My parents can t take care of themselves, and I ve been very busy with work recently, should I be se

Updated on society 2024-06-24
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It should be sent to a nursing home. If you don't send your parents to a nursing home, your parents will have no one to take care of them, and in the end there will be problems that really outweigh the losses.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is correct to do this, if you are not busy, you can spend more time with your family, if you are very busy, you should send your family to a nursing home, and you can also get some professional results.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    On the one hand, nursing homes.

    In the provision of basic physical care is much more professional than taking care of the elderly at home, and it is completely avoidable to cause physical harm to the elderly due to unprofessional behavior in the care process (for example, helping the elderly go to the toilet, changing diapers, etc., care workers are trained to know how to operate without hurting the waist and legs of the elderly, we don't know it ourselves at home, and the elderly may not know it if they hurt it). Secondly, the degree of care for the elderly is indeed relatively high, and if it is in a nursing home that provides simple medical care, it may be more timely and more reassuring to feed medicine and seek medical treatment.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can afford it, consider hiring a carer. Nowadays, many people are only children or working in other places, and when their parents are sick, they are usually inadequate, unable to resign or fulfill their filial piety, of course, if the financial ability allows, you can consider hiring a nurse or find other relatives to help take care of them. Of course, if you need long-term care, you still need to consider a proper solution, and you still need to give up your job and go home to take care of it.

    Provisions for sick care leave for parents.

    Many places in China have enacted legislation to clarify the system of nursing leave for one child. Six provinces, autonomous regions and municipalities, namely Fujian, Hubei, Heilongjiang, Guangxi, Hainan and Chongqing, have stipulated nursing leave for only children in the supporting regulations of the Law on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly. Nursing around the following if:

    Guangxi has already stipulated that if the parents of an only child reach the age of 60, the employer shall grant the child nursing leave of no more than 15 days per year during the period of hospitalization.

    The salary, allowances, subsidies and bonuses during the nursing period shall not be deducted by the employer; Heilongjiang stipulates that during the period of hospitalization of the elderly, the children's unit shall give them escort leave, which is 20 days per year for the only child and 10 days per year for the non-only child, and the salary and benefits during the escort period remain unchanged. It varies from province to province, so it is recommended to consult with the relevant local authorities.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is no solution to this problem, the best way is to go home to take care of the elderly, they are the biological parents who have raised you for many years, your flesh and blood are given to you, when the parents count the old age, what I miss the most is that you go home more to accompany the elderly, when they are sick and no one takes care of them, are you busy and your biological parents are hospitalized and need someone to take care of them? There is no reason to hurry home to take care of the elderly. That's the best way to solve it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can hire a nurse in the hospital during your parents' hospitalization Take care of your children during the day and night You can pay for your children You are busy working in the field, will you get paid every month, your parents can hire a long-term nanny when you go home if you are not hospitalized, you can usually cook and wash clothes for your parents, take care of your parents, and you can also install a surveillance camera at home You can see everything at home for a long time, and you can work in the field You can also feel at ease The problem is solved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the parents are sick and hospitalized and cannot take care of themselves, and the children are busy with work in other places and cannot go home to take care of them, the children can negotiate and jointly pay for the care of them. However, no matter how busy they are, parents have the grace to raise their children, and children should fulfill their filial duty to support their parents, and take leave to visit their parents, even if they do not have time to care for their parents, it can be a comfort to their parents. The true feelings of people are often reflected in times of crisis.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The first way to solve the problem is to hire a nurse, who can accompany him 24 hours a day, and he is also professional. The second way is to entrust relatives to take care of them, and if you take care of them for a long time, you also have to pay some money, and it is not a good job to serve people. It is recommended that you call in a caregiver.

