What if you can t understand anything at the age of twenty six?

Hello, according to the situation you described, it may have something to do with everyone's personality, you must be a more introverted person, it is recommended that you still exercise yourself more, ask to communicate with others, communicate.

It is also possible that this situation is due to long-term psychological pressure, and the spirit is in a state of high tension, which is a symptom, and it is recommended to relax the mood, maintain a good attitude, and pay attention to rest more.

It is recommended that you should avoid reading social books, participate in more group activities, exercise your social networking, and think about it before you speak it out.

Language learning is accomplished through the joint acquisition of language skills (explicit system) and the implicit system of language, and the ultimate acquisition of language ability depends on the implicit system, and the explicit system plays a role of help and monitoring---. Most of the second language knowledge construction of learners after the critical period (critical period: the learner misses the key time point of language learning --- 6 years old, 12 years old, inconclusive--- and starts to learn the second language, and the level of this language will never reach the level of native speakers) is mostly language skills, and a small part is implicit knowledge system (in fact, it is difficult to distinguish which part of a person's second language knowledge is implicit and which part is explicit). As language skills continue to help build implicit knowledge systems, second language proficiency also improves.

First, I would like to explain this phenomenon in terms of the fact that the acquisition of language skills is different from the acquisition of language implicit knowledge. Language skills, in short, the ability to use language. The acquisition of language skills generally refers to the language skills about listening, speaking, reading and writing that we learn in the classroom or when we consciously learn the rules and usage of a language (because these skills are consciously trained by us, they are explicit knowledge and correspond to implicit language knowledge).

The implicit language knowledge system is a language system that exists outside people's consciousness, and our mother tongue acquisition is basically the process of establishing the implicit language system--- no Chinese mother tongue is established through conscious learning rules, right? If you don't have knowledge of linguistics, can you explain which thirteen are the thirteen uses of "了""? We don't know it, but we can use it perfectly, it's an implicit system outside of our consciousness at work.

Mother tongue acquisition is acquired through the implicit system of language, and generally speaking, the phenomenon of the subject is the opposite, most of the knowledge construction of your native language (is it Uyghur) is implicit knowledge system, and language skills are much worse. Because when you were growing up, your native language helped you build an implicit language system unconsciously, but the contemporaneous acquisition of your native language (technically, Chinese is also your native language) affected your opportunities for the export of your native language. At the same time, your implicit language system is imperfect.

I'll explain this in the second aspect. As another example that is closer to the subject, there is a study that asks learners of English to judge the legitimacy of a grammar rule that they have never learned in class or consciously: who do you want to invite to the party?

who do you wanna bring the potato chips to the party?They have not learned about wanna, but they can correctly judge that 1 sentence is valid and 2 sentences are not, which indicates that they have established implicit knowledge about wanna. Can.

This shows that the reaction is slow, the brain is slow to react, it is recommended to communicate with others more, so that it will be better in the long run. We had a stutter here before, and we also went out to work for a few years, and it slowly became a bit smoother.

Practice slowly, find someone to talk to, and talk more naturally.

Usually talk a lot about interacting with people, and it will get better if you practice regularly for a long time.

Is it mute? You can communicate in sign language or handwriting.

Is it due to the language barrier? You can adjust yourself and try to communicate with people more. I take a bloody occasion for many people. Don't be shy. Build self-confidence first.

It's because I don't have an independent life, but if I can be independent at home or at work, I will know a lot of things, and I will have the opportunity to do things.

Go to the society to work hard, for the purpose of making money and improving yourself, endure hardships, and if you can survive, you will succeed.

It's okay, it's good to go to the society, the big family of society can learn a lot of things, not only to train people, but also to cultivate people, so that you can progress and grow every day.

26 years old, I don't know anything and don't take anything. Now this high-tech society patronizes, studies, patronizes, and works under so much pressure, and I don't want to do so much.

Participate in social practice and learn on the job. Exercise your ability in practice, make more friends, learn more from others, and participate in more gatherings between friends. Exercise your character in practice. It'll get better slowly.

The child understands everything, but he doesn't speak.

It should be taken very seriously.

Take your child to a good hospital in time to see a doctor.

For example, the Children's Hospital in Beijing.

Don't let your child lose at the beginning of life.

Parents will blame themselves for the rest of their lives.

Some children speak late, so there is no need to worry. When my child was young, he was able to stand on his own at 10 months and walk at the age of 1, but he didn't speak, he just didn't talk when he wanted to take things, and he didn't talk until he was 2 years old, and he spoke very well at the beginning. It doesn't matter if you have good ears.

