Adverse psychological manifestations of adolescent interactions

It has long been a fact that the psychological problems of adolescents are becoming more and more serious, and authoritative child psychiatric experts have pointed out that one-third of China's primary and secondary school students are in China.

1. A quarter of college students have varying degrees of psychological disorders!

The holidays are supposed to be a good time to relax, but the upcoming new semester is a bit unpleasant. Although the epidemic has been effectively controlled in China, it is still "a wave of unsettled, wave after wave". At the same time, the things that happen around us from time to time make us worry for a while:

A 9-year-old girl in Xi'an jumped off a building at home and died, leaving a suicide note with two cherry blossoms before her death, saying that she "can't do anything in Xi Peicong";

A 12-year-old boy in Nanning, Guangxi, was blamed by his father for being addicted to mobile phones and jumped to his death from the 32nd floor the next day;

A college entrance examination candidate in Henan suddenly got up during the exam and tore up the answer sheets of two other classmates;

Not to mention the hit drama "The Hidden Corner", the academic bully Zhu Chaoyang who slowly shows the dark side of psychology, ......

Signs that the child has a psychological problem.

Signal 1: Disgusted with school.

When children don't like school, parents will instinctively be vigilant and will look for problems in the external environment: the school's teaching methods are too rigid? Misconduct of the teacher?

Is a child being bullied at school? ......Of course, these could be the causes. However, if the child's performance is too different from other classmates, then parents should be alert to whether there is something wrong with the child's mental health.

Signal 2: Addicted to the Internet and games.

Nowadays, we can't live without the Internet almost all the time. However, if the child is too indulged in the void and cautious about the world, or even gives up his future, school, and interpersonal relationships, it may not only be unable to control himself, but also have psychological problems.

Signal 3: Procrastination.

If your child procrastinates only occasionally, it may be because he or she is lazy. But if it keeps procrastinating, everything is delayed - control and guidance are ineffective, then what parents should do is not how to "educate", but should use scientific methods to solve children's psychological problems.

Signal 4: Don't go out.

Teenagers are lively by nature, love outdoor activities, and like to have all kinds of fun, if they don't like to go out for a long time and be an otaku and a housegirl, it is likely to have psychological problems.

Signal 5: Don't socialize with people.

There's a difference between being introverted and not socializing with people. Although introverted children do not like to express themselves, they will send signals that they are interested in people through their eyes and body language, and they do not want to be the center of the crowd, but they like to stay among their friends. If a child does not socialize with others, and even good friends become more and more estranged, parents should be very vigilant.

Signal 6: Disgust with teachers.

Similar to the first signal, parents have to find the reason for their children in addition to the reason for looking for the teacher. If the child has always had no opinion on the teacher, and suddenly starts to dislike the school and the teacher, it may be sending a signal that he is disgusted with the world.

Signal 7: Puppy love.

It is human nature for boys and girls to have a good impression of each other, and mentally healthy children can handle it well.

1. Reduce or do not want to communicate with teachers and classmates, often act alone, and do not fit in;

2. You will feel anxious and depressed, depressed, and inattentive, and lose your interest in Xingzhou for the people and things around you.

Nowadays, many children have psychological problems, so as a parent, you must closely observe your child's daily phenomena and psychological changes

Common psychological problems in adolescents can include adjustment disorder, school boredom, and manifestations of social phobia and depression.

Usually after changing to a new school, it will lead to physical discomfort, which will also cause an attitude of disgust with school, which will lead to negative emotional symptoms, and dare not face and speak when seeing friends of the opposite sex or pure friends, and even cause fear, and long-term failure to improve may lead to depression. It will lead to sighing and often sad emotions, and you need to go to the hospital for a psychiatric examination, and you can choose the method of psychological intervention**.

The first point, such as depression, depression is easy to appear depressed, unhappy, pessimistic, disappointed, have strong negative thoughts about the future, low self-esteem, self-blame, at this time in adolescence is easy to appear depression problems.

The second point is anxiety disorders, such as all kinds of nervousness, fear, and worry, it is difficult to calm down, and it is easy to fall into anxiety and tension, and cannot extricate oneself.

Third, problems such as declining academic performance, reluctance to study, poor motivation to learn, and even reluctance to go to school, tension and anxiety with classmates, etc., may be especially common in adolescence.

Summary. Parents should pay attention to this situation in their teenage children.

Parents should pay attention to this situation in their teenage children.

Children at this age are in a rebellious period, so be curious, don't worry too much.

You can talk to the child in a friendly way, you must maintain the dignity of the child, you can't hurt the child's self-esteem, shouting Xingjing can let the father educate him, and the knowledge of biology is hidden, and ask him if he has someone who likes Zheng Shenhuan, whether he is in early love.

If it's out of curiosity, that's fine! I found it under the pillow in his room tonight and it me off.

When I asked him what he was buying it for, he said he had bought it and looked at it.

This is normal psychology.

If the child is curious, he can ask his father to tell him.

Don't shy away from it. Thank you.