I feel like my home is falling apart, and I m helpless, so please help me

You must know that men are very vulnerable, because they are under too much pressure, and if you can not mention the matter of finding a job, don't mention it, it is really difficult to find a job these days.

As for him saying that he is going out, I think you can comfort her more, but not too direct, and remember, I don't think any parent wants to do this, you should be considerate of him, that's all I can say.

It's true, it's hard to find a job when you're old, especially if you don't have a skill. If you push your dad so much, your dad must think you're annoying him, so he wants to leave. Since you love your father, you should understand him, not blindly force him, give him time to work hard instead of pressure.

Tell him you love him.

You're 18, right? It's also an adult. You should be brave enough to carry the burden, even if your father can't do it, you will be on top, you are not a child anymore, don't always think that relying on your family is the best.

If he really decides to go! That's not going to stay! Now that you're 18, you're going to be independent!

You have to do everything yourself! Your father's heart is also very fragile! Let's talk more about encouraging him!

Cheer him up! And a little responsible!

The children of the poor are in charge of the house early, and now the children of the 90s like to pretend to be young and pure, and the atmosphere of the first generation has been broken, in fact, you can be in charge of the house, my grandfather said that he went out as an apprentice at the age of 16, and if you don't have a salary at the beginning, people will give you a meal, and you can't eat enough

If he leaves, you can't stay...

Hehe, let it be!。

and his heart ...

I can't do without this home.

After all, you are his biological daughter!

Maybe sometimes you have some ideas, what you want to do, what you want to say, you think that if you do it, you will change, but you feel embarrassed? Don't be afraid that family matters most to make it out.

I think it's better for you to pretend to give up on him, or get a divorce in a serious way, and tell him that his spouse has a gambling habit and will definitely win the lawsuit. Let him turn back and understand that he lost what was good after gambling. Otherwise, I'm afraid that things will get worse and worse.

Gambling went bankrupt, and many wives were separated.

1: Environmental factors are the first priority, if his friends are gamblers, it will be difficult to change.

2: Let his various pressures increase, such as work, life and other aspects, when the pressure is high, there is no energy to go.

3: Try to attract his attention with other things, a friend of mine was taught by me to surf the Internet, and now he doesn't gamble much, sometimes he plays QQ games or something online, or other online games.

My dad too, all the time.

Maybe he is also trying to make money, so that his family can live a better life.

You can tell him not to do this, but you have to be frugal in your daily life.

Gambling is similar to drug use, it has been scientifically proven that gambling and drug use produce similar brain waves, I recommend that you use attention transfer methods such as when your dad is at home and you talk to him more or ask him to do things, preferably things that seem to be something you can't do or can't do, so that he will have a sense of accomplishment! It will weaken the psychology of wanting to gamble, in fact, most people gamble because they are bored or have nothing to do.

If the above methods still don't work, then the only way to replace him is to replace him with another extreme, and to find another thing that can make your dad go to the shadow, and the danger is so big, such as letting him go online and obsessed with which online game to play, so that he can at least stay at home every day. Do not use this method unless it is serious.

Tell him, tell your dad.

Maybe he can hear it!

Call the police.

Catch your daddy.

Let him know. You have the qualities of righteous annihilation.

Given enough sweetness 0 0, the indifference after 匚 ō n is the most hurtful.

If someone shows you a child, you can do anything. At least rest assured. But I think it's still a bit inappropriate to study accounting.

And you can't finish it in a short time, the accounting certificate is not easy to take at all, you have to go to the lectures every day, can you go home and don't study, take several subjects, but you have to learn from the new and then take the test. It's too much time. And it's generally a hired accountant, and you're a new learner, and it's nonsense.

I don't think it's for you. You should still look for a job. You shouldn't think about decent work now, it's important to pay back.

Now there are all kinds of jobs, and those who can't find jobs are because of high vision. Don't think about that, aren't those more uncomfortable than having someone chase you back? It's better to pay back the money to your friends first, no matter how good your friends are, if they have something to do with money, there will be a day when there will be cracks.

You dragged it this time, next time you have something to do, can he still borrow you? Besides, you always think so much, hesitating, can your husband have no complaints in your current state. And you still live with your in-laws, don't they complain if you don't work?

It's better to find a job, don't take the accounting exam. It doesn't matter what kind of work you do, you also earn money, no matter how much you earn, you can always contribute to paying back the money, and others can't say anything.