    I wish the old man a speedy **.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now when my parents are sick and hospitalized, unable to take care of themselves, and my children are busy with work in other places and can't go home to take care of them, the easiest way is to find a nurse to take care of them, and the children pay for a nurse.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If the parents are sick and hospitalized, and the children are not around, they can hire nurses for their parents and pay for them to do their filial piety to their parents, so that all the problems will be solved.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you can't contribute, then pay for it! Hire a responsible nanny for your parents to help them with their children's responsibilities and obligations. In fact, companionship is the most important thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can use a few children to pool money to hire a nurse for their parents, and ask for a nurse to take care of them when they go home, as long as you give money, someone will help you do it, which can just solve the problem that children can't go home to take care of them.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I can only see if the children can take turns to take leave to take care of them, or ask a nurse to help take care of them, no matter how many children are born, the parents can bring them up, but no matter how many children are born, they still feel that it is not enough to take care of their parents. It is not easy for parents to give birth to us and raise us, and when we are old, our children should do their best to take care of them with filial piety, but sometimes they are powerless and helpless. It's not easy to find a good nurse, or to see if relatives and neighbors can help take care of them, of course, it has to be paid.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Parents are sick and hospitalized, unable to take care of themselves, children try to take turns to visit and take care of the elderly, and after the condition is stable, everyone pays for nanny care.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Find relatives at home and see who has the time to come over and help take care of them. The cost of nursing care is paid according to the labor of the hired caregiver. Or find a caregiver, nanny to pay to help take care of your parents.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, if you have relatives in the place where your parents live, you can entrust them to help take care of it, or you can ask them to hire someone to take care of it, since you definitely can't go back to take care of it, you have to spend money to hire someone, this is very easy to find, and the hospital can help to do it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The best way is to ask someone to take care of it, the best thing to do is to know someone who is so reliable, if it really doesn't work, you can only ask a nurse, but the nurse may take care of a few people, it will not be so thoughtful, but I personally recommend that parents are old or their children are taken care of by their side is the best.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At this time, it is best for the children to go back to take care of them, because what parents need most at this time is that their children are by their side, and do not wait until the children are filial and their relatives are not there, and the children can take turns to take care of them. If you really can't do it, you can find a better caregiver to take care of it, and your children will often go back when they have time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the parents are hospitalized and cannot take care of themselves, the children are busy working in other places and cannot take care of them. It is possible to hire someone to take care of it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If the children are willing, they can hire a caregiver for their parents and let the caregiver help take care of their parents.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In this case, you can hire a nurse or a babysitter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no one to take care of it, so I ask for a nanny, and the children pay for it, now the work is important, and the elderly need to be taken care of is also important, since they are all hospitalized, as children, they should also ask for leave to take care of them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello! If the parents are hospitalized, the children should quit their jobs and go home to take care of them until the parents**.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then find a nurse sister to take turns to get the money, and then let the nurse take care of the parents in the hospital.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In this case, you can only ask a nanny or a caregiver to help take care of it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can find a nanny to come back and help take care of your parents, and you can rest assured that you are working in the field.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then the nieces pay. Find a caregiver to take care of your parents. That's okay too.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no way to solve this problem, children can take leave to go home to take care of their parents, and now basically the workplace has paid leave.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hire a babysitter for your parents. 2. If the elderly themselves have no savings and no pension, and their children work outside the home but their income is not bad, then the elderly should also ask their children to pay for them. This is the responsibility of the children, as long as it does not affect their lives, there is nothing wrong with it.

    3. If the elderly themselves have no money, and their children do not have much income, they may not even have a job when they come back to serve the elderly, and they cannot afford to hire someone to take care of the elderly when they work outside. In that case, if I were an old man, I would really choose euthanasia. Rather than having children and grandchildren who are dragged down by life, it is better to get rid of the pain as soon as possible and sacrifice yourself for the benefit of future generations.

    4. If the old man has no savings but has real estate, he can pledge the house and ask someone to take care of himself, or let other younger acquaintances around him take care of him, but he can make a will, and whoever takes good care of the old man's inheritance will belong to whom.

