How to properly entertain in college without indulging?

If you have the energy and strengths, you will definitely find a place for you to shine in the student clubs, and if you don't have a specialty, you will also find that there is a lot of fun in club activities and a lot of places to learn.

In addition to professional courses, universities often arrange some elective courses, which can be chosen according to your hobbies, find a course you like, if you are energetic, you can also minor for a second degree, and some professional public courses are public, if you like it, you can also go to the lectures.

If you want to live a fulfilling university life, self-control is the key. Living without self-discipline is extremely negative. Maybe your classmates are addicted to the game and want you to participate with them, so I recommend staying in the dorm room as little as possible, going to the library, and going to the study room.

Rely on the environment to change your personal habits.

To change a bad habit, replace it with a good habit. From my personal experience, I am addicted to games because my self-positioning and future goals are not clear, I have not found a goal that is meaningful to my life and satisfying me, and I have nothing to do that requires my physical and mental investment.

Playing games online should be the entertainment method that many students in college will choose, for female students, when they are bored, they are more inclined to watch a variety show or chase a TV series online, and male students are different, they will choose more people to play games together. Especially after class at night, how many male classmates are night owls who don't sleep and play games in teams? It's better to play fewer games in college!

Your pastime is all about playing games, so how do you find a girlfriend? Classmates who have objects, in addition to playing games, will accompany their girlfriends to go shopping and watch a movie, how chic and comfortable the days are.

Shopping, both boys and girls, will have this kind of entertainment pastime. Especially for female students, in college, there is more leisure time, and when there is nothing to do, several girls in a dormitory will meet to go shopping. Especially when I first entered the university, many college students came from all over the country, and entering the university was equivalent to coming to a new environment, and I had a lot of curiosity about the school and the city.

At this time, the best entertainment and pastime for them is to go out shopping together on weekends in groups to feel the customs and snacks of the city where the university is located.

Participating in club activities can be both an organizer and a participant, of course, both have their own advantages, as an organizer you need to invest a lot of time and energy to organize activities, sometimes you may not be able to really participate in the activities, you can only be a behind-the-scenes worker; As a participant, you often don't feel the sense of accomplishment that comes from organizing a successful event, but you can learn from the event, feel the atmosphere and have fun.

The reasons why college students are addicted to gaming are different for everyone.

Some are caused by growthal regression, such as playing games in the early years, being deprived of the key process of growth, pretending to symbolize the lack of mentalization stage, inappropriate or interrupted connection between the inner and outer real world, and indulging in the process of self-inner feelings. It also tries to reach the realization of the ideal of reality through the game. After all, because few people can solve this psychological process of their own, it leads to disease.

In some cases, it is because parents or educators forcibly deprive children of their sense of autonomy and indulge in games to vent their long-suppressed anger or dissatisfaction. You can only get the satisfaction of your autonomy through play.

Yes, it is because of the need to grow up emotionally, because I am in a situation where the relationship with the important people related to me is broken, lonely and painful, and I need to fill the gap of my emotional needs through games. Coupled with the incomprehension of important people in the outside world, it is difficult to fill the desire and indulge in the game and cannot extricate itself. and so on, you need to seek help from psychological counseling.

Forehead... Well, this... Of course, on the one hand, the rapid development of computer technology has made the game technology more and more advanced, so it is more and more attractive to gamers, so it is even more attractive to children; On the other hand, of course, today's parents are too eager to pursue test scores, and ignore the cultivation of children's personal qualities, resulting in children's own low quality, especially the lack of good daily habits and self-control, it is easy to be attracted by the game and can't extricate themselves...

There is also the fact that the material living conditions of children are getting better and better, resulting in a lack of intuitive feelings for children's labor income You must know that children in the United States have to work on their own to earn pocket money, and there are almost no activities in this area in China.

1. In the previous issue, we talked about the development of free-range children and left-behind children into another group, and in this issue, we will talk about this group, that is, college students, and college students who are addicted to games.

2. Some people may say, "Can children who are obsessed with games in elementary and middle school still be admitted to college?" This is a very real problem, however, the reality is that today's parents are willing to spend money on their children, so a large number of various "colleges" affiliated with the name of genuine universities came into being, many of these colleges are for business purposes, they open their doors, lower the threshold, and recruit a large number of low-scoring "semi-finished" middle school students.

3. As a result, a large number of game "enthusiasts" gathered in various universities in the name of "colleges", and in this way, the children who played games before "individual combat" gradually developed into a game group of "corps combat". And it's often a crazy group, they work together in the dormitory, and often forget to sleep and eat.

4. This is because they think that they have finally completed the college entrance examination, successfully entered the university, and can be completely liberated, so they are completely relaxed in their thinking, and because they have completely left all the supervision of the family, they are like a fish in water, and they have become completely loose. In addition, the management system of the university is more relaxed than that of the middle school, and in this way, the part of the "game soldiers" in the middle school has really become a bit freewheeling, and the game mode has been completely intensified. As a result, after three or four years of college, almost all subjects were failing, and only games were the good

5. It is precisely because of this that there is now a phenomenon that some college students are not as valuable as migrant workers in society, and the same wages are long queues for college students, but migrant workers look down on them. Why is that? It's not because many college students today are simply some "semi-finished products" with no appearance and empty name, or even "inferior products" who do not learn and have no skills.

Okay, that's all for this issue, and I'll talk to you about "why are online games so attractive?" in the next issue. "The Art of War says: To fight a powerful enemy, you must know him thoroughly and learn from him.

Since online games are so appealing to children, we need to understand its appeal so that we can help children stay away from gaming.

