What is it like to marry an ugly husband?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Speaking of my husband, I was a fan of Sun Honglei at that time, and his small eyes were fascinated by a person, and he fell in love with her husband's slit eyes at first sight in the choice of big eyes and double eyelids. My former boyfriend was super handsome, and he was super good to me, his romance and friendship were as good as all those written in books and on TV, and when they broke up, he said: No one in this world loves you more than me, because you are the person I love the most!

    But, I now feel that my husband loves me more and treats me better! Moreover, when the two quarrel, they can also say confidently: The beautiful lady who is like a flower and jade marries you, you have taken a big advantage!

    He will say: Yes! Big bargain!

    If someone else marries one, I marry two! Well, because after so long after marriage, he fattened me up, and my weight soared by dozens of pounds! As a result, now, my friends say that he is getting more and more handsome, which is directly proportional to my weight!

    He's been dozens of years old and hasn't made a fortune, and he's tall, so I'm ,,, ugly. Ha he can talk like me, I will cry! But I have a friend who is super Yan Kong, I can't stand the ugliness of men at all, in her words, I feel so happy when I see my sleeping husband every day, handsome face, I also have a unique face outside, and I look good when I give birth to a baby, so I don't have to worry about height and appearance at all, but she is also married very well, they fell in love with each other at first sight, and they got the certificate a month after meeting, and now they have been married for five or six years, very happy, eat, where to eat and where to play, what movies to watch, what furniture to buy, what style to decorate, um, All my friends make decisions, and the man is completely obedient to her, and I sometimes look at them and want to say that it's really nice to marry such a handsome guy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Having an ugly husband is a very happy experience, and usually ugly boys have a good personality and a good family background.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Husband's ugliness is actually nothing.,I don't know what kind of degree your husband is.,Make you feel that she's very ugly.,I think two people have the right personality together.,Get along happily.,If you look at it together, it's better than anything.,Appearance is just a part.,As long as it's not particularly unacceptable.,As long as it's average.,I think it's okay.,So I don't know what kind of degree of ugliness you described.。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When you first asked him to marry, I knew he was ugly. In fact, when you say that he is ugly, you are very beautiful in your heart, because love is love between you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My husband is ugly, but if I'm good to you, I'll love you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My husband is ugly. Typical peace of mind does not follow.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you try it, you will know, my chicken is because the next dog will not show an old attacker.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When falling in love, it is relative to care about appearance, and it cares more about the other party's knowledge, cultivation and character. Light appearance and heavy content. As long as you don't look particularly "ugly", you will accept people who are very good to you to fall in love and get married.

    Marriage is related to a person's lifelong happiness, and it is not just an option for appearance. It also includes height, physical fitness, financial ability, and so on.

    Why do you say that falling in love cares about appearance?

    1. When looking for a partner, they are attracted by the first impression of the other party's appearance. "Ugly" is just a personal perspective and position, and the view of beauty is different.

    2. Focus on the temperament and personality charm of the other party, and the knowledge, self-cultivation, and character are appreciated, which is the long-term ruined foundation of love and marriage.

    3. Ugly, not smart, wise, humorous, and no financial ability, is it not enough to be good to yourself? It also requires his inner answers, including but not limited to intelligence, humor, earning ability, and dealing with people.

    4. No one is in love and doesn't care about appearance, anyone will take beauty and coolness as one of the conditions for pursuit.

    It is human nature to care about appearance when falling in love, and it is fate to find someone who is good to you. As long as you are sincere and good to yourself, loving and accommodating, caring, gentle and considerate and understanding, you will fall in love and marry someone who is "ugly" but very good to yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People are born with no quarrels about beauty and ugliness, only differences in characteristics. The reason why women are ugly is because they don't know how to dress up themselves, deviating from the recognized image of beauty bridge, compared to the beauty of the soul, the ugliness of appearance is the easiest to solve, and if you grasp some aesthetic logic a little, the ugly girl may be a beauty.

    First of all, physical appearance is only a person's physical characteristics and should not be the only criterion for judging whether a person is worthy of dating or marrying. A person's inner qualities and character traits are just as important, if not more so. An ugly person who is kind to you may have a very lovable personality, kind, intelligent, responsible, and self-motivated, and these qualities are likely to lead to more long-term happiness.

    Secondly, falling in love and getting married requires the joint efforts and decisions of both parties, rather than unilateral choices. If you feel that this person is good to you and that you are willing to be with him or her, then it is your own decision, regardless of what the outside world thinks. Moreover, the appearance is not fixed, and people can make themselves more beautiful by changing their image and maintenance.

    Finally, each person has different standards and values, and each person's inner thoughts on this issue will be different. It is important to think carefully about your thoughts and feelings and make the most appropriate choice based on your values and personal circumstances. After summarizing the above, we should conclude that:

    If a person is nice to you, you can consider having a relationship with him, even if he is ugly in appearance. Because as long as there is a spark in your heart, appearance is not important, and it is possible for a person to be braver, more confident, and more happy because of his appearance.

