Are you confused now, and how to get through your confusion?

College students are confused, afraid that they will not be able to complete their studies, that they will not be able to find a job, that they will not be able to support themselves with low wages, and that they will not be able to live the life they want. But how can there be so much to be afraid of? Do what you have to do, and what you want will come naturally.

Living in this world, there are laughter, pain, disappointment, excitement, happiness, fearlessness, fear, confusion, in short, all the flavors of life, you must taste them all, to be considered complete. <>

We don't have the ability to predict the future, so we are often afraid, afraid, and confused. I don't know how to choose when facing the crossroads, I don't know whether the road I choose is easy to walk or not, and I don't know if the end of the road is the scenery I want. When you finally make up your mind to choose a path, you walk and you find that there are thorns in front of you, and your first thought is not to eradicate these roadblocks, nor to get hurt after crossing these thorns, but to think if you choose another path, will it be easier to walk?

So you start to regret, you start to stagnate, you start to have the heart to return but you don't dare to go back, you start to worry about time again, ......In fact, what you don't know is that with your hesitation, you have removed the thorns or that you have returned to the crossroads; In fact, what you don't know is that when you go through all the roads, you will find that although the road conditions of each road are different, they all have their difficulties, and most importantly, the scenery they reach at the end is the same, because your ability determines how far you go and what kind of scenery you see. <

We will be afraid, afraid of the uncertainty of the future; We will be afraid, afraid that life is not what we imagined; We will be lost, confused, and don't know what to do to live the life we want.

Some people say that you are confused because you haven't worked hard!

However, some people are confused because they have no direction to work on, or they are obviously working hard, but the result is still counterproductive.

What I want to say is that confusion is something that everyone has experienced or will experience, so if you are confused at this moment, don't be afraid. After all, there are too many uncertainties in the future, after all, not everyone can choose the right path to take, what you need to do is that if you feel that your choice is correct, then please persevere, your heart is sunny, and the flowers will bloom. <

Life is like a labyrinth, and everyone will find an exit according to their own route. Don't envy those who go out before you, think that his path must be easy to walk, you only see him walk out, but you don't see how many wrong roads he ran before he went out. You only see the beauty of the flowers, but you can't imagine the long process from the stamens to the buds and then to the flowers.

Behind every excellent person there is an unspeakable time, this time is bleak and no one cares, but every time I think about it, I will be moved to tears.

My heart is sunny and waiting for the flowers to bloom.

I am confused at the moment, and I would like to give this document to you who are confused at the moment.

First of all, a little bit about yourself. I'm a college dog.,Because the college entrance examination was not ideal.,So I had to go to the Northeast to go to a school that was okay.,Although the school is particularly dark.,All kinds of deductions and fees.,But at least it's good in terms of employment.。

At first, when I first came to school, it was okay, because I felt more new to everything, so at least I was able to maintain a relatively upward motivation. However, I don't know, whether it's because the environment in the north is more casual, I always feel out of place with the people around me, they seem to have nothing to do every year, except for normal classes, just play games and go out to hi, sit and wait for graduation to find a job. <>

At first, I was also a little slack driven by this atmosphere, thinking that it seemed good to live my life like this, without pressure and burden, but I felt a little confused about my future and lost the direction of my life. Knowing that it was time for us to go to our sophomore year for an internship.

Because my school itself is an electric power school, I usually go to work in various power plants after graduation. In my sophomore year, in order to adapt to the environment in advance, the school organized us to go to the power plant for a week to get used to the environment in advance. There, I saw that the workers were facing the machine and the computer screen all day long, leaving work on time and eating on time, although the salary was not low, more than 100,000 yuan a year, but there were no days off.

At that time, I wondered if I could only live like this in the future. All day long, you will have a little knowledge and technology learned in school, and you will live an ordinary life. No, my life is definitely not like this, I will not be just a high-level mechanic. <>

Of course, I didn't mean to look down on the actual skilled workers, but I just felt that I was too slack and wasted more than a whole year without realizing it.

So, I set a small short-term goal, which is the graduate school entrance examination, which is very popular now. I hope that I can get into a school like this through my own efforts to make up for my regrets in the college entrance examination. At the same time, I also rediscovered my life goal, that is, to strive to become a "better" person, more knowledgeable, more insightful, and improve myself in all aspects.

Everyone can be said to be a miracle of nature, when you are not even born, you are already competing with billions of brothers and sisters for that only chance of being born, such a small chance that we will succeed, and why not try? Just like Paul Kochagin said, when you are old, you will not regret doing nothing, you can say to yourself without hesitation: I have been to this world.

Generally speaking, most students feel a vague sense of confusion after getting rid of the academic pressure of high school. If you are still very unsure about yourself, I recommend you to read a book "Whose Youth is Not Confused" by Liu Tong, a senior executive of Guangguang Media, hoping to give you some reference.

In fact, everyone needs to have a direction to work hard in their life, and sometimes you may feel that the invisible future, I can't do anything for it now, because I don't know which direction it will go at all. There are also some people who work hard every day and have been working hard, but their current life may not be what they want. They still have doubts about their current efforts, and they will ask why I am working so hard now, and I still can't see the future?

In fact, everyone may need to have a period of time in their life, which is called the period of confusion. I've had those moments, and now I don't feel lost, how did I get through the period of confusion that just passed.

Now that I'm a junior, I used to feel particularly lost during the second semester of my sophomore year. The major I studied in college was not particularly popular, so I was faced with whether to work first or continue my studies when I came out. If you come out and look for a job, what can you do?

If you continue to study, do you have to change your major? In short, this kind of problem makes me unable to sleep every day. There are some people around me who came to this major by accident, but they still have their own dreams to achieve.

Some people also decide that they will work after graduation, so they spend a large part of their time outside the field. There are also some classmates, although they don't do anything, but when they graduate, they can go directly to their father's company. I didn't really know what to do, so I couldn't do anything.

In fact, you know that you are in a terrible state, but there is nothing you can do to change it. So I think that if a person thinks about it like this, it seems that he will never get an answer, so it is better to ask the people who have come before or ask the people around him what they should do, and consider these questions from another angle, is it not so difficult? So at that time, I asked a lot of seniors, who had graduated and worked, who had successfully taken the postgraduate entrance examination and who were preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination.

I did ask them, and they all gave me a lot of pertinent advice. So I went back to my dormitory, thought about it a lot, and finally made up my mind.

So if you're in a state of confusion right now, you can't let that state last. And it seems to be very difficult to change this state by your own strength, so if you are very confused, then ask the people around you how they get through, maybe the people around you will also enlighten you and make you no longer confused. In short, how to get through your confusion?

To sum it up: stay optimistic, actively seek help, and finally believe in yourself.