<> college students are addicted to online games, parents need to take some measures:

1. Maintain close contact with your child. Through texting, calling, chatting on WeChat, etc., we will strengthen the sharing of life and emotional exchanges with children, so that children can always feel that they are in an environment with strong family affection, so that children are full of positive energy.

2. Educate children to recognize the disadvantages of online games. It is clarified that addiction to online games not only harms the body, but also depresses people's minds and has a huge negative impact on personal growth.

3. Help children clarify their goals in life. You can help your child set specific goals for their studies and life, teach them to be kind, and motivate them to move away from online games.

4. Strengthen communication with your child's school. You can actively learn about the situation from your child's teachers and counselors, and ask classroom teachers and counselors to strengthen students' online ethics education, and help students establish a healthy outlook on online games and a positive outlook on life.

At the same time, we should deeply understand and grasp the reasons why children are addicted to the Internet, guide children to participate in some popular campus activities, and shift their attention from online games to rich and diverse campus activities. You can also ask for mental health in schools.

The teachers of the counseling center carry out appropriate psychological intervention for the children, and guide the children to rise from playing games to examining games, so as to stimulate their potential motivation for innovation and innovation.

As a college student himself, he also needs to deeply understand some truths, understand that the main task of the university is to study, online games are just a means of relaxation, and he should not indulge in them, once he falls in, he will only fall deeper and deeper in the future, and he cannot extricate himself, so the following solutions should be taken to solve this problem: first: you must disconnect the network ** and avoid going to the Internet; Second:

Exercise or walk in your spare time to distract yourself; Third: Participate in club activities to keep yourself busy and have no time to play games.

Nowadays, many college students are addicted to online games, and some have a tendency to become addicted to online games, which requires joint efforts to solve.

So how can college students avoid being addicted to the Internet?

1.Combine work and rest.

If you want to say that it is almost impossible for a person to hold a mobile phone and a computer and not play games, especially a boy, it is almost a life-sustaining. So the first thing to do is to combine the work and rest group, you can play but the time is limited, and you can't play anytime and anywhere. For example, when I was in college, I didn't play games during the week, and I could only play as long as I wanted on Sundays.

At first, I will play for a day, but after a long time, I don't want to play so much.

2.Have your own rhythm of life.

Let's talk about why I don't play games during the week, in fact, the reason is very simple, it is busy during the week. I go to class during the day, I have to go to the club after class, and I exercise in the dormitory at night**, and the best time is when I have three people in the dormitory to exercise with me. Every day is full of schedules, and I won't play games because I have nothing to do.

On the contrary, when it comes to a fixed time, I will have relatively fixed things to do, that is, I must have my own rhythm of life at school, what to do today, what to do tomorrow......

3.Develop a hobby.

I don't know if you've noticed, but people who often play games all night in the dormitory don't have any hobbies, at most a few people like to go out to play basketball, or everyone gets together to play games. When we don't have a favorite hobby, bored we will naturally think of the Internet, click on WeChat to see if there is any new news, browse the circle of friends to see if there are any new trends, when you have a clearer hobby, you will find that you want to study and study when you are empty, which is also a good way to avoid addiction to the Internet.

One of my classmates started playing games every day, and he didn't know what to do except play games every day, and the reason he played games was that he didn't like his major and was bored in class. Later, in order to change, he learned to bartend by himself, read books in class, and went back at night to practice the imperial calendar for his roommates.

4.I am not addicted to the Internet at heart.

To put it bluntly, the above way is to divert attention through other things, so as to reduce one's dependence on the network. But the execution of all this requires our own hearts to be on the Internet is not. It's not that you won't be allowed to touch the network, but it's to be moderate and reasonable.

Only if we come up with it ourselves, then the above methods will make you feel like a tiger, otherwise it will only be a drop in the bucket.

The harm of addiction to the Internet to college students should not be underestimated, some people have studied professional knowledge for four years, and after graduation, they don't even know the basic knowledge of their major, how to find a place for themselves in the professional field, so they should apply the Internet.

Cons: College is a waste if it's only used for gaming. To participate in more clubs, it is better to make friends of the opposite sex and keep yourself busy.

Sometimes it's not that you want to do it, but that the people around you do it, and you have no choice but to encounter such a situation, the first thing to do is to understand yourself first, understand whether you have strong self-control, if you have it, don't stay in the dormitory for a long time, often participate in outdoor sports, and take college courses. If you don't have a lot of self-control, then I advise you to change dormitories. It's too late to change yourself, don't leave your regrets to your senior year.

Parents are very hard to train their children to go to college, children should take on social responsibility, cherish the opportunity to get into college for ten years, don't think that everything will be fine if you are admitted to college, if you are addicted to games in college, let go of yourself, then you can only face the road of failing and dropping out of school in the end. You can also work and study to help deliver meals in the canteen, so that you can not only earn money. The canteen will also give you some meals, you don't have to spend money to buy food, you know that you can save about 300 yuan a month by spending less on one meal a day.

<> Li: I think it should be fun in college, but you must not stay in the dormitory to play the computer, organize more friends to play, such a college life is wonderful, I remember that I skipped class and played games with friends when I was a sophomore, although the time was not used to study, but I have no regrets, because my college life is colorful It doesn't matter what to play games or anything, the key is not to indulge too much, proper entertainment should be rested, but excessive games will not work, Because the task of most college students is still to study, learn knowledge, learn skills, learn how to get along with others, learn how to gain a foothold in society, these are what college students should do, and playing games is an entertainment behavior on the basis of completing these, just like some office workers will watch TV after work, in fact, as long as it is not excessive, it is normal. There are very few college students who don't play games now.

We can't say that the game is a bad game, it's an act of recreation.