Parents always regret it? What should parents do if they truly repent?

It's true when your parents promise you, and it's true that you don't want to buy if you don't fulfill your promise. After going out of society, you will find that there are a lot of people who don't keep integrity, and there are few people who will do what they say.

If your parents use social methods to deal with you, you can't do anything, after all, you have no income, you rely on your family for food and housing, and your status is not equal.

It's still reliable on your own, with New Year's money, scholarships, student loans, holiday jobs, and the like.

Don't blame your parents, it's not that they don't want to fulfill their promises, they are worried that the computer will affect your studies, high school is important, and it is also important, they don't dare to give you a computer because they don't dare to gamble, what you lose will be the future of your life, you have to understand them, study hard, and discuss with them when you are admitted to college.

You can sincerely tell your parents what you think, it is wrong for your parents to do this, and it will only be better if you tell them what you think in your heart, so that they can know their mistakes.

Parents regret it because you didn't do what they wanted on the exam, and secondly because of them. Economic conditions do not allow.

Parents always regret that it is indeed not a good way to educate their children, because since they have promised their children, they are not excessive and should be satisfied.

Parents are like this, most of them are like this.

Personally, I think that when the time comes to study in high school, I should spend the time on studying, if I use a computer, if I have itchy hands, I can go to the Internet café appropriately.

You can persuade them: "Parents are their children's first teachers!" You have all become teachers, how can you not speak without saying anything? Do you have hope that I will be like you in the future? ”

As long as you say this, your parents promise to admit defeat!

Children should consider balancing their own emotions and morals, weighing the pros and cons to make a final decision. Before making a decision, it is necessary to examine whether the parents have apologized, reformed, and sincerely repented of their actions. If parents can show sincerity and sincerity, show that their actions were not desirable in the first place, and make positive changes and self-reflection, then as children should be understanding and supportive, or try to build a relationship with their parents.

At the same time, whether the return of Zhengmu parents is beneficial to the lives of their children is also a factor that needs to be considered.

If the child decides to accept the return of their parents, then communication and trust need to be re-established. It may take time and patience, but if both parties are willing to put in the effort, it is possible to rebuild the family's intimacy. In this process, children need to express their opinions and feelings, let their parents understand their thoughts and needs, and also listen to their parents' advice and help.

Of course, the child has the right to refuse the return of the parent if the return of the parent will cause mental and physical harm to the child, or if it will interfere with the child's life, affect the child's work plan, etc. In this case, you may choose to seek help and advice from a professional counsellor or a lawyer.

In conclusion, accepting the return of parents is a personal decision that requires a comprehensive consideration of many factors. Whatever decision you make, respect your own thoughts and feelings, and don't be easily influenced by others.

Your mother repents about something, everyone will inevitably do something repentant, and sometimes it's useless to repent, so it's better to accept the facts.

Once, I happened to be in a bad mood, and when I came home and saw that the child had made a mistake, I directly cleaned up the child's head and face, and let the child go to live at grandma's house that night. Because this incident broke the child's heart, when I was angry and went to pick up the child home, the child was still crying aggrievedly. Many mothers will make such mistakes, so here I suggest that our mothers do not bring home the emotions at work and sprinkle them on their children, which is constantly transmitting negative energy to their children, which will leave a very serious impact on the children's effective hearts, and even affect the formation of the child's personality.

The child wanted to learn the piano and learn to dance, but he couldn't satisfy the child. And the child always loves to dance even when he doesn't learn to dance, and he dances a little like that, so he feels guilty.

My son is only 8 months old, and the most guilty thing about my child is that the child grew up drinking milk powder, and there is less responsibility that the mother should bear. In today's society, parents educate their children, often hoping that their children can gain a foothold in society and have a place when they grow up, so they enroll their children in a lot of cram schools since they were young, and the children go to school after school, losing their original happy childhood, and they are overwhelmed by heavy learning tasks at a young age. There is also the fact that in order to earn more money and lay a good foundation for their children, parents rarely stay with their children and do not give more love.

In addition, the economic conditions of the family are not good, and the children are originally very good and can have better opportunities for study and further education, but they missed it because of economic reasons. In short, parents want to give their children the best, but because of different starting points and different practices, parents' love should not be carried on the shoulders of children, that is called a burden, nor should it be held in the palm of their hands, repeatedly accommodating and conniving, should take a scientific way, correct guidance, so that children grow up healthily.

In my memory, my son was only three years old at that time, and he had been in kindergarten for a semester, and I don't know why, when I sent him to the kindergarten to leave, he cried so hard that he insisted on going home with me, and did not want to stay in the kindergarten, I was also very annoyed at the time, but it was because of the teacher's face, so I had to take him home again. On the way, I blamed my son vigorously, but my son knew that I was angry, so he stopped crying and silently followed home. When I got home, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, so I picked up a small stick and hit my son, although I was very angry, but I still felt sorry for my son, so I started with a very light hand, just lightly hit him a few times.

I still remember my son's eyes at that time, poor baba, he didn't cry, but whispered to me"Mom, don't be angry, I'm going to study tomorrow, don't cry, okay? Looking at his son's dark, bright eyes, full of anticipation. My heart melted instantly.

I put down the stick in my hand, turned and walked away, but my son kept following me, calling Mom, I was wrong. In order to let my son have a long memory, I kept forcibly ignoring him and looked very angry. The next morning, my son got up early and went to kindergarten by himself.