Nowadays, people have a lot of pressure, and I am no exception, I feel that no matter how much pressure I feel, it depends on the mentality, and my own summary is that the pressure is extreme, that is, there is no pressure, just let go, sympathize with you!!

Tired because the goal is determined and the implementation plan is not done, the reality and the ideal are decoupled, you should consider the interest before learning, and it is easy to do it if you like it!

Maybe you're too homesick, give your home more **.

Indeed, when you are homesick, give your family a **, maybe they are worried about you!

Ay! It's like this when you just go out, and if you don't know the place outside, it's good to get used to it.

Learn to be independent, learn to make friends, don't make bad friends, communicate more with the people around you, more.

Many of life's troubles do not lie in the loneliness of man, but in the loneliness of the heart.

At the age of 11, I came to Jiangsu from Guangdong to work.

Be happy, just leaving is like this, it will always pass.

Feeling low is something that everyone feels after a while. Don't think too much when you're helpless, exercise is the best choice, and you can quickly change this state.

You have to forget about being alone, do something fun with your dorm mates, try to follow the group, but don't expect them to take care of everything.

The university is very safe, there is no burden in life, you have to learn to get along with your classmates, participate in more activities, take up all your time, and live and study to the fullest, and you will have no worries.

College is a new beginning, meet new friends, participate in more activities, life will naturally be enriched, cherished, this is the best time!!

You can participate in some activities that you are interested in, make more like-minded friends, and you can also find fellow villagers, often with them may not be so lonely, just went to college and started a life alone, everyone will be more or less lonely, just adapt to it.

I feel that way too. Can you talk about it?

One may be a psychological problem, which should be combined with what you have experienced, it is recommended that you go to see a psychiatrist, the second environmental problem, the surrounding environment is very strange to you, so you are unwilling to come into contact with the third lonely psychology, may be because no one is company, so the heart is very empty and lonely, and the fourth is not a familiar family or friend to take care of you, so you feel sad, so ah, you can find a few close friends to talk to them about your heart, even in a quiet place, maybe you will not feel helpless!

So I hope you can be braver and stronger!

This may be related to your family environment, whether your parents' excessive doting on you has caused you to have a sense of homesickness, or it may be because you will have some agoraphobia and dare not go out of the house, because your parents may spoil you too much at home, like a strong fortress, when a person leaves the house, it is an instant loss of the fortress, and subconsciously because of the fear and loneliness of not adapting. The information provided by the landlord is a little small, and it is difficult to judge, you must imply that no one can protect you forever, you can't stay at home forever, and you must be strong.

Is it sudden, there is a kind of heart; Ah, Mom and Dad are suddenly gone, never to be seen. How does it feel?

There are also times when I have colic in my heart for a while, and it is really a pain in this part of the heart, which is very sad.

It may be too lonely, the grievances I have suffered these days, the loneliness I have gotten, and there is no place to vent, so I subconsciously thought about it in my heart.

Their best relatives want someone to accompany them, and they usually get used to crying for a while, releasing their withdrawn, sad, and lonely self, so that they can achieve the expression of laughing heartlessly.

This shows that your dependence is very serious, and you are not used to avoiding difficulties.

Or meet new people, people you can confide in in where you're staying now. I understand that feeling, it's an inexplicable fear that no one understands you. Making friends can be alleviating.

The hard drive is relatively small, so don't put too many things in the hard drive, especially in the C drive. Your PC is not very configurable, and it is difficult to open large games.

No matter how optimized it is, it is impossible to use the bike as a BMW.

Optimizations are all limited.

As you can see from your configuration, the hardware of the Internet café is definitely much better than yours.

With your configuration, it is estimated that it is difficult to achieve much effect.

Add the memory to 4G and try it.

It's very simple, you uninstall all the software, and it's fast, and the Internet café computer doesn't have software, of course, it's fast.

The memory is too small.

There's too much stuff in your background to turn off a bit.

You go talk to the girl of QQ, and spread the warm ** of your house in QQ space, and then explain it in words.

Talk to your dad! You changed the password for that number!

Cut off his talk to the people he used to talk to!

Find your relatives.

Your uncles, uncles, and uncles, let them persuade your father.

Good luck!

You tell your dad that a lot of things on the Internet deceive people, or you secretly go to your dad's QQ to add that woman to the blacklist, and then help her change her name so that your dad doesn't know, hehe.

It's okay. It's not that serious.

There are conditions for going out of the rules.