hostile to the people, things, and things around him, feeling that he will be hurt at any time, and the character is cowardly, dare not take action, and become mentally ridiculed.

    It's fun to see others suffering.

    A person who makes others miserable but rejoices himself, that is schadenfreude, ah! Such a person lacks kindness to the people around him, a person without kindness, in the process of growing up, must have been hurt, unable to fight back when he is weak, can only mentally imagine the counterattack process, seeking psychological comfort, over time, hostile to the people, things, and things around him, feeling that he will be hurt at any time, and the character is cowardly, dare not take action, and become mentally ridiculed.

    Pathological self-psychological comfort life in this society, it is impossible to have smooth sailing every day, people always have to encounter unsatisfactory times, this unhappiness will make people feel painful and even depressed. In order to alleviate their own pain and depression, when something happens to others, some people will resort to schadenfreude to relieve their own pain. They don't want to suffer alone, they want someone to share the pain.

    This is a kind of pathological self-psychological comfort, because they have been hit too much, and this pain makes people fall into a state of inextricability for a long time, and the inner depression cannot be relieved, and another thing is needed to divert attention. So, when someone else suffers something like us or something more painful than ourselves, our inner pain will be relieved and we will comfort ourselves that there are people who are more unfortunate than me, thus generating schadenfreude.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, actively adjust your mentality, everyone has their own troubles, why people can live happily, we can also do it, and be appropriately relaxed.

    I would love to have a home of my own, with a beautiful desk, but it doesn't matter if not, I would also like to have a very comfortable sofa, but it doesn't matter if not, if there are a few innocent and lively children running around at home, I will be very happy, but if there is no it doesn't matter, the most important thing is that there is you in this home, and it doesn't matter if there are others.

    The Spartans never asked how many enemies there were, only where they were!

    My favorite war lines.

    Has life changed, or have my eyes changed?

    I like to hear you say that you have not eaten, although I hear it every day, but I am like a fool, and I am moved every time.

    In the face of love, all the rebellious or strong or stubborn mortals, saints, mediocre people seem so docile, so weak and helpless, Van Gao lowered his head that was originally high in the world, Pushkin used his life to bury love, Edward VIII loved beauty but did not love the country, King Zhou would rather bear the world and live up to himself, King Zhou Youwang Fenghuo Opera princes only smiled for Bo Yanran, Wu Sangui was angry and infamous for Hongyan through the ages.

    I didn't feel bitter at all before I met you, because I knew that after meeting you, all my happiness would come together - blue life and death love.

    Because you have accomplished one thing, you have achieved success! Just feel.

    Hey, sister can listen to these Flowers' poor happiness, my juice is half of you, I like to brush it, the first day of Stefanie Sun, the dream does not fall, Xu Ruoxuan's fierce love, I decided to love you, it is all very good.

    If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will grow; If the heart is free, life will be free, and there will be happiness everywhere. When you are proud, you should be bearish, and when you are frustrated, you should look away. There are many things in life that can be let go.

    Only if you can put it down, can you afford it. Be more tolerant, be more generous, wave your hand, smile, and all unpleasantness will be a thing of the past.

    Hope. One. Subconsciously, I feel that he is not the marriage partner you imagined at the beginning.

    Two. Simple premarital phobia, to completely change the way of life, is a bit psychologically unbearable.

    Christmas will be happy and happy for everyone.

    Christmas will be happy and happy for everyone.

    When people are happy and complaining, they will say it all in one go... This may be what you are talking about.

    You can find the reason from your own psychological aspect, is it because something makes you unhappy, or is it because you are just psychologically unhappy? If it is an external cause, as time goes by, things will slowly fade away, and there is no need to worry about it. If it's because of yourself, you can watch more funny videos in small categories, and then read some books on chicken soup for the soul, as well as inspirational books, give yourself a goal and enrich yourself.

    The sun rises every day, and the key is to raise the sun in your heart.

    Because your purpose is different, your purpose is to finish, and the purpose of others is to complete the task, so people don't take it seriously, they don't run hard, of course they are not tired, and they are very happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Because everyone has their own things to care about, and only the things that they care about will be happy and sad.

    Why are some people sad when others are happy and others happy when they are sad?

    Because everyone has their own things to care about, and only the things that they care about will be happy and sad.

    I would like to ask why some people are unhappy when others are unhappy, and they themselves are unhappy when others are happy.

    Why is it that some people are so happy when they see me sad?

    Those who have a heart are afraid, and those who have no heart do not care.

    Because he doesn't like you.

    What do you mean, can you tell me more about why he has this mentality?

    What is your relationship?

    The husband and wife are divorced.

    Because he has someone else.

    After the divorce. Not before the divorce.

    It's been planned for a long time. Don't think of men as simplistic.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you want to be happy, you want to be happy, but there's no reason to be happy, right?

    Just like mine now, today is the first anniversary of my love with my boyfriend, and I thought we were going to spend a lot of fun together, but he went home and went on a blind date with another girl......

    I also want to laugh, but I can't, and I come to the Internet alone, but I don't know what to play ......

    I think you might as well find something to do for yourself if you can, and forget your troubles in a busy life!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Find out the cause of your unhappiness and then "prescribe the right medicine"!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe you want to be as happy as they are, but isn't it better to be content with the status quo, to do so much, to be your true self

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think (just my own opinion) no one knows how you feel, but sometimes you don't even know because sometimes it's chaotic

    But I think you're in a "bad mood" when you think about it.

    Because, in the "Why do I feel sad when I see others so happy?" There was one sentence when this sentence appeared.

    Seeing other people so happy and happy" "I feel sad in my heart" I think you must have been sad at that time

    "Why do I feel sad when I see others so happy? ""The question you are asking may be something like "*Peter 7 Doubts" says.

    It's just that; "A jealousy, a ...... envy”

    Be jealous of other people's happiness, envy their happiness, because you were unhappy, unhappy ...... at that time

    We need to be happy, and we need to be happy ......

    Find something fun to do......!

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