Should I get married? Should the child want it? Kneel down and beg everyone, I will give 12 wealth v

You have to think about such a big thing, so I would like to give my personal opinion based on what you described.

First of all, you've only been together for four months, and to be honest, the time is too short, and your relationship hasn't been cultivated to a certain extent, and having children is really irresponsible for yourself and the next generation.

And this man is five years younger than you, of course, this man is good to you, to say those heart-wrenching words to you, you care about you, it may be that people really love you, but it is not excluded that this man just shows the general characteristics that should be in the early stage of love, you say that his mother is lukewarm to you, which is natural Which man wants his child to find a woman older than himself, but between you are pregnant, his mother is not good to say anything, but the heart is uncomfortable, naturally gives you a lukewarm feeling.

Seriously, you are not young, and it is good to get married and have children quickly, depending on whether you are getting married for a relationship, or for a family or a small economic organization.

There's nothing wrong with the child!! Don't kill your own flesh and blood, since you want to be a mother, you have to have the courage to take responsibility. Stumbling is inevitable, tolerate each other, love each other to be harmonious and beautiful.

Always recite Avalokiteshvara! Bodhisattvas are the most compassionate, and as long as their hearts are sincere, they must respond to their needs.

Maybe it's because you're older, so you don't have to worry about finding a man. The older you get, the more responsible you have for your marriage, and at the moment I think you have a few questions:

1.The other parent's attitude is conservative, you may be too old for them, and they may think that their son is still young, which is very disadvantageous. If he is still a flower in the future after divorce, you may already be a tofu scumbag.

If you quarrel badly, maybe age is a time bomb, and you can take it out at any time to talk about it.

2.Girls still have to protect themselves, I don't know if your love is strong, and it is easier for a pregnant woman to compromise and accelerate everything. Maybe this person is not so suitable for me, but I will think that I have his children, he is very good to me now, and he will definitely be better in the future.

Unplanned pregnancies are a nuisance.

I think this marriage is slow to tie the knot, at least you have to understand the family's attitude towards you, right, if it is still a patriarchal family, it will be even worse. Although you don't have to get along with them in the future, it's a question of who will take the children in the future, so at least you have to get along.

Your mother is your most important relative, just put the actual situation with her, sometimes your parents' perspective is different from ours, although they may scold you, but then they must consider it from your point of view.

I don't know if your boyfriend told the family if he was in love with you, or if he told the family that you had a child and wanted to marry you when he was pregnant? If it is the former, then he should want to enter the palace of marriage with you, but the latter's words feel a little late, but he wants to marry you should be a person who is willing to be responsible.

The above is also my personal opinion, you refer to it, after all, if you want to give birth to a child, the baby needs a happy environment.

Think about it calmly: Is your boyfriend good to you? Do you really love you?

Are you ready to be his wife? Do you currently have the means to support your children? If the answer is yes, then it's time to get married.

You can directly discuss with him about booking a date, taking wedding photos, or buying a house. He may know that you want to give you a certain future after you are pregnant, so he is in a hurry to get a marriage license and ignores the rest.

Let's get married, it's not easy to find someone who makes you happy.

It's not too young, and it's pregnant with a baby, and if it is lost, it is not fair to the baby.

The details that you mentioned can be discussed with both parents, and it's not too late.

Your boyfriend is still young, he is only 25 and his mind is not very mature If you get married, you have to be mentally prepared It is best for you to understand by yourself whether your boyfriend really loves you It is recommended not to have a miscarriage You are not young.

The matter of marriage is still decided by the two of you, and whether his mother cares about it is also a matter of personal habits, and he should not treat himself badly, but the time you spend together is still quite short. Be cautious.

Is it a struggle to get married, or a depressed other party's inenthusiastic attitude.

There is also a possibility, that is, to give you a name first, you can't let the child have a name, it's best not to have a miscarriage, don't deprive the child of the right to be born, and carefully observe his behavior, if he doesn't love you, you will notice it, women are very sensitive, especially pregnant women.

It should be, only when you have children can you have a home, you just don't want to face the reality, you still have to have it after all!