How many people are doing what they really love?

I feel that there are quite a lot, because our post-95 generation is basically looking for a job according to their own interests, we will not look at whether the salary is high or low, or even whether the job is stable, as long as I am interested, as long as I like it, I can go, so many people of my age, he is doing what he really likes.

Nowadays, very few people will do what they really like, because they will have some choices after facing society, which is something they don't want to choose, but in order to make their lives better, they will succumb to reality and give up what they like, so few people will do what they really like.

I think there are very few people who really do what they like now, and many people can't support themselves because they are forced to do what they like because they are forced by life to do what they are doing now, and if they have a family. The things you really like will make you feel insecure and financially supported, so few people will choose things that you really like.

There are really few people who can really do what they particularly like. Because, when we look for a job after graduation, or we don't graduate and look for a job, there are many people who are not in line with their majors and are not jobs that you particularly like, so there are really a few people who can really do what they really like.

I think that must be a very small number of people, because some people have to choose jobs they don't like for their real life, and only a small number of people will work hard for their dreams, even if they may not be able to eat. There are also some students who are particularly fond of dancing, but in order to improve their academic performance, they also give up their hobbies.

I think a small number of people, those who don't worry about their livelihoods, even if their favorite profession is very unprofitable, it doesn't affect them at all, but a large number of people may do things they don't like at all because of livelihood problems, which is a social reality.

How important is it to do what you love with oaks?

When I started reading the book "The Courage to Be Hated" last year, it happened to be at odds with the previous book's views, so I struggled for a while, not because I couldn't read it, but because what was my point of view?

I thought about why I read this book because I like Da Zhang Wei very much, he mentioned in a program, "All conflicts come from interpersonal relationships", I think such a transparent person he reads a book, it must be worth reading.

I thought of another book, which I read under a very difficult situation, especially obscure, this book was recommended by my friend, the reason is very**, but after reading the whole book, I found that I was not **, but it was quite abusive......

Of course, it's not the problem of books, but what I like and I like, what I like, even if I encounter difficulties, I don't feel particularly hard, but now that I think about it, I also feel that that experience is called growth, and it was then that I understood that I should have my own opinions, and I can't say what is in the book.

Therefore, I follow my heart and say, I just like the ideas in the book "The Courage to Be Hated"! When I looked through my previous reading notes yesterday and saw the title, I immediately thought about what I had written.

You choose, you like, and in the end it's you who is responsible. Everyone is responsible for their own choices, and whenever I can't read a book, I will complain to my friends who recommended this book, why they didn't follow my "taste". Interestingly, I have several books that I can't read, all of which were recommended by friends.

It's obviously a well-intentioned recommendation, but it makes me complain secretly? In the final analysis, when I bought the corresponding books, I still didn't like them enough.

I didn't like it enough to buy it, but it didn't like it.

This seems to be a love life, and people who like it may not be pleasing to the eye, let alone people who don't like it very much?

Follow your inner thoughts, and if you don't like it, you have to say no, otherwise you are not responsible, not responsible for people or things that are passively accepted, and irresponsible for yourself!

If people drink water, they know how warm and cold they are! Things are inherently empty, others like what you don't see, and others who like you may not look down on them.

But as long as it is something you like, you will definitely be more attentive, this is responsible for the thing itself, but also responsible for yourself.

I like to give speeches and do courseware, and I bought a book about speeches and courseware during the Chinese New Year, which has tips that excite me and make me feel that I don't need them at the moment.

When you want to see it, but you don't bother to see it. At this time, the belief in being responsible for oneself rises.

Don't you love presentations? ”

Don't you like to make courseware? ”

Aren't you going to take this opportunity to improve? ”

So I continued, and the things I liked were just because I liked them.

So in the end, I also want to say, I like to write very much, I struggled in *** submission before, I couldn't write the article I wanted to submit, looking at others one by one, I suddenly understood today, it turns out that what I like is - write**!