It's been a long time since this happened, and my son is now in his teens, and I mentioned it to him, but he said he doesn't remember anymore. But every time I think of this, I feel very sorry for my son in my heart, and I feel very sorry for the scene at that time, my son was still young at that time, in fact, he was already very well-behaved and sensible, but I couldn't forgive him immediately, I don't know how sad my son's little heart was at that time. Children are very simple and kind-hearted, sometimes they will inevitably make some small mistakes, scolding is not the only thing parents can do, we must try to understand them and help them correct their mistakes.

Some time ago, I was in a bad mood because of my troubles at work, and when I got home, my son asked me to accompany him to play football, and I agreed, but when I played with other children, I always blamed other children for playing his football, and I thought you weren't vexatious? The football was meant to be kicked around together, and then he was crying there all the time. At that time, my temper rose, and I yelled at him loudly, and he felt even more aggrieved, and finally cried uncontrollably.

After going back, he hid in the corner of the room, silently shed tears again, and his eyes revealed some grievances and helplessness. In the end, I was also distressed, and I hugged him in the past to apologize to him, I said that it was my fault to lose my temper, but you can't be so unreasonable, but he also told me his own rules of the game, which other children did not follow. I think it's really wrong for me to not listen to his explanation.

Really, very guilty.

In fact, it can't be regarded as those years, and I still do some things that I am ashamed of my parents, and it was just now. I'm the kind of person who has a very big temper, the kind that can't be controlled as soon as I get angry, and I can't control myself when I start my temper, but I always regret it afterwards. I know it's wrong, but I can't help it.

I really hate myself when I say it. Just now, I yelled at my dad, shouting at my dad's inappropriate behavior with that super high decibel level, and complaining about the impact of his actions on others. So now I'm starting to sink into deep self-blame.

In fact, the reason why this happened was not a big deal, that is, at noon today, my dad went out to drink with others again, so my mom gave me a task to call my dad an hour to call him home. Because my dad is not the kind of person who settles down after drinking, on the contrary, as soon as he finishes drinking, he likes to go to crowded places and start bragging and start causing trouble, because in this way my dad and my mom don't know how many fights they have fought in these bad years.

I remember that it was when I was in high school, Huihe, I didn't listen to my parents, I began to fall in love, delayed my studies, and my academic performance dropped very much in the second half of high school, and the relationship with my family was very tense, and my parents were very distressed because of this, in short, it was that time that made my parents really sad, but then after the persuasion of teachers and family members, I ended the relationship. The parents also came out of the sad process.

When I was in high school, I was addicted to the Internet for a while, and my academic performance plummeted. Later, when I failed the college entrance examination, I woke up suddenly, and since then, I have never been to an Internet café again.

Since I was a child, I didn't deal with my father. Since I was a child, I haven't had any communication with my father, and my father rarely comes home from working outside Zeliang all year round, and he rarely even fights. The relationship with my father feels very light, although there is a blood relationship, but it feels a bit like the most familiar stranger.

That's why I didn't accept my dad very much since I was a kid. Especially when I reach puberty, I really get annoyed when I see my father. I can't say two words to him and I will quarrel, but even if I quarrel with him fiercely, he has not reached out to hit me, it is estimated that at that time he beat my Sun Jiyun, I may fight back, at that time I was also ignorant of the state to do, I don't understand Dad.

When I was in junior high school, I was ignorant and loved to compare. There was a classmate in the class who had a very rich family and bought thousands of sneakers, and then some boys in the class followed suit and wore these expensive shoes. I went home and bought it, but my parents didn't agree, so I blurted out:

You're useless! Why is the family so poor! "I still remember my parents' sullen expressions.

The thing that particularly saddened my parents may be that I didn't listen to the advice and had to apply for the Hongji University in the north. My home is in the southwest, and I came to the northeast from university, more than 2,000 kilometers away from home, and I crossed most of China, because I didn't want to be controlled by my parents because I was rebellious and rebellious in the past. When you are away from home, the environment is unfamiliar, and you have no relatives, you know that your home is good.

I did something that I regret very much, and that is to secretly travel without telling my parents. At that time, I had just turned 18 years old, and I started my college life after graduating from high school, and my parents were very busy with work all the year round, although they were always concerned about my studies and life, but they did not have much time to spend with me. I thought that since I was an adult, I should have my own decision.

So, I discussed with a friend and was going to travel to Yunnan.

I was supposed to be in school, but I decided to skip school and go on a trip with my friends. We booked flights and hotels, and planned a detailed itinerary. However, this is very irresponsible, because we made the decision without consulting our parents and without their consent.

This is very incorrect behavior and can easily lead to risks and dangers.

During the tour, we encountered an accident. My friend and I were playing in the scenic area and accidentally injured my foot. Since I don't have my own insurance, it is very troublesome and even very difficult to help pay for medical expenses.

That's when I realized how stupid my actions were. I shouldn't have done it from my parents. If something more serious happens, the consequences can be even more severe.

When I got home, I quickly told my parents what had happened. They were very angry and worried about the danger we were in during the tour. As parents, they are very disappointed in our behavior.

I now regret what I did, and I know I should have gotten my parents' approval and permission before traveling.

Since then, I have realized that if there is something to do, I should first get the approval and support of my family, and not take such a risky way and do something very unscrupulously without telling my parents. Therefore, I never committed such stupidity again.