Is it normal to feel like a child at almost 20 years old?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-29
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think it's normal, I'm 23 now, and I still feel like a kid sometimes. I couldn't wait to grow quickly, but then I slowly found that I couldn't rush it. I don't know if the subject is in college, but when you go to college, you will slowly become more mature, after all, school is a small society.

    When you really enter the society, have your own job, the ability to live independently, etc., and come into contact with some people, you want to be like a child, the society will use his beatings to teach you to mature. So now it's okay to be like a child, it's normal, don't worry. If you still feel distressed, then you should pay more attention to the place where you usually look like a child, and record your reflection, why are you like this?

    Pay attention to what others are doing, and then consciously change it. Of course, if the childish point doesn't cause you or the people around you any problems, I don't think that's okay, everyone has their own characteristics.

    Having said all that, you can judge what aspects of yourself like a child, and have these aspects affected yourself or the people around you? If so, is it significant? If the impact is significant, try how to change it.

    If not, I don't think it's a serious thing to be like a child!

    In fact, you can pay more attention to understand what your peers around you do, I think most people should be the same as you, and there is no need to think too much and worry too much. At least if you have this idea (feel like a child) and consciousness now, it means that you are still growing!

    But it is true that as you grow younger, you will slowly change your words and actions, and I think that being a child means that you have a happy life, and I hope that you will never encounter those annoying things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it's normal, I haven't gone through the precipitation of social experience and experience, of course I'm still a child psychologically, this has little to do with age, and I'm not an adult before I am twenty years old, so it's still very normal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Although some people are already adults in physical age, their mental age is still minors, so it is normal for them to feel that they are children when they are almost 20 years old. What's more, less than 20 years old is not too big, very young.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello, I am in my twenties, and I still feel like a child, which shows that I already have the desire to grow up, the desire to mature, the desire to grow, this is the problem that every child will encounter in the process of growing up, when you find that you have a very immature side in fact, it is particularly naïve, it means that you are trying to grow up, and you are looking for a breakthrough to make yourself a mature person quickly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is it normal to still feel like a child when you sleep? I think this situation is extremely abnormal, because in such a situation, your psychological quality is still immature, and you have no good foothold in society.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Normally, everyone has a process from naivety to maturity, and it's just a matter of time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, it may be that the previous environment has affected you and some reasons for emotional or life pressure that make you still have a childlike heart, that is, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's almost 20 years old, and you still feel like a child, is it normal? It should be normal, less than twenty years old. It's not an adult.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's normal, it's the mental effect that I don't want to grow up!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because at this age, the elders think that you grow up and care less for you, and there is inevitably a gap in your heart, and you are used to being like a child, and suddenly face the fact that you have grown up, so it will be like this, and I am also not spoiled to my parents when I was too young, but now I often spoil them, and I feel that I am still a child.

    That's a happy thing to love you. It's okay not to have this kind of request in public, and falling in love is meant to be sweet. You just have fun.

    The maturity of age is not proportional to the maturity of the mind. Otherwise, there will be an old naughty boy, there is no responsibility on the body, there is naturally no pressure, there is too little suffering experienced, and it is naturally immature, it is very normal, carefree and nothing to worry about, of course it can't be mature!

    Do you look like a child, or are you mentally immature like a child?

    If it's the former, then it's actually quite enviable, it's a good thing.

    If it's the latter, then you need some exercise and sharpening, get in touch with society more, socialize more with mature and excellent people, and you will slowly become mature.

    They are wisdom teeth, and they are indeed in their 20s. Depending on each person's constitution, the age varies depending on the length. You can go to the dentist to have a look, generally if it is not crooked and does not reach other teeth, it is best not to pull it out, and it is very sad to pull out a big tooth.

    If it's just pain and swollen gums, you can leave it unpulled, and it will get better after a while. It really hurts, you can take a little nitrate tablets. Of course, if it is crooked and reaches other teeth, it is better to pull it out, otherwise it will affect other teeth, and eventually lead to the whole row of teeth being misaligned and deformed.

    Hehe, it's not that you're timid, let go of your mood and be brave to face everything (maybe you're excited when you see a girl) Don't think about what others say about you and look at you

    Try to improve your temperament first, such as hairstyle, shirt, slacks, etc. Then pay attention to what you say and do. There will definitely be a big improvement.

