Because I like each other too much but don t want to be together, what is the experience?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-05
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I am afraid that I will never see each other again after making a desperate bet, and I am also afraid of the gains and losses after being lucky together. I only wish to be as light as water with you, and I will not get drunk in a thousand cups.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Like does not necessarily have, love does not necessarily have to get, many things can not be as desired, but we will harvest touched happiness and happiness, like is a kind of beauty, I can quietly give, watching your every move, this is a full memory.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I like it too much, so I'm afraid of losing, I'm afraid that I won't see him when I get up every day, which will make me feel very panicked.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The experience is that I regret that I didn't take the plunge and pluck up the courage to say to her the words that I had practiced in the mirror 10,000 times. If I had been given a chance to do it all over again, I would rather go up and play a passer-by and watch the prince step on my back to marry the princess, rather than sit in the audience and applaud against my will. Of course, there's nothing wrong with having a crush.

    It's just that bravery should be celebrated.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's like getting a piece of candy as a kid. This piece of candy is so beautiful, so different, it must be very delicious. Carefully open the package, stick out your tongue and lick it, and the sweetness spreads all over your body along the tip of your tongue.

    But I was reluctant to eat it, so I wrapped the sugar again, and kept thinking about the sweetness in my heart, and when I couldn't help it, I secretly opened it and quietly sweetened it. Every time I open the package, I look forward to it and feel heartache. I will look forward to that little bit of sweetness, and I will be heartbroken that the beautiful sugar is not good for me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I watch the movies he recommends to me, follow the dramas he likes, and listen to the songs he likes to listen to. After a long time, I don't think it's too bad for what he likes. We talked a lot, from the news to his girl to the jokes I saw, and after a long time, my opinion on one thing would not be much worse.

    I care about everything about him, and I am willing to spare no effort in whatever he does. Even so, he never realized he was special, and neither did I. Because I never wanted to be with him, never.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I really don't want to be with you anymore, it's so painful to be with you. I looked at Hongya Cave at night, and the first thing I thought of was the opportunity to come and see with you, and the second second the news was sent, I remembered that you were having an affair with other girls, and silently clicked withdraw.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, until now, I can't know my mind clearly, because I've never held hands, and I can't sleep with excitement in the first three years because I just liked the scene together, and now I don't want to be together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's because I like it so much that I don't want to be together, and I want to keep my good expectations all the time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Distance produces beauty, and after being together, you will find that each other's shortcomings have ruined the image of the male god in your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After I realized that he was really irreplaceable to me, I used to think I liked him. So one day I said, I like you. He said, thank you. I thought about it, and he didn't like me. Surprisingly, I wasn't sad at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not really liking, liking is wanting to be with him all the time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Standing in the distance and quietly admiring it may be the right choice for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are several reasons why I don't like it so much after being together. 1. The freshness is gone, there was a lot of freshness in the past, and I always felt that I wanted to know more, and my curiosity was very heavy. 2. Shortcomings exposed, with in-depth understanding, you find that you have a lot of shortcomings, I always think he is perfect before, but now I see him may not flush the toilet, eat and wash the dishes, will make you feel that he is not good, he is also so not particular, it turns out that he has been sorted out in front of you.

    3. Desire, I always hoped that he could bring you something, and I had a strong sense of expectation, but after that, he rejected you more, and over time, I didn't have a good impression of him, and I felt that he didn't love you very much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, it should not be to a certain extent, although they like each other, but not to the extent of being together.

    There are so many examples of this, and many people obviously like each other, but they haven't reached the point where they are together. So they will engage in ambiguity, but most of them will engage in it and there will be no follow-up. When two people are not sure how to feel, they will generally get to know each other again and spend more time together.

    After all, falling in love is not a casual thing, and there are many disadvantages of being together too quickly, it is easy to break up, and the emotional foundation is not enough.

