Suddenly a question came to mind about the three obedience and four virtues

Have you heard the story of Lu You and Tang Wan?

Three from four virtues is only one aspect of women's morality, in fact, there are also many requirements for sons, such as filial piety. Therefore, the "husband and son" feels like a dog's tail mink, which is not as "essence" as the first two at all!

When one rule conflicts with another, it's up to you which rule is stronger.

China has always been based on "loyalty and filial piety", so I think I should listen to my mother.

Another example: the peacock flies southeast ......

It's not the same thing, man!

1. Three Cong and Four Virtues is one of the ancient Chinese customs, and the combined name of "Three Cong" and "Four Virtues". "Three subordination" refers to a woman who is unmarried and follows her father, marries her husband, and dies to her son; The "four virtues" refer to women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills.

2. "Three obedience and four virtues" is a kind of ancient Chinese women's moral norms, which is to meet the needs of family stability and safeguard the interests of patriarchal-patriarchal families (clans), according to the principles of "internal and external" and "male superiority and female inferiority", and the Confucian etiquette and religion are the normative requirements for women's life in morality, behavior and cultivation.

3. Three from the four virtues: it is the moral character that women should have from ancient China to the liberation, the three from the unmarried (obeyed) father, married (auxiliary) husband, husband died from (raising) children, four virtues refer to women's morality, women's words, women's appearance, women's merit (women's morality, rhetoric, manners, female red).

4. The original distinction between the inside and outside of the family organization is just the opposite of the distinction between men and women, men and women, and men and women, and the three subordinates and four virtues in today's society have slowly disappeared.

Reveal the original "three from four virtues" and solve the misunderstandings of thousands of years.

Four virtues"It is the four kinds of cultivation necessary for women in the court: virtue (virtue), speech (speech), loss and appearance (appearance), and gong (skill), including the four traditional women's education, so it is called the four teachings or four elements

Four virtues"First seen in the "Zhou Li, Tianguan, Neizai", Neizai is to teach the official position of the harem women, and teach the women of the Hou Cha Palace Yin Rite (the etiquette that women observe) and women's duties (the duties that women bear), among which the nine concubines in the higher positions teach the methods of women's learning, such as women's morality, women's words, eliminating defects, judging women's appearance, and women's skills

The new "three from four virtues" that is popular on the Internet is the "three from four virtues" of boyfriends to girlfriends

1. The boyfriend's "three slaves".

Your girlfriend must follow when she goes out, obey her orders, and blindly obey your girlfriend's mistakes.

Second, the boyfriend's "four virtues".

Girlfriend has to wait for makeup, girlfriend has to be willing to spend money, girlfriend has to endure anger, and girlfriend has to remember her birthday.

Three from four virtues, is the touchstone of good feelings, when it comes to fighting, women can't beat; In terms of strength, women can't compare. It stands to reason that men don't need to be afraid of their wives at all. Many men are afraid of their wives like tigers, not because their wives are fierce and vicious, but because they love their wives too much and care too much about their wives in their hearts.