    From the above, it can be seen that the core idea of the elderly is not to drag down their children and not to cause trouble to future generations.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The son wants to raise but does not wait, don't regret it when it is too late, think about how our parents brought us up, and when they need us, they find n many reasons to say that they don't have time, where is their conscience. Of course, if you don't have time, you can hire an aunt and relatives to help take care of it, what else can you do!!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's really as said upstairs: filial piety does not wait for time, and filial piety waits for no one. To put it mildly, if something happens to this relative, it is worth the regret of being a child for the rest of your life.

    I suggest that you inform your relatives to take care of the elderly for a few days first, and then you take time out of your busy work to take turns taking care of the elderly. Several people who are children should negotiate how to solve the problem. When the elderly are sick, this is the time when you are most needed, which is more important to weigh the pros and cons?!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    OK. What are the benefits of living in a nursing home for the elderly who cannot take care of themselves:

    1.Able to receive special care from nursing home caregivers to avoid secondary injuries to the elderly. Advanced medical staff (certified to work), safe care, and good service are the best guarantees for the lives of the elderly who cannot take care of themselves.

    2.It can relieve the loneliness in the heart of the elderly, and stay at home for a long time without seeing outsiders, and the inner loneliness will occur; After arriving at the nursing home, there are elderly people and caregivers who want to accompany them all day long, and they will not be lonely.

    3.It can allow the elderly to live a regular and healthy life, and eat nutritious meals according to the physical condition of the elderly. At the same time, you don't have to trouble your children, relatives, etc.

    4.According to the needs of the elderly's families and the elderly, the nursing staff will continue to provide the elderly with life care, ** nursing, medical facilities, psychological comfort, nutritious meals, cultural exchanges and other services. For example, the elderly who have difficulty moving, the elderly who have stroke hemiplegia, bedridden, incontinence, and the elderly who are inconvenient to move themselves, should use the corkscrew if the stool is not smooth, and the effect is not good, they should use their fingers.

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  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No, it is already difficult to take care of the physical care, and the psychological care is even more difficult. Speaking of nursing homes.

    Many people think that the environment inside is as beautiful as the TV series filming, what is the full-time escort, there are flowers and trees to enjoy, there are also entertainment facilities to relieve the lack of food, and there are even many elderly people who naively think that they can live in one person and so on. In fact, these beautiful ideas do not exist in many nursing homes at present

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Generally speaking, you can get very comprehensive care when you send it to a nursing home, depending on the quality and fees of the nursing home. The so-called penny is worth everything, just as the treatment enjoyed by aristocratic kindergartens and ordinary kindergartens is different.

    In ordinary nursing homes, the elderly who cannot take care of themselves can be taken care of, but they cannot be taken care of by the so-called very comprehensive care. Different perspectives and positions have different views on issues.

    For aristocratic nursing homes, the employees hired are highly educated and highly qualified. Responsible, patient and meticulous, brought cash pension management methods and experience, very humane, life can not take care of the elderly is 1 to 1 service, a person is responsible. In this way, even if the care is very thorough, there are professional nursing doctors and aunts who accompany the chat.

    For nursing homes, it has been improving the quality of its nursing home service tenet, staff training, attention to food nutrition and hygiene, and environmental sanitation requirements, I believe that the nursing home will get better and better, the quality is getting higher and higher, and the elderly who can not take care of themselves will also be taken care of.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is unlikely, and it is difficult to get very good care. Because there are fewer attendants in nursing homes and more elderly people, he can achieve basic care, rather than being taken care of very thoroughly. Therefore, if there is a condition, it is possible to care for the elderly at home as much as possible.

    Or relatives and friends to take care of them. Take care of your own children. Otherwise, you can also hire someone to take care of it yourself.

    In short, there is really no way to go to a nursing home.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, under normal circumstances, as long as you choose a regular nursing home, you should be able to get good care, so if you really want to send the elderly to a nursing home, you must go to investigate and choose a trustworthy nursing institution.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's hard to say.

    Some nursing homes can, some cannot.

    If it is a regular large-scale nursing home, it is possible.

    In addition, there is a relationship with the caregiver who takes care of people.

    If the caregiver is caring and responsible, it is also possible.

    There is no one set answer to this situation.

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