I have a problem, I am always hesitant to do anything, and I can t make up my mind

From your heart, the goods you want to buy are low, ***. When the quality of the items you see is very average and not to your liking, you compare and compare, pick and choose.

Buying something in the supermarket is related to life experience. Once you've seen the item, choose the best one, and if you do it often, you'll get into the habit of shopping fast.

Hahahaha is normal, relaxing. You know just now a guy who used to love me and I used to love said to me, "Come out of winter vacation," and then I said "um," and then I said "um... Then I said "no", and when I said "no", in a few seconds, I felt like I wanted to go again.

Finally, almost as I told you about my experience, I told her "I would love to". You know it's just a normal feeling."

Actually, so am I.

When I see something. I'm not thinking about whether to buy or not, but two things that are the same, such as different colors. I couldn't make up my mind, I didn't know which one to choose.

One time I actually looked there and looked and chose and chosen. It took about ten minutes to grind. Ay.

I really doubt what I'm going on.

Every time it comes up, remind yourself and quickly choose one not to think too much about it, try it over and over again.

This situation is common to everyone, and if this is a mental illness, then there are many people with similar mental illnesses in the world. Sometimes, you don't have to worry too much about everything.

Be decisive Look at others to do things calmly, and you go to learn.

Ahhh And I have to say it, otherwise my heart will feel ungrounded, and it will itch.

Huh. Relax a little and don't think about it! Buy things by feeling! The first feeling, if you want it, don't want it, don't think about it deliberately, the more you think about it, the more annoying your brain Hey, the same kind Oh .! Plus talk about it)

Summary. Calm down: Eliminate external interference and cues, stabilize emotions, and carefully analyze from one side to the other, from the surface to the inside, which also helps to cultivate a decisive will.

If you can't make up your mind, follow your sixth sense, whether it's right or wrong, you don't have to regret success or failure, at least you work hard.

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Psychology believes that people's decision-making has a great deal to do with their knowledge and experience. The more knowledge and experience a person has, the higher the level of decision-making and omen. The lower it is. This is also what the saying goes, "courage and knowledge, knowledge and courage." ”

What's the matter?

Can you tell the teacher?

The teacher helps you with ideas.

Okay, calm down: Eliminate external interference and bring arguments and hints, stabilize emotions, and carefully analyze from one side to the other, from the surface and from the inside, which also helps to cultivate the will to argue decisively. If you can't make up your mind, just follow the sixth sense, no matter if it's right or wrong, you don't have to regret success or failure, at least you work hard.

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

Feel the choices with your heart, and generally the best or most desired choice will feel strong.

Hello, in this case, 1 you can calm down, try to choose one of the ideas, deduce it, and see if you are satisfied with the predetermined results. 2You can find a familiar person and ask him to help you analyze it through the eyes of a bystander. Questions?

Question: My aunt will go out tomorrow and don't know if she will go.

The question is not, do I want to go or not.

My aunt told me to go.

Question: Tomorrow's National Day, I will go to a place 100 kilometers away from the city to soak in hot springs and climb the mountain with my family, and I will go for two days, and I don't know whether to go or not now.

If two things are equally important, then flip me a coin, which I often do.

You should choose wisely, but I don't know what you're talking about

If it were me, I would choose what is good for me

"If you really can't make up your mind, ask your friends or the people next to you, and they will help you analyze it, so that your thinking will be opened, and then the choice will be clearer."

But in most cases, what makes people hesitate is that there is no specific quantitative value reference for many things, and the value of which is sometimes difficult to distinguish between high and low in detail and specifically, and it is more about the choice made for one's own situation.

This kind of time is the most hesitant time, some things are to choose which one is suitable, which one to choose can not choose the other, each has its own benefits, fish and bear paws can not have both, so it will hesitate.

Then it is not without a solution, first of all, you have to clearly understand yourself, your own preferences, advantages and disadvantages and various pros and cons. Then according to the bias of the matter, do a specific analysis, and then make assumptions, what will be the result of choosing one of them, whether it is closer to your goals or ambitions, and whether it will help you a lot, and then consider the pros and cons of the other option. It's relatively easy to choose.

This is a typical disbelief in oneself, only by establishing one's own confidence and believing in oneself can one get rid of this problem.

How do we develop our own judgment? If you think something is right, then let it go, it's worth doing; If you feel that things are so worthless, then it is better to do it slowly as if it were leisure. Hesitation, the biggest problem, is the lack of judgment, so learn to slowly exercise your own judgment ability in ordinary things, when you can judge the good and bad, then do things in the future, you will have sufficient judgment ability to do anything.

It may be due to personality reasons, or it may be due to environmental factors, or it may be due to family influences.