What should I do if the elderly can t take care of themselves, and what should I do if the elderly c

First of all, try to live with your children and seek their care. Second, ask a babysitter to take care of it. Finally, it is to go to a nursing home.

In short, first of all, look at the physical condition of the elderly, is not able to take care of themselves to what extent, as long as the general elderly are semi-self-care state, many elderly people have chosen to live on their own, really to serious disability (bedridden) when they will think of hiring a nanny, or send to the hospital or nursing home. Secondly, it also depends on the financial affordability of the children, and the elderly who have large economic affordability and economic affluence have a wide range of choices.

Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly

Article 14: Supporters shall perform their obligations to provide financial support, daily care, and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law. The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.

Article 15: Supporters shall ensure that the sick elderly receive timely care and care;

For the elderly who have financial difficulties, medical expenses shall be provided. For the elderly who are unable to take care of themselves, the caregiver shall bear the responsibility of care;

Where they cannot take care of them in person, they may entrust others or elderly care establishments to take care of them in accordance with the wishes of the elderly.

First, choose home care. Ask a nanny aunt (elderly care worker) with professional nursing knowledge to take care of the elderly at home, taking care of the elderly who cannot take care of themselves requires professional nursing knowledge and skills, and ordinary housework nanny aunts are not competent.

Second, choose institutional pension. According to the situation of the elderly, choose a professional nursing institution (nursing home, pension station).

1. You must have money in your hands, although you can't take care of yourself, but your consciousness is still sober, and having money in your hands will become the greatest guarantee and the greatest confidence.

As long as your mind is clear enough, don't give all your money to your children. If you have money, you can make your children filial, even if there is a hidden danger that there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, your children will look at the face of money and be filial as always. The more children there are, the more effective they will be, anyway, the money is held tightly in the hand, and whichever child takes care of it more, which child will be able to get more money.

After all, children need to work, and work is to make money, and since serving the elderly can earn money and get a good reputation, children will not be happy. Money is a tool to serve the old age, and no money and being unable to take care of oneself are the real meaning of helplessness.

Second, do not go to the nursing home as much as possible, it is best to live in the children's home in turn, and live in the children's home for a period of time, so as to avoid the situation of being sick in bed for a long time and losing the filial son.

When you have more children, it will be important when you can't take care of yourself. Children can consult with each other and take shifts, and in the hospital they will take turns to take care of them, and whoever has more time will take care of them, and those who have less time will take care of them less, and those who have more money will have more money, and those who have little money will have more effort. After being discharged from the hospital, it is necessary to ask the children to negotiate how long they will stay in the family, so that the children have not yet felt that they have been sick for a long time, and they have been rotated to the next children's home.

It can not only let the children take a breath but not make the children lose patience, compared to the family with many children, Dink's family is more difficult to do, when life can take care of itself, it is good to say, when life can not take care of itself, if you do not prepare in advance, you will panic.

Third, there is a wife, let the children pay less, let the wife pay more. The wife is basically able to take care of the food and daily life, not to mention the relationship with the wife for decades, the care will be considerate and meticulous, and it is more convenient to take care of the children than the children.

Although one of them will have to go first with his wife, the burden of providing for the children will be halved. If the wife walks behind, the wife can live a good life, and the crisis in his later years will be resolved and there will be no danger. If the wife walks in front, the relay of children will also save a lot of financial or material resources, so as to greatly reduce the probability of losing filial piety in front of bed for a long time.