In order to brush up on the sense of existence, what circle of friends have you posted?

I posted a circle of friends before, it was my sister who was burning her diary at the time, and it was accompanied by a very non-mainstream text: "Burn the diary and start over." "The comments are full of nostalgia for the rhythm of youth.

I don't usually like to post on Moments, because even if you have a sense of existence, what can you do? People are still other people's lives, and you are still your life.

I think this question is this question, I think it's because I feel that I have posted so many moments of friends with a sense of existence, that is, I went to a very beautiful place, and then I saw a lot of good things.

Hair is hair, you can send it if you want to, it's not a sense of existence, because there are really no friends in the circle of friends!

said that he was walking on a rainy day, but he didn't bring an umbrella, and then he put on a very sad **.

Do you have a sense of presence? Does the first-born son count as a child? That's the circle of friends I've liked the most so far.

In fact, I think that I have posted so many moments of existence means that I went to a very beautiful place and saw many good things.

1. Dry food.

2. Tourism.

3. Chicken soup.

4. Expose friends.

5. Help and appeal information.

Falling in love? Hebei hukou, let your child lose at the starting line.

A few days ago, I watched the first issue of "Talk Show Conference", and it was about "brushing up on the sense of existence", which is especially suitable for the current Internet era.

For "sense of presence", the first word that flashes in my mind is "relationship", which allows a person's meaning to be reflected by other people in the relationship, as if in a mirror house, everyone's eyes in society are a mirror, and "brushing the sense of existence" means longing to see oneself in the eyes of others.

Why do many people keep "brushing their presence"? A large part of the reason is caused by this society, we always say that now is the era of attention economy, it is more difficult to attract the attention of the audience, most of the communication behavior is called a kind of "eyeball economy", and the rise of "Internet celebrities" is an economic model that relies on attracting attention to obtain benefits.

Brushing a sense of presence is very necessary for marketing methods that completely rely on users, just like the product is implanted in various programs and even TV series and movies, always appearing in a casual way, leaving an impression in your mind, so that you will think of this product as long as you have this demand.

However, whether it is the creation of a product or a personal brand, brushing the sense of presence is only a means of communication after all, and the key depends on whether you are hardcore enough and whether you can withstand the "fight against counterfeiting".

So, your "presence" is in your own hands. This reminds me of one of my favorite singers, Stefanie Sun. She made me realize once again how I should define my existence.

At the end of 2017, she launched a new ** "Dancing Van Gogh", and began to challenge the dark opera style of self-exploration.

Such a maverick style is naturally not the mainstream direction of the public.

Stefanie Sun's ** is like being herself wantonly in her own life journey, and the amazing thing is that even if she retires willfully, her fans are still stable.

I think the relationship between her and her fans is not the distance between pitches, but the reciprocity in eye level. As she said in an interview with the Beijing News: "Because while you are doing it, you don't actually ask for everyone's understanding, but when they enjoy the journey you take him on, you will feel that it is a mutual giving."

This is the real sense of presence, not brushed out, but when you devote yourself to what you love, your own charm attracts like-minded people to be willing to walk with you.

There must be some kind of heart-warming signal connecting between you.

Some people in my circle of friends feel that I am speechless when I post my chat history with anyone at every turn.

Aifa Moments does not necessarily mean that you love to brush your sense of existence, people may just want to record some beautiful moments. In fact, you don't have to worry too much about other people's opinions. As for saying that the sense of existence has been brushed, it may be the person who said him.

A few years ago, I just had WeChat, and I couldn't play WeChat at the beginning, I felt that it was fun to have no buckles, no bubbles in the chat, no dress up in the space, messages, visitors, and so on, but there were few functions, and I started to play WeChat since the buckle was stolen, but there was no one on WeChat at the beginning, so I was crazy about adding friends, but in order to brush the sense of existence, I also did a lot of stupid things. <>

At the beginning, I added some seven aunts and eight aunts or something.,I was a little sister who had just graduated from high school at that time.,And then my parents always send some moments of friends about learning.,It's a lot of chicken soup for the soul.,And those seven aunts and eight aunts too.,Anyway, the parents' circle of friends is a subscription account that you think you've entered by mistake and think you've entered some chicken soup for the soul.。 Their hordes are even more terrifying. <>

And then every day it's boring, I thought of the circle of friends to brush my sense of existence, and then I posted a circle of friends: I'm in love. Then the comments on the bottom of my circle of friends exploded, my mother said to me, "Come home, have something to tell me", the coach said, "I said why don't you come to practice driving", "The second aunt said, the little girl has grown up", the third aunt commented below, "Don't fall in love, you are still young, that's after graduating from college", the second brother said, "I have time to bring it to the second brother to see, help you check it", and the third uncle wrote a comment below and said, "How is the young man?"

