What kind of mentality did you post and delete in the circle of friends

Clause. 1. Sending the wrong content or writing the wrong word.

This situation is actually quite common, and many people delete their circle of friends.

An important point, I feel that the content I posted is not particularly appropriate, or that there are some typos or writing mistakes, and I don't fully express the meaning I want to express, so I finally choose to delete it.

Clause. Second, the person who likes it doesn't like it, but it's just boring to talk about himself.

Like a person, some unspeakable words, use the circle of friends instead to convey to each other. But after you posted it, the other party didn't comment or like. At this time, it is full of loss, just like the confession letter has not been replied to, a dynamic without a reply, rather than making yourself dazzling and piercing, it is better to delete it.

1. Emotional out-of-control.

For example, after experiencing some kind of unfair treatment, or encountering some kind of strange accident, there was a dispute, which triggered extremely angry emotions and wanted to vent it, so I sent a circle of friends under impulse, and found out afterwards that I had already thought about it.

2. Clean up the space.

I sent those contents that looked enthusiastic at the time to the circle of friends, and then after a long time, I felt that the retention value of those circle of friends was too small, and I felt that my friends had seen it, and then I chose to delete it, just like cleaning up the WeChat space, and after a while, clean up my circle of friends.

1. Care about other people's opinions and be sensitive.

Such people psychologically value the views of others, and after they post a circle of friends, they will repeatedly stand in the perspective of others to see the content they post, at first they will feel that everyone will look at it from a good angle, and then all the negative thoughts that appear in their hearts are: they think that their ** is not good-looking, the copywriting is not good enough, the text is too pretentious, some naïve, etc.

Later, I will think about what my parents will think when they see this, what their partners will think when they see this, and most importantly, whether their peers, classmates, colleagues, etc. will envy me, or dislike and laugh at me. As long as there is a little bit wrong, this kind of person will delete the circle of friends, either modify it repeatedly, or the specified group of people will not be visible, or simply delete it.

2. There is a tendency towards perfectionism.

This kind of person is inclined to perfectionism in his daily life, hoping that he will show others the best, the most perfect, the most impeccable side, even if he cannot achieve complete and complete perfection, he will be "passable".

When posting to Moments, the copywriting and ** must be perfect. The copywriter is "tall", "positive" or "philosophical", and "brilliant", and will find ways to show his good side; If the picture is up-to-date, the most in line with the copy, if it is a photo taken by yourself, it is necessary to repeatedly select, appreciate it repeatedly, and even ask the people around you to help choose the best and most pleasing one.

3. Profound emotional experience.

People who love to delete moments are usually people who have deep emotional experiences. He may be a big grinning and outgoing person in his daily life and work, but in fact, he likes to be alone, quiet can make him feel secure, he likes to listen to songs with headphones, and likes to feel a thing, a person, or a relationship in his heart.

Once you have an emotional experience, especially a sad and low emotion, you will usually be immersed in this emotion for a long time, rather than dissipating quickly.

The circle of friends is the epitome of a person's real life. A person is still ordinary, open her circle of friends, and find clues from the beginning to the end.

Many people like to post on Moments, sending several messages a day, and each dynamic shows the glamorous side. It's either on vacation or at a leisurely job.

It's as if every side of her life is colorful. In this regard, it has also attracted a lot of attention. While envying her quality of life, everyone secretly asked themselves why life was so embarrassing, and even a little unbearable.

In fact, most mature people understand a truth, and what the naked eye sees is not necessarily true.

Sometimes, behind the scenery is either sad or dirty. Not to be happy with things or to be sad with oneself, but it is a commendable attitude of life.

It is true that compared with the "successful people" in these circle of friends, there are still some people who do not post news very frequently, and sometimes they only post one for days or months.

I posted it on Moments.

But the personality of the person who deleted it is more contradictory, this kind of person is generally more defensive, and will not easily show himself to others, but at night it will be more sentimental, and he wants to send some words to sigh his mood, but he feels that he does not match his image during the day and deletes it directly, or it may be that someone understands himself in case he just says it casually, it will also make him sad, so he will delete it.

So this reflects his ambivalence, and it is also because his true image is like this, but he has to go against his psychology to cater to the public's ideas, so his personality is somewhat depressed, and he can only post and delete it in the circle of friends.

There are many such cases, some because they are wrong, some because they find it boring, and some because they feel that they are not good-looking. But no matter what the reason, since it's already been posted, there's no need to delete it, because it doesn't make sense for you to delete it, and there's no way you can change the fact that you've already posted it. If you find it boring, you can delete the moments you posted, and then record the time periods you posted on the moments, which is also a very interesting thing to watch in the future.

1 May you be true to yourself, live seriously, laugh presumptuously, walk chicly, and those who have walked in the past and those who have lost it, just don't look back.

2 Don't pass on negative emotions to others, not friends, everyone is working hard every day, just feel sad in your own heart.

3 Life is dull, there are no surprises, no surprises.

4 Sometimes I can see it indifferently, and sometimes I can be a little obsessed.

5 I won't tell anyone about my grievances, and when everything has passed and changed for the better, I will say how miserable it was at that time, but at that time, I already felt that those grievances were not a big deal.

6 You have to be strong enough for your principles and bottom line to be respected.

7 It is said that it is easy to comfort others, but it is difficult to respond to oneself, and who says that it is not, stumbles, and in the end loses more and gains less!

The circle of friends is a place where we share our daily life, some people like to take photos in the circle of friends, some people like to ** other people's things in the circle of friends, some people like to break thoughts in the circle of friends, and some people like to advertise in the circle of friends. I don't know if you have the habit of flipping through and sneaking through the circle of friends you used to post. Some circle of friends didn't feel anything wrong when they posted it at the time, but when they watched it in the future, they would feel quite embarrassed, and they had the urge to delete it.

Some people often delete their circle of friends, which may be this kind of psychology. What do you think of those who have posted and deleted their circle of friends? Why do some people delete their moments?

1. I regretted it after sending it

In fact, many times we post moments on a whim, and now I feel that I suddenly want to post such a text in front of my friends, and I just send it to my brain. But not long after posting, when I came to my senses and my reason returned, I would feel embarrassed and regretful when I looked at the news I posted, and I didn't understand why I wanted to post this kind of circle of friends.

2. Obsessive-compulsive disorder

Some people like to tidy up their circle of friends from time to time and cut out some of the more embarrassing and boring content. Eighty percent of this kind of person has obsessive-compulsive disorder, and when he looks through the circle of friends, he can't help but delete it when he encounters the kind of circle of friends that has no nutrition and existential value.

3. Fear of being blackened by others

Some people's circle of friends is equivalent to a piece of their own black history. The former circle of ignorant and frivolous friends will help record it. Maybe it's because they're afraid that others will find out their previous black history when they look through their circle of friends, or maybe they're afraid that others will laugh at them because of a certain circle of friends dynamics, so they have the habit of deleting them after posting their moments.

I don't know if you have this feeling, that is, after posting the circle of friends, you will care a lot about whether others like and comment on you. If after posting the circle of friends for a period of time, you find that there are still zero likes and zero comments under this circle of friends, then people with more sensitive personalities may feel that there is a problem with their circle of friends, and everyone is not interested in liking and commenting on themselves? So you want to delete it.