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How can there be a good mother-in-law in the world? A man with a mother can't ask for it, just in his heart, his mother is the treasure, and the daughter-in-law is a grass, **can be found, are you happy** finding? A man whose mother is still alive had better not get married, that would harm others and himself.

Women should also not marry a man who has a mother, otherwise they will regret it for the rest of their lives.

Leave, must leave!

I won't marry a phoenix man at all, and I won't get divorced, and I don't think I have more money to support his whole family? It's better to travel abroad with this money.

Such a person will not marry him, where does the divorce come from, this kind of person will not have a good life when married, as if you owe his family, as soon as you enter the door, you will keep paying off the debt, and if you don't eat, you will not be able to pay off this ungrateful disaster for his family for a lifetime.

The phoenix man is the most suitable for finding the phoenix woman, both of them need to be subsidized, fair, don't harm the peacocks in the city.

What if the woman uses her salary to subsidize her mother's family!

I don't know what's wrong with this society.

Look at the actual situation. If it is a deliberate transfer of money, then it is definitely gone. If it is a special case, it will not be considered.

My husband is also from the countryside, however, it is not too much for his family, my own mother's family, my father and brothers are five, and several other uncles are afraid of their wives, my father is filial, and he was poor at that time, although he is the leader of the state-owned unit, but our sisters have not spent a penny, he comes back once a year, as long as he comes back, my grandmother will pretend to be sick, my father gave all the money to grandma, my mother has a very, very good temper, good can be said to have no temper, but also sulked, until my grandmother died at the age of 100, my father did not give money. My mother's poor one dragged five of us sisters to grow up in the countryside, and it wasn't until the national policy changed that we could bring our families and our family ended our separation.

First of all, when we got married, we had to buy a house by ourselves, and second, our two sons, my in-laws didn't help, so it was impossible for my husband to send money home unless he was sick in the brain.

Such a person will not get married at all, let alone fall in love with the Phoenix man, so it is even more impossible to have a marriage.

What's the matter, there are twenty left to do, it's not enough for the children to spend, let alone daily expenses.

1.As long as both parties have a good relationship and are emotionally stable, then do not divorce. After all, you have to know that your salary is high now, and one day his salary is higher than yours, so does he need a divorce?

So don't think that men's wages need to be higher than women's, you are wrong to think so. As long as the relationship between the two parties is stable, then whoever has a high salary is a good thing, it is all for the family, don't worry about such serious things.

2.In addition, don't really think that the salary is a factor that affects marriage, as long as you still have to pay for this family, you love each other, so you are not afraid, so you must not divorce easily, you are not easy to be together, you will have regrets after divorce.

Divorce has nothing to do with wages, no one says that men necessarily earn more than women. It mainly depends on how your relationship is.

Freedom to marry. If you want to get a divorce, you can get a divorce, but you should hurry up and don't delay it for a few years or longer, which is a disservice to both parties. A higher salary than your husband is not a requirement for divorce, and it is not uncommon for a woman to earn more than a man.

The key is whether the man is responsible, whether he loves you very much, and makes due contributions to your small family; Moreover, you are not stupid, you are not selfish, you don't just care about your brothers and brothers, seven aunts and eight aunts, and ignore your small family. Also, the three views of two people should be basically the same, and they should have a positive spirit. It is not good to be content with the status quo, not to make progress, and to always eat soft rice, and it is not worth staying together for a lifetime.

Cut, what did you do earlier, don't get married in the first place! You're too powerful, leave! The house is not reluctant, is it?

What did you think about it? The vows I made when I got married were all forgotten by the new one. Since you want a good life, let's leave quickly!

For the sake of a house, the elementary school has a lot of dreams at night, and the chickens fly and the eggs are beaten. I said really, the longer it drags on, the more variables there are, and if you want to embrace a good life, you have to be vigorous and resolute.

This mainly depends on whether your relationship is still there, and if the relationship is still there, you should give the other party a chance to change. As the old saying goes: thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi. Everything will change.

Of course, if you really want to leave, just leave.

It shouldn't be, unless I didn't particularly like it when we were together, but the conditions were okay, make do with it, maybe the economic conditions are good, and I will leave him, but if it's true love, it won't, because life is so long, just look at the money in front of you and divorce, it's too hasty, thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, who hasn't fallen yet.

Then why did you marry him in the first place?

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, go to the original marriage registration authority or the civil affairs department where either party is registered to go through the divorce formalities and receive the divorce certificate with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties; It can be done on the same day.

In the case of a litigated divorce, one party may file a lawsuit unilaterally in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant is not registered but has resided for more than one year. If there is no major dispute, the summary procedure will be applied, which will generally be completed in about 3 months, and if the case is more complicated, it will be transferred to the ordinary procedure, which will be completed in about 6 months.

Article 32 of the Marriage Act stipulates that a divorce shall be granted if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails.

If the prosecution does not provide evidence of the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, such as: bigamy or cohabitation of the spouse with others, domestic violence, gambling, drug abuse, separation for two years due to emotional discord, etc., the court will not grant a divorce, and the prosecution can only file a lawsuit 6 months after the first-instance judgment takes effect, and the second lawsuit will generally grant a divorce.

In the event of a divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children and the woman.

According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China:

Article 39: At the time of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by agreement between the two parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children and the woman.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

Article 40: Where husband and wife agree in writing that property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall belong to each other, and one party has paid more obligations for raising children, taking care of the elderly, assisting the other party in work, etc., they have the right to request compensation from the other party at the time of divorce, and the other party shall make compensation.