    Finally, we should also recognize that appearance may also change a person's personality. Some people may become conformist because of their appearance, but there are also people who will be braver and more confident because of their appearance, and they can even become a better person.

    Therefore, in my case, I would fall in love and marry someone who is ugly but who is very good to you, because appearance is not everything, a person may become braver, more confident, and more happy for you because of his appearance, and these are also the most important elements in our marriage.

    It's not that I said, but the first person who can ask this question is very low. Everyone's aesthetic standards are different, what does it mean to be ugly? What does it look like? What's more, appearance is a choice given by God, but the superstructure can change the temperament.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because the excellent quality of a person is not only the appearance of the stool, but also the internal quality is very important. In the interaction between people, the first impression is the appearance, but after a long time, it must be the quality of character, and two people have a common topic, so that they can be macro and rough for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't really like each other's looks. When I am in love, I will choose a man with good looks, but if I am married, I still pay more attention to ability. So, I will marry a husband who is ugly, but good to me.

    My best friend, she is the beauty control, there was a relatively ordinary-looking man who pursued her before, but in all aspects of the conditions and character, the boys are very good. But his girlfriend just felt that he was not handsome enough, so he refused. Later, she married a man with a high appearance, but her ability was average.

    After getting married, the best friend not only has to work hard to support herself, but also give her husband living expenses. The most annoying thing is that her husband relies on his handsome appearance and often has an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex. My best friend has only been married for less than half a year, and she began to complain to me that she had chosen the wrong one.

    In fact, when it comes to choosing a mate, my girlfriends and I have completely opposite standards. Appearance can't be used as a meal card, marriage is still a life for Jishan, I would rather find an ugly, but capable man to marry, than choose a vase as a husband. I am willing to marry a man who is strong and good for me, but ugly.

    I've dated marriage partners before, but I can't get to the stage of getting married. The reason is that they are all very handsome and not bad. But this kind of man is usually more attentive, and it is impossible for me to know a stable family, and they are talking more about leisure time.

    Now the husband I'm looking for is a man with strong ability but average appearance. He is only 165 tall, and when he married his only friend, his girlfriends around him disliked my bad vision. But my husband is really attractive, he opened his own company with an annual salary of one million.

    The most important thing is that he knows that he is ugly, so he is very dedicated to his feelings and never gets too close to the opposite sex. In addition, he has a very good personality and is very considerate to me in life. If you marry a man with strong ability, life will not be so hard.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Feelings of low self-esteem. I don't want to be with such a husband in front of outsiders. Walking on the street will be far away.

    Then events such as class assemblies and family gatherings are also reluctant to participate with such husbands. Because even if you don't dislike your husband's ugliness, others will talk about it when they see it.

    My husband has a friend who is not very good-looking, and then he is short. The woman's family has not been able to accept this man. So basically his wife never went with him when she went to her parents' house.

    He couldn't go to all the things on his wife's side, because his wife wouldn't let him go. Even when the two go to the supermarket, they never hold hands and are intimate.

    On the contrary, the man will bring his wife to all the occasions around him. Maybe it's to prove to others that you're capable of getting a beautiful wife. The woman didn't want to go, but there was nothing she could do. In order to satisfy her husband's vanity, a woman can only endure.

    Therefore, I feel that if you are looking for a husband, even if you can't find someone who is particularly handsome, you have to find an ordinary person, at least two people walking together will not be pointed at by others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although it's not the appearance of looking for a husband, as long as he is genuinely good to me, if the husband I am looking for is too ugly, I will also feel very faceless.

    I don't think my appearance is so bad, I can't take out a husband who is too ugly, and I feel a little ashamed.

    You may think it's nothing at home, but you also care a lot about what others think.

    Try to think about it, when you have a class reunion or other gatherings, if you bring a particularly ugly husband, other classmates and friends will talk about it when they see it.

    Maybe I will say behind my back, why do I fall in love with my husband? Is it because of his money or his illustrious family background? I think I'm too powerful.

    If the ugly husband is rich, forget it, if he doesn't have money, then he really can't even think about it...No way, this society is so realistic.

    In real life, I have also seen husbands and wives who are very ugly and have beautiful wives, and they are really men who are very rich. As long as there is money, anything is possible.

    Every time I saw them together, my wife held her husband's hand and smiled very happily, not caring at all about the strange eyes of others.

    I don't know if there is real love between them or if there is something else. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to be so chic in front of outsiders in the face of my ugly husband!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is a feeling of special security, but there will also be some dissatisfaction in the heart, because taking such a wife out will make you feel very shameless.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Men are visual animals, and if they marry ugly wives, they still don't like it very much, but since they are all married, it proves that they still love, and they naturally don't pay so much attention to their appearance. If you have great ambitions, you should pay more attention to a woman's ability than her appearance, but most men start with their faces.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It should be a feeling, very shameful, and very humble, that men may dislike.

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