Of course, for the sake of the people they like, people often put in special efforts and actions before going through the inspection. Regardless of status, here are some common special things you might make for someone you like:

1.Make special gifts: People make special gifts, whether they are handmade items, personalized gifts, or souvenirs that represent special meanings, to express their feelings.

2.Arrange romantic dates: To create a romantic atmosphere, people plan well-arranged dates, whether in special places or with meaningful activities that make the other person feel special care and valued.

3.Provide selfless support: People will do their best to provide selfless support to the people they like, whether in their careers or in their personal lives. They listen to each other's needs, provide encouragement and help, and become strong support.

4.Making Sacrifices and Concessions: Sometimes people make sacrifices and concessions for the sake of the people they like, putting aside their own interests and desires and thinking about the happiness and interests of the other person.

5.Give love and attention: People express their emotions by taking good care of them, caring for them, and paying attention to the people they like. They may prepare their favorite food, care about their health and safety, or actively pay attention to their interests and needs.

1.Prepare a special gift or surprise for someone you like.

2.Spend special moments with someone you love, such as birthdays or anniversaries.

3.Cook a special dinner for your favorite or cook their favorite dish with celery.

4.Provide selfless support and encouragement to those you like.

5.Arrange a romantic date or trip.

7.Do some practical help for someone you like, such as helping solve a problem or sharing stress.

8.Make a personalized gift, such as a handmade item or a thoughtful DIY piece.

Give him snacks, help him tidy up his desk, watch his favorite anime, listen to his favorite songs, just to have a common topic.

It also depends on the individual, for example, we used to buy clothes for the person we liked, and he was willing to accept that the two people were together slowly, many people are like this, and they began to fall in love with each other, but there are also people who take the group and judge the east or the west and don't admit it, that is, they treat people as ATMs.

At dinner with friends, he said that he lived until now, and suddenly found that in this life, how lucky it is to meet a person he loves very much and to be able to do a job he likes. But doing something you love is harder and more important, because it allows you to meet a better version of yourself! He asked me, do you have a particular favorite thing to do?

I said yes, but I couldn't say what it was. It turns out that I haven't met something I particularly like to do, because if I do, it's a very happy thing to go to work every day!

He advised me, what do you like? Just do what you do. In this life, it is really difficult to meet the things you like!

It's really hard to do what you love. Less money and more close to home, haha, this may be a satisfying job, but it may not be a career that you love.

The career of hobby is to like it from the bottom of my heart, and I will take the initiative to do a little better, do more, and be willing to spend time and energy for it and be very happy.

In fact, many times we lose ourselves.

We work hard to make money, buy a car, buy a house, travel, save money, play, and consume ourselves while making money.

We are willing to spend a lot of time tidying up and dressing ourselves, but we spend very little time getting to know the world and ourselves.

Some people say that the Western world is developing rapidly in science and technology because it is always overturning the theories of the past and pursuing faster development. In China's thousands of years of history, we have four major inventions, we have basic theories, but why have we not developed science and technology? Because in the hearts of ancient Chinese people, living comfortably is the most important thing.

They pursue the Tao, pay attention to balance, meanness, follow the way of Junyin Dazi, and live a life worthy of their hearts. They seldom seek outwardly, but inwardly explore, learn and behave.

Therefore, the scholars at that time should be very happy, pure.

Of course, now we also have many people who practice knowledge to change their fate, work hard, learn and learn, and continue to explore inward, and they are also very happy. These people are lucky because they have their own hobbies, fulfillment and strength.

We are all laymen, and it is difficult for us to jump out of the current environment, and it is difficult to escape the pursuit of material things. If, under this pursuit, we can have a hobby career, have a happy interest, can continue to improve, and meet better days, what a happy thing it should be.

I'm not lucky enough to find a career I love for the time being, so in many good times, I look at Douyin and scroll through Weibo, and time flies. However, I will always look for and try more, and when one day, I can find something I like, and I will work hard to improve my own satisfactory results, how lucky I will be. The future is very bright, look forward to it.