People say that they are deaf and dumb, and if they are deaf, they may be dumb. Of course, it is not absolute. This is purely a personal opinion for informational purposes.

Children can understand, but they don't speak, what's going on? How old is the child? Well, isn't it still small?

It may be that he can't speak, he understands everything, he knows that he can speak, and it's all right slowly, if he can speak, he doesn't want to say, he is introverted when he has a child, he doesn't like to express, he knows everything, if it really doesn't work, you can find a specialist to go to the hospital, go and show him, what's going on? Don't put it on this, ask you if you really don't like to talk and are autistic, it is easy to delay the child, well, you go to the hospital for self-study, check if the child is there any other problem?

I wonder how old your child is? If it is a very small child, he can understand what you say, it proves that it will not be dumb, you don't have to worry, some children are a little late to speak, our children do not start to speak until they are four or five years old, and some children will only speak when they are two years old, you can observe for a period of time, you are really worried about it, you can go to the hospital to see and check it.

If you have something on your mind, talk to him, it's okay if he doesn't want to talk, as long as it doesn't interfere with his daily life.

Some children speak late: for example, Einstein couldn't speak at the age of 4, Edison couldn't speak until he was 3 years old, and Wang Yangming, a master of mind in Chinese history, didn't speak until he was 5 years old, but they were all high-IQ people.

As long as your child can understand you, there is no need to worry if there is no genetic history in the family.

It doesn't matter if he understands, he speaks for a certain time, which means that he is neither deaf nor dumb, communicate with him more, let him learn with other children and talk faster.

To be patient, it is much easier to teach when you understand than not to understand, learning to speak is a long-term process of learning and practice, and you must insist on dialogue with your child.

Saying it will only make you more irritable, so it's better not to say it. When you understand him from your child's point of view, he speaks.

It is advisable to take your child for a check-up to understand the cause and see how you can help with the guidance. You can talk to your child a lot, you can start by understanding your child's preferences, join his games, use exaggerated and hyperactive behaviors to attract your child's attention, and so on.

If you are not worried, you can go to the hospital to check whether there is a physiological problem.

If not, then just wait.

Because everyone has a different experience of growing up.

Many children do not start to open their mouths until they are 3 or 4 years old.

Pay more attention to your child's feelings, communicate with your child more, encourage them more, and accompany them more.

It may be a bit self-contained, and it should be taken seriously, and it is best to consult a psychologist.

If you want to tell him, he doesn't communicate with you, you can also find a way to find a friend of the same age as the child to persuade him, ask the child what he has planned, what he thinks, and then you will meet his requirements according to his ideas, and slowly guide him out. There is still a long way to go in life, and you can't always stay at home, you have to rely on your own struggle to support yourself.

Read a little more to fill your mind so that you can be wise. If you have ink in your belly, you will have direction and confidence in life, so that you will grow old steadily. That's what self-confidence looks like.

Naturally, the premise is to know what it means to read, how to enrich oneself. To be able to know what others don't know, and to be able to dig out what others can't, of course, is to know and be more sensible than others. That's when you have confidence in yourself.

Then you can make your own choice, and you don't have to ask others. That's self-confidence. If you don't know anything, you will lie on your stomach and won't be able to stand up.

To enrich yourself is to build the foundation on which you stand up. The foundation is stable, and the waist naturally stands straight. Faith is a manifestation of ability, and without ability, how can you have faith?

To build a foundation is to build capacity and to enrich faith. Faith has nothing to do with age, it has to do with whether you have ink in your stomach or not. Don't think that when you're old, you have faith, it's never like that.

Communicate with others more, if you are shy, you can find a place where no one knows you at all (because no one knows, so the impression of you is also zero, even if you express very unconfidence, laugh at you, it is also so-called, because, no one knows who you are), to communicate boldly, talk.

Are you expecting too much from yourself? It is recommended that you set yourself short-term goals, which are not too difficult to achieve, and gradually achieve them and slowly improve your self-confidence. Don't doubt yourself all the time.

Confidence comes from experience. Either you are outstanding in one aspect, or you are experienced, otherwise you can be regarded as pretending, and your heart is empty.

Are you going to school or working??? What kind of work??

Why do people take medicine when they have a cold? Because you get better faster when taking cold medicine, you are not confident and lack communication skills, why don't you look for some medicine to take?