    It's normal, I'm just like you. When you want to mature, it will naturally mature, and there is no need to change anything. Being yourself is the real self, naïve and naïve are good, maturity does not mean that it must be a perfect thing.

    Some people say that if you want to be truly mature, you will be responsible for life when you get married. At that time, it is really mature, and it does not mean that wearing high heels is a sign of maturity. Beauty, happiness is the most important thing.

    It's not that all of them are like children, but if you really love a girl, no matter how old she is, you will feel like a child towards her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I, 21 years old, felt strongly out of place in the world.

    I'm a junior, but I still don't feel like I've grown up yet.

    I'm an extremely tangled spear field trembling shield.

    At the age of 21, I am still in school, and with my parents' money, I feel as if I am still the same first-grade self I used to be. But the friends around him, the family that got married, and the business that started the business. The best friend is already engaged, and the other is also preparing, and they are all saying goodbye to their youth in their own way.

    And I, I haven't found my place yet, I don't know how old I am to grow up, but I realize that my age has come.

    Parents are in debt, the mentality is no longer as optimistic as it was at the beginning, the body is gradually deteriorating, they are tired, I am also older, every time I reach out to my parents to ask for money, it is like a slap in the face, burning and hurting, they always inadvertently mention who whose children earn how much money, whose children have more money, on the other hand, I am useless. The only thing that can be done is to flip through the books and do a lot of research. But these are far from enough.

    Actually, I'm no longer young, but I'm not grown up yet. I'm a kid and an adult, and I should be planning for my future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    They are in their twenties, and they still feel like children, which shows that they already have the desire to grow up, the desire to mature, and the desire to grow, which is a problem that every child will encounter in the process of growing upWhen you find that you have a very immature side, which is actually very naïve, it means that you are trying to find a way to grow, and you are looking for a breakthrough to make yourself a mature person quickly.

    This kind of feeling may be encountered by everyone, even if I am 30 years old, I still feel that I am not mature enough, and I am always doing something that does not match my age, maybe we are not very experienced, so let's increase my experience as much as possible.

    It's nice to have a young mindset so that you don't have to worry about getting old. In fact, I still feel like a child in my 20s, which may be the reason for my mentalityIt may also be that a person's experience is not rich enough, if you have gone through vicissitudes, then you will be more or less mature.

    Maturity and stability are two different things, and maturity is not something to learn, we can only accumulate little by little through experience, which is a grasp of life experience. If you want to become mature, you have to train yourself more, and it is definitely not possible to be in your 20s and still be like a child.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Relatively speaking, if you are really in your twenties, then you should make yourself mature.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because your heart is relatively simple, you feel like a child.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you are not married, after you get married, you will grow up overnight.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone has a childlike heart that bursts out when they are most vulnerable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe it's still a little naïve because the mental age is not mature enough.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sometimes you just think of yourself as a child, and others don't feel that way.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The criteria for growing up are: being able to be independent, taking responsibility, honoring parents, being able to help and cooperate with others, and having strong ability to act. The methods are:

    1. Try to make more choices by yourself, because a person's independence is first of all independence of thought. You must first try to start with small decisions, don't always think about doing big things, the big things in the world must be done in detail.

    2. Do more things you can, such as: housework, your own things as much as possible. Slowly a sense of responsibility and patience will be cultivated, which is also a sign of independence. In this way, you can develop the ability to do things independently, and you can also honor your parents (learn to be grateful).

    3. Help others do more. In this way, the ability to cooperate can be cultivated, and a person who is not good at working with others will not be able to gain a foothold in society.

    4. When you do something wrong, you must dare to admit your mistakes, take responsibility, have the courage to correct, and it is best not to make the same mistakes.

    5. Be able to act immediately, without waiting for tomorrow, and without relying on others. If you sit, no one can push you, independent people push themselves out, hurry up!

    There is no static standard for growing up, it doesn't mean that you grow up when you are eighteen years old, this is the growth of the body, and the psychology needs a lifetime of tempering. Growing up is a dynamic process, it is like a person going up a staircase, every time he goes up, he rises a realm, until he reaches the top of the building, that is, life matures or ends, to be honest, some people have never grown up in their lives. Being independent, honoring my parents, doing housework, acting immediately, helping others, etc., can you say that I grew up after only doing it once?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because you are simple and cute, my sister said that you were afraid that you would suffer, so don't think about it.

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