Article 41: At the time of divorce, debts originally incurred by the husband and wife while living together shall be repaid jointly. If the joint property is insufficient to be repaid, or the property is owned by each other, it shall be repaid by agreement between the two parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

Article 42 At the time of divorce, if one party is in difficulty, the other party shall give appropriate assistance from his or her housing and other personal property. The specific measures shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

Did you find another man and this man to get the license? It's different from my parents, embarrassed, and my brother? This man can't provide housing, and the two of them can't rent a house to live in.

It should be possible, provided that you can still allow a person to come in and live in the conditions you live in now, and it is your own sister. It's best to tell your wife what he means.

There is a way to live with you, and since you get a part of the property, you must consciously be filial.

A divorced woman has found a man's house where a man should live, and it is not common for me to stay in my brother's house for a long time. If the house isn't yours, you can turn a blind eye and leave it alone. If the house is yours, you have the right not to let them live in your house.

It depends on the wishes of the younger brother and sister-in-law, and if the younger brother and sister-in-law agree, it's okay, but if they don't agree, the eldest sister-in-law can't move in.

This one? I found a man again, doesn't the man have a house? It's definitely not convenient to stay at my brother's house! After all, the younger brother's family still has their own life, and it is inconvenient for many people.

Not good. Live in the man's house or rent a house. Or do your own house to live in.

This is a personal matter, outsiders can't be sure, think about it yourself, the decision is in the hands of your younger brother, and you can do it yourself whether you can do it or not.

Yes, yes! But why not go to the house of a man who doesn't live in his sister-in-law?

As long as my brother's family has no opinion, it's fine.

Parents are here, but it's not okay to live in my brother's house.

As long as my brother has a vacant room to live in.

The husband's family is patriarchal, and if the relationship between the two parties does break down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, divorce can be considered; Otherwise, it is advisable to think carefully, after all, divorce is not child's play. There are many reasons for divorce, generally because the relationship between the two parties has indeed broken down, and there is no possibility of reconciliation; Otherwise, there will be no divorce. Other reasons include drug abuse, gambling, domestic violence, and repeated repudiation.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

Where there is a change in the size of the family, the change formalities shall be promptly completed with the original examination and approval organ, and the review by the original examination and approval organ shall be accepted. If the requirements for subsistence allowance are not met after review, the application for subsistence allowance will not be approved.

Article 10 of the Regulations on the Minimum Livelihood Security for Urban Residents If there is a change in the per capita income of urban residents' families enjoying the minimum livelihood security benefits for urban residents, they shall promptly inform the administrative examination and approval organs through the residents' committees and go through the formalities for suspending, reducing or increasing the issuance of the minimum livelihood security benefits for urban residents.

The administrative examination and approval organs shall periodically conduct inspections of the household income of urban residents who enjoy the minimum subsistence allowance for urban residents.

Urban residents who are of working age but have not yet been employed shall participate in public welfare community service work organized by their residents' committees during the period of enjoying the minimum subsistence guarantee benefits for urban residents.

Article 13 of the Measures for the Implementation of the Regulations on the Minimum Livelihood Security for Urban Residents in Beijing shall perform the following obligations during the period of enjoying the minimum livelihood security benefits for urban residents:

1) Promptly report changes in family personnel and income, and accept periodic reviews;

2) Those who are within the working age and have the ability to work shall take the initiative to find employment or accept the work introduced by the relevant departments; Provide the employment status certificate issued by the relevant departments to the sub-district office or township (town) people** every quarter, and report the employment situation;

3) Those who are of working age, have the ability to work, and are not yet employed, shall participate in public welfare community service labor organized by their residence (home) or village committee.

Article 14: When there is a change in the population and income status of a family enjoying the minimum subsistence guarantee for urban residents, the change formalities shall be handled in accordance with the original examination and approval procedures; When the hukou is moved, the applicant shall go to the civil affairs bureau of the area or county where the original hukou is located to go through the formalities for changing the security benefits within 30 days, and those who fail to do so within the time limit shall reapply.

In this case, the child should mostly follow the mother, because first, the child is only three years old, still young, and may be in the stage of dependence, and under normal circumstances, the child will be more dependent on the mother, so the child may be awarded to the mother. The second reason is that because it is a girl, the little girl's mind is very fragile, and the court will take into account the child's psychological development, so from the perspective of these two advantages, I think most of them may be awarded to the mother.

But if you don't have a job or can't afford to raise the child, and your income is unstable, the court will consider many factors when you try to raise the child, and then consider it as appropriate, so you should try to show evidence to prove that you have the ability to raise the child, including his psychological care, as well as her material provisions, what you have to prove is that you have the financial ability, because the court still has to take into account the child's future growth. It's not just about who the child is close to, it's also about your ability to provide a good living condition and quality of life for the child.

And from the perspective of personal feelings, the average little girl, and only three years old, it is best to give it to her mother, but in the process of taking the child, do not instill in the child any of these things about the contradictions between your husband and wife, which will affect her future psychological development, it is best to tell her that you and your father are only temporarily separated for a period of time, and there is no big misunderstanding and contradiction In this case, you can guarantee the image of his father in his heart, and do not try to slander his father, The conflict and problem arise between the two of you, and it is best if you can not involve the child.

It is said that the daughter is the mother's little padded jacket, we can all understand a mother's love for her daughter, since this is the case, we should strive to let him grow up by his side, and ensure that his mental and physical health can develop.