    To put it bluntly, if two people have been ambiguous for a while, most of them don't like it enough, and they can't hide it if they like it enough. Most people are like this, hoping to be able to quickly confirm the relationship, how can it be delayed? However, there are also some boys who will have a lot of ambiguous objects, and in the end, he will generally weigh the pros and cons and choose a favorite girl to be with.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like and don't want to be together, because you can't be completely sure of this love, you can't be sure what this relationship will bring you, you don't know how much happiness this relationship can bring you, so you will hesitate, I don't know whether to be together, if you are sure of this relationship, you will love her without hesitation, to care for her. Like and don't want to be together because you don't love him enough, if you love him, then you will want to be with him, want to be with him forever, and don't want to be separated from him. If there is no misunderstanding between you, then you will want to be with him and don't want to be separated from him because you love him.

    You like and don't want to be together because you are not confident enough, and if you are confident enough, then you will want to be with him and not want to be separated from him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't want to be together, it's not necessarily that you don't like it, because when two people are together, you have to see if it's suitable, if it's not suitable, you will definitely not be able to go to the end, so you need to think about a lot of questions. Without basic life security and skills, who would dare to fall in love easily? It's not that many people don't like each other, but they think about a lot of issues.

    In fact, this is a very real problem. Most young people's desire for love is far lower than their desire for work and career, both men and women.

    Most people have no desire, or lack the courage to pursue the opposite sex, and do not want to be in a fruitless relationship. If you spend all your time and energy on self-improvement, the benefits will far outweigh the love. Because as soon as you enter into a relationship, you will have to put in a certain amount of time, energy, and money, and you will invest a lot of costs.

    Of course, it's best to go smoothly to the end. However, if you break up after a year or two, or even three or five years, it will not only delay your career development, but also miss out on some good opportunities.

    Today's young people don't like to fall in love and all want to make money, because without money, we can't do anything. Those aspiring young people are well aware of their strengths and weaknesses. Until they have a certain value, their only goal is to make money.

    Even those who do not want to struggle, who are willing to lie flat, who understand their shortcomings, talk when they meet the right people, enjoy life when they are not satisfied It doesn't matter that love is not a necessity of life for today's young people. Only by having a certain occupation, money, and social status can the long-term stability of the relationship be guaranteed.

    Most people who are reluctant to fall in love, or who have an attitude of rejection towards love, have been defeated by love many times, waking up in love, no longer fighting blindly, finding the root of the problem and resolving these contradictions one by one. In today's society, the pressure of housing prices, work pressure, work pressure and life pressure make everyone breathless. We really don't have that much energy and capital to invest in love, to solve the pressure of survival, not to let ourselves be eliminated by society.

    Now young people are not worried about love at all, but money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I think that if you don't want to be together, you don't like it, because if you like someone enough, then you will especially want to be with each other all the time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, because many people will have such a situation, two people will have some conflicts in the process of getting along, so there will be some problems together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No. Because in addition to love in the adult world, there is reality, and there will be realistic reasons for not wanting to be together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First of all, one of the biggest feelings is that I feel inferior.

    Life itself is to find a person who loves each other and cares about each other for the rest of his life, which is the happiest thing for any person, and if you like someone, but the other party doesn't like you, and even hates you a little, then for you, it is undoubtedly a tragedy.

    I had encountered a similar thing in my college years, I was preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, I signed up for a tutorial class, and during the class stage, I met a girl, she was from the School of Economics and Management of our school, studying financial management, and she was relatively handsome.

    Once, on the way back to school after class, I used to chat with her, and then added QQ, which lasted for more than a month, and then I slowly became familiar with her, ready to confess to her, but because I was in the graduate school entrance examination, I was worried about affecting the review efficiency of both parties, so I chose to wait.

    When I finished the graduate school entrance examination, I plucked up the courage to confess to her, but she politely rejected me, saying that we were still good friends, and she didn't like me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Pain, helplessness, loss and sadness.

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