The most terrible homeroom teacher said, "When there is still a month before the college entrance examination, I have already seen that you two are wrong" I hit several black people in my heart to say hello, I especially want to ask the head teacher, who is it, class teacher, I don't even know who it is. Anyway, there are really a lot of comments, and our New Year's red envelope group of relatives and friends has exploded, everyone is discussing my affairs, and some aunts who married far away asked me to take my boyfriend over there to play, which really made me cry and laugh. My girlfriend is right next to the little one who is on his back.

It's really terrible to have these three aunts and six wives. You have to be careful and careful, otherwise it will be really terrible. <>

This time my sense of existence really exploded the circle of friends, no matter what your friends and relatives in the circle of friends are, with what kind of attitude to comment on your care about your things, are to care about you again, don't send too much circle of friends, don't make too many jokes, otherwise your relatives will worry about you, whether it's those who watch the excitement or not, or the people who really care about you, anyway, there has to be a lower limit and a degree, these social software is meant to be for everyone to contact feelings when they are not usually together, Don't just exaggerate his role, or use it to spread some statements that harm the interests of others.

A long time ago, when WeChat was just popular, I remember that most of the WeChat circles I sent were my own mood that day, I remember a relatively silly message I sent when WeChat was just popular, standing in the sun in the early morning, taking a picture of myself with my mobile phone, this is the picture of the circle of friends, and then wrote such a sentence, a new day and a new beginning to work hard, at that time I felt that I was very motivated to send such a circle of friends, but when I worked for two or three years, I would not be in such a circle of friends, Gradually, the circle of friends is dominated by all kinds of chicken soup for the soul, sometimes when I am bored, I will pay attention to a lot of WeChat***, I now have a WeChat *** in which I read with me before bed, I will look at those contents when I am idle and bored, and then feel that those contents are positive and sunny, I will ** to the circle of friends, I remember that at the beginning, there were many people to see or like, but now most people don't like to watch chicken soup for the soul!

Now I will send a circle of friends once a month or two.,It's purely to brush up on the sense of existence.,Or let friends know that I'm a person who has recently come out again.,At this time, most of the content of the circle of friends is,A picture of the scenery plus a short or interesting word,For example, I will be at the end of September and the beginning of October,I will send a sentence,Goodbye in September Hello in October,In fact, there is no point in sending such a circle of friends.,It's really just to see if this circle of friends can still be used! And now in the WeChat circle of friends, there are fewer people who send their own information and explanations, and there are generally more people who send those micro-businesses, and now there are fewer people who send chicken soup for the soul! And I also have friends who often don't post on Moments, and even friends who close Moments!

I think I'm still a person who likes to brush the circle of friends, which is not to say how much I want to brush my sense of existence. But when you are alone, you will feel very uncomfortable, sometimes there is no way to vent your emotions, and then at this time you are very helpless, because if you say that your own mood has been suppressed in your heart, he may make you very uncomfortable all day long, so many people will begin to think about many things in their hearts, and then eventually they will choose to vent their feelings in the way of the circle of friends. This has caused many people to think that under normal circumstances, most of the people who like to brush the circle of friends are brushing the illusion of presence, in fact, I don't think it's such a ridiculous thing, for some of our better friends can also know his mood at any time, I think this is a good way to understand each other.

But for myself, if one day I feel that a person is particularly uncomfortable, or that one day the mood is particularly bad, and then I will start to think crankily, sometimes it will reach the point of special depression, at this time I will choose to send a circle of friends, and then use some simple words to express my feelings, so many times if it is a particularly low time, maybe my friends will care about me, and I will feel that my psychological words will feel better, I think this is also a kind of circle of friends that belongs to the sense of existence. And then every time I go out to travel, I can't help but brush up on a wave of friends, because I want to share with others that I go to some fun places to express my sense of existence, I think this is also an experience that many people will have! So I think in fact, if you brush your sense of existence, you shouldn't blame each other now, but that we can choose to watch it or not, you can think about it, if it's for your own crush, if you secretly look at some of his circle of friends, isn't it brushing his sense of existence?

It's not a great feeling.