Every time I do something, I unconsciously show the situation of my previous failures in my mind, wh

You are too nervous, there is a shadow of failure, you have to learn to cultivate self-confidence People do things, failure is inevitable, everyone has to experience it, it is the same as success! Thinking too much about failure will inevitably affect what you do now! So, if you want to change the current situation, take failure lightly

Once upon a time there was a general, and every time he lost a battle, the king thought he was incompetent, but he was a very confident man. Once the king was about to attack a powerful nation. The general got the news.

Immediately he sent it to the king and asked to go on the expedition. The king rejected him, saying, "What are you?"

You lose every time. I can't bear to lose the battle again. The general said resolutely

Defeat is a common thing in soldiers, and I often lose when necessary, but I have been defeated and fought repeatedly, and I just serve the country wholeheartedly. I would like to make a promise to Your Majesty. If you lose this time, let Your Majesty punish him.

But the king agreed. And finally....The general returned triumphantly. The story is over.

If that general remembers his numerous failures all day long. So will he succeed? I hope you can understand the truth of repeated defeats!

Fall down and get up again, the past is a thing of the past, pluck up the courage to face today

Don't be afraid to fail!!

Failure is not terrible, what I am afraid of is that I am not confident in myself, so I must have confidence in everything I do, this is the key to success!!

It has been said: "The knowledge of not making mistakes does not exist." "It's just a general meaning, and I forgot the original sentence.

Confucius said that if a person is not a sage, who can be without fault?

Everyone has the same problem to a greater or lesser extent. Yours isn't too serious either. There's nothing wrong with striving for perfection. But I thought I could chase perfection, so I just begged for myself. The pursuit of perfection should be the driving force. Optimistic to live.

We all know that we can't do it all over again!

Don't deliberately try not to think about the past, because that's called escaping! Deliberately let yourself not think about the past, not only can you not let yourself not recall, but deepen the recollection in the psyche, resulting in self-psychological suggestion, the more restrained you are, the more you think! When you think about it, let yourself think about it, you must have peace of mind, and you can think about things that are very annoying, or things that are very happy, to divert your mind.

Or can you reflect on what life lessons you learned from making mistakes in the past? How much has it helped you grow? Change the way you think!

It is necessary to think back to the past, summarize the experience of doing wrong in the past, and gain life experience. That's the most important thing. People are growing up in mistakes and failures, you should not blindly recall the bad past, but think back to what kind of lessons the past brought you, and you think back to the past thinking incorrectly.

Shakyamuni said that the best thing we can do about what has happened in the past is to accept our fate! Indeed, what has happened, we have no better way to accept and face the bad things that have happened than to accept our fate! Of course, the fate of the future is still in our hands, and the fate of the future cannot be accepted, and the past should be accepted!

Everything was meant to be!

Regarding inferiority, inferiority is generally compared with others and external things, inferiority is compared with oneself, inferiority is given to oneself, so if you compare with others, you feel that you can't be so backward, it is a driving force, then you can compare with others, if you compare yourself with others, it is negative and pessimistic, then it is forbidden to compare yourself with others!

In short, for the past, we can only accept fate! There are two sides to everything, there are no absolutely bad things, there are no absolutely good things, the wrong experience of the past, you have to see what kind of good it has brought you, and you have to find the good in the bad things, then you can be very good self-encouragement and self-comfort!

Are you demanding too much of yourself, and many things cannot be done perfectly? Try to relax, you can't turn back the clock, so it's a given that you didn't do well in the past. Don't let the present become your future regret again.

Try to think about the things that make you happy, some things you have to learn to forget, you have to learn to divert your attention, you can't be caught up in one thing, stop moving, look farther, some things have already happened, you have to look away, if you feel guilty, do more meaningful things to make up for it.

Me too, when I'm bored and have nothing to do, I think, don't do it all the time, if you have nothing to do, you have to find something to do, otherwise you will keep thinking about it.

Giving up halfway makes you impatient or you.

I think long-distance running is very helpful in training your patience. Run every day, set a goal before each run, and stick to it.

Wouldn't it be, this relative?

You can try to play a little game appropriately Listen to the meeting** Watch the TV series that will make a slow joke, the power supply, the shadow hail sedan or something, the love apartment is good- -ok.

Look at him every day, and he will slowly get better.

Look at ta** every day, and it will slowly get better.

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doing things without consideration first will always result in failure.