What did you realize in your 20s?

Before the age of 20, many people are actually still children's mentality, and after the age of 20, some people go to college, and some people have begun to work, and the new level will undergo relatively big changes. Today, I'm going to talk to you about what you don't realize until you're in your 20s?

If you're still in college, one of the things you need to do in college is to determine what you're going to do in the future, and be prepared for it.

When you enter the university, you and your classmates will go to two completely different paths because of different learning and living conditions. Hopefully, you will choose the less crowded one, because that's the path to a better life.

You must choose a more positive work environment, because the environment can make or break a person, if your will is not as strong as you think.

If you are about to start working, I also suggest that you should keep up with the professional and atmospheric seniors in the workplace, purify your workplace cultivation, and get rid of your student spirit as soon as possible.

Speaking in proportion is the consciousness of every cultivated professional.

There is no airtight wall in the world, and the gossip you say will reach the ears of the parties sooner or later, and those who say right and wrong must be right and wrong, and since then you have been labeled in the hearts of your colleagues, so why bother? As a newcomer, you have a beginning and an end to do things, and you can reply to WeChat and email in a timely manner, and your professional score has won at the beginning. The project you are responsible for must be tracked and fed back in a timely manner from starting, execution, and closing, so that others can know your progress and be transparent, so as to avoid mistakes.

Don't learn to smoke and drink in order to fit in.

If someone says that you can't smoke or drink and are not a man, you can admit, "Yes, I'm not a man", let them win, and don't have to get into a bad habit for these people. These people will not be your lifelong friends, but if you develop a bad habit, it may be for a lifetime, but from an economic point of view, how much more will you spend for the rest of your life if you smoke a pack of cigarettes a day? Not to mention the risk of stomach cancer.

No education system will provide you with knowledge about how money works, and you have to acquire that knowledge yourself. Think about what skills you need to survive and start with themDevelop a skill that can rely on external conditions at a minimum, and the proficiency of the skill is your sense of security.

I feel that there is only study, and learning after the age of 20 is not something you can learn if you want to, and you may not study well when you are young, and then there will be a setback in finding a job.

It turns out that life is so difficult. Before the age of 28, I was young and energetic, and I wanted to make a break on my own. After the age of 28, I realized that life was boring. It was difficult to get out of the so-called material life. Only then did I realize that life was so difficult.

The health began to deteriorate, the parents began to get old, and the girlfriends were no longer reliable. After the age of 28, due to getting older and older, coupled with staying up late, etc., the body deteriorates; Parents gradually began to gray hair; Girlfriends have their own families, and they are less and less connected.

After the age of 28, some things are really hindsight, such as what is said in marriage, material is very important, I didn't think it was so at first, but now I feel that it is better than nothing.

I began to gradually find that my memory is getting worse and worse, many things are easy to forget, and my physical strength and energy are not as good as before.