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Sometimes some things can be very impersonal when you think rationally, but it is too emotional, and I feel too tired.
I don't think it's too yourself, just treat the things around you with a normal heart, and it's easy to go with the flow.
Thinking about the problem from another angle, sometimes it will be a bright village.
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You are not weak, but lack self-confidence. When encountering problems, you must believe in yourself and think of the good in everything.
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A little more wounds, a little more pain, a little more numbness, it's fine.
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1. Reshape your character.
Anyone can develop a strong character. However, most weak people have an introverted temperament, and it is indeed difficult to develop an extroverted strong character, but an introverted strong character can be exercised. There are three characteristics of an introverted strong personality:
1. Not sharp but resilient; 2. Not enthusiastic but assertive; 3. Do not force words but can adhere to correct opinions.
2. Assert yourself.
Franklin first discovered the helical structure of DNA in 1951, but was criticized by the "strongman" and admitted that this discovery was wrong. Later, two scientists rediscovered the structure in 1953 and were awarded the Nobel Prize.
Because he didn't dare to insist on himself, he gave up his epoch-making discovery in biology to others, how sad! The basis for overcoming the psychology of weakness is to look up to oneself and dare to insist on oneself, especially in the face of the so-called "strong man" who is flying and domineering.
3. Dare to fight back.
Fourth, direct rebuttal.
5. Conduct armament.
1. When you meet someone you are a little afraid of, don't take a detour and go straight to the other person.
2. Stand up straight and puff up your chest to talk to the other person.
3. Stare at the other person's eyes when speaking, and if you can't do it at first, you should first stare at the bridge of his nose.
4. The voice is loud, if the other party's voice surpasses you, suddenly make the voice softer.
5. Keep the sinking interval during the conversation and don't be impatient.
6. Don't use words like "I'm sorry" lightly.
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Find something new to do.
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1.To be strong, you must be ruthless to yourself 2Strength is related to the acquired environment 3Winning a fight doesn't mean being strong 4It's hard for a strong person to get along with a real friend...Learn taekwondo or something, so no one bullies you!
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Go through a few more blows or tribulations.
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Make yourself stronger and more confident.
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He likes to exercise, run, train muscles, and slaughter chickens and sheep.
Then there are only two ways, the first is you go to her and talk to her. Second, you're looking for one. But in my opinion, in your current state, the second point can be discharged directly, because you can't let go of your current girlfriend, so you should go and see the first point, this is also the best solution, believe in yourself, you can do it, I hope you can, come on!!
This is normal! But if you don't blush, you're already a scoundrel!
Prove that you care too much about her, or that you are a little petty yourself, but if so, you should choose to tolerate her, although it is not a mistake for her. Also, you should convert your care for her into believing in her, give her space, and don't be too tight, otherwise it will be not only you but also her who will suffer, you know? May you be happy!
Eat more nutritious things, no matter what you practice or how you practice, you must stick to it. If you fish for three days and dry your nets for two days, you will never be strong!
The only answer is to boost your own sense of security. Because the sense of control is a sense of security. The lower the sense of security, the greater the need for a sense of control. >>>More