How should you deal with complex interpersonal relationships in your life?

In the workplace, we can't fight alone, don't interact with others, we must deal with the relationship with colleagues and leaders, especially your leaders, as the saying goes, you can do it, and if you can't do it, you can't. Although it is very helpless, but this is the reality, we often find that many people in the workplace are very capable, but the situation is not good, and some people are mediocre but like a fish in water. This is the role of "relationship", you have to understand other people's preferences first, and then intercede and say good things to give others certain benefits and benefits.

The most important point is that according to the preferences of others, his focus is to make friends with others. Otherwise, it is easy to do bad things with good intentions, not only can not get closer to the relationship, but also may push the relationship to the opposite, that in the workplace.

How to deal with interpersonal relationships is a university question, to put it simply, to respect superiors, colleagues, subordinates to respect, to treat equally, do not look at people with colored glasses.

The reason why you feel that interpersonal relationships are complicated is because you don't have a reasonable classification, and if you classify them as ordinary colleagues, friends, good friends, and relatives, you don't think it's complicated.

Life and work have to deal with interpersonal relationships, which is a study without a diploma, and elementary school students will handle it well, but it is also possible that graduate students will not be able to handle it well. Factory directors and general managers can be good, but parents may not be able to be good. This is the best performance of the combination of comprehensive psychology and traditional literacy.

If you interact with others, it is easy to whisper the casual promises of others, and when the other party does not fulfill them, it is easy for you to be disappointed and disappointed or easily promise others, but if you can't fulfill them every time, you will also let others have opinions about you, both of which will affect interpersonal communication.

In fact, the relationship between people is not complicated, what is complicated is the human heart, the heart is straightforward and annoying, and the sweet words attract love.

Be generous, think about what impact it will have on my soul if you think about it, so respecting others is respecting yourself.

Recently, I read the Beijing Women's Illustrated Book, and a sentence at the dinner was very good: "Knowing the world is not sophisticated". The most taboo is to be two-faced and three-faced, which will only end up embarrassing.