Why is there such a big gap between people?

Our teacher once said, "Only by enduring loneliness can we achieve success". I was in school, my grades were not very good, although I was jealous of others, but I knew my own business, I just couldn't bear the loneliness, I was always in a daze, whimsical!!

These times, people are enduring loneliness – they are learning. That's why there's so much ...... gap between me and themThe reason for the gap is not just that I can't stand loneliness. Rather, others can find pleasure in loneliness, turn loneliness into fun—even if they like loneliness, loneliness is their pleasure!!

Such people are terrible, they don't feel lonely, but feel that the lack of loneliness is the real loneliness!! However, loneliness will not be lacking, it is the most will not be lacking, therefore, they have a lot of happy time, they have a lot of ** time, and they have a lot of time in their peak state. Since it's the time to be happy, **, and at the peak, how can they not learn well?

How can it not be done? And we are always worried about loneliness!! The gap is also getting farther and farther apart!!

There is no gap between people! It's just an acquired factor that changes your personal beliefs, so you feel like you're far from others!

Everyone is unique ......So there are different ideas, different methods, and naturally the gap is bigger.

The starting point is different! The point of view is different! Gaps are everywhere!

A philosophical category that characterizes how things distinguish each other and themselves. Also known as the difference. Differences are divided into extrinsic and intrinsic. External differences are how things differ from each other; Internal differences are the opposing factors and opposing tendencies within things, that is, the contradictions that have not yet intensified in the things themselves.

The essential difference between people is not in being tall, short, fat and thin, not in language and skin color, not in personality and temper, not in intelligence and dull ....... These differences are only superficial differences, not essential differences. It is believed that there are two main aspects of the essential differences between people:

One is the growth environment and growth experience, and the other is the total amount of knowledge and knowledge structure. In other words, the key to looking at a person is to see what kind of environment he grew up in and what things he experienced in the process of growing up; It depends on how much knowledge they have mastered and whether the knowledge structure is reasonable. Both of these determine a person's thoughts, not just affect them.

It boils down to one point, the difference between the two determines that the things in our "head" are different, so they are essential.

The difference between people who grew up in the countryside and those who grew up in the city is typical of the differences caused by the environment in which they were raised. A child who grows up in the countryside, even if he works and lives in the city for a long time after becoming an adult, although there will be great changes, but at some point he will still involuntarily and subconsciously show "peasant nature". Even if you become a great man, it is difficult to get rid of this naturally formed "peasant nature".

Vice versa. The influence of the environment in which he grew up is impregnated in the bone marrow, in the soul, and it is almost impossible to change completely. Even if the children all grow up in the countryside (or city), due to the differences in the family environment, the surrounding environment of the family, and the school environment in which each person grows up, there is a natural difference between children who grow up in the same rural (or urban) area.

Mengzi's mother's three moves" is to change the growth environment of "Mencius" and move to the ideal environment that Mengzi's mother thinks. In the process of growing up, what you experience is also decisive. This is the best way to illustrate the difference between children born in the same family and in the same school, especially between "twin" children.

In this situation where the environment is almost the same, the main reason for the difference is due to the different things that were experienced in the process of growing up.

What is the biggest gap between people and people? It's not wealth, talent, looks, hard work, it's this.

The gap between people is not limited to what you see, and in those unknown places, the gap may be even greater. How far are you from Jack Ma?

He was a learned and versatile polymath who had notable achievements in painting, architecture, mathematics, geometry, anatomy, physiology, zoology, botany, astronomy, meteorology, geology, geography, physics, optics, mechanics, inventions, civil engineering, etc.

It's not about poverty and wealth, it's about how to treat a person with an honest heart.

One is the emperor and the other is a beggar.

There used to be a saying; "Man is better than man than dead". Different circumstances, different environments, of course, ideological concepts and styles of action are also different, the same people, the same thing, but the effect is very different, this is the "incomparable" gap.

As the saying goes; "The heart of the heart is flesh to do, and the heart is compared to the heart". First of all, we must do our best, and then serve the society, and we will return if we pay, but the "return" we get is not necessarily the same, so the difference in the middle is the distance.

Why are some people in this world rich and some people poor? The reason is simple, the rich use "wisdom" to earn wealth, while the poor use "labor" to earn a meager living income, and it is clear that this is the gap in perception.

They are all the same people, but people have their own way of living, therefore, the path they choose to take is not the same, some people are willing to be dull in their lives, and some people are vigorous in their lives, what does this mean? That is, there is a "distance" in the heart, and there is a "distance" in the mind.

Excellent people choose a different path, while mediocre people choose a smooth and unremarkable path, and what they each "ask" for is different.

Growth, the environment of education is related, each person's character formation, habit formation is related, learning is related to cognitive level, and everyone's desires are related to ideals...... In the final analysis, it is a matter of being a person, people's hearts are in danger, people's hearts are separated from their stomachs, and they don't know how to do things. The world is contradictory, and people are no exception, so there is a gap between people, and the gap is inevitable.

The gap between people is very big in itself, so if you want to narrow this gap, then you have to work harder, at least yourself, and your next generation will not have such a big gap.

There is no absolute fairness in the world, and it is normal for people to have a gap in intelligence, but most people may not be geniuses and are ordinary, so they need to work harder, maybe geniuses are very smart, but some people look at wealth and dare not work hard, so there are many Jiang Lang's talents, so whether you are a genius or an ordinary person, you must continue to work hard, and it is impossible for a genius to succeed casually without hard work.

The gap between people is very big, some people are born with you, and they can't have things in their lifetime, so don't compare with others, just live your own life.

The gap between people must exist objectively, this is something we can't change, some people are born more beautiful and smart, they may not have to put in too much effort to become the best, some people are born to live in wealthy families, they can get more without hard work. Therefore, we have to be calm and not sad or happy, because everything is normal.

Of course, the gap between people is very large, some people are very hardworking, and some people are not unwilling to work hard, and the difference between people is inconsistent from birth.

Truly. There is a certain gap between people, but there is no need to dwell on so much, everyone's personality is different, and all aspects are different, so we just need to live our lives seriously and make ourselves happy every day, this is the best life.

Haha, you're so right, to be honest, the gap between people is so big, for example, educated and uneducated, college and non-college, so knowledge is very important, people must be self-reliant, and they are developing in a good way, and some people don't understand the importance of knowledge.

There must be a gap between people, different personalities, different living environments, and the gap will also appear. But if we treat it with a normal heart, we don't envy those who are stronger than us, and we don't bully those who are weaker than us. If you treat life with a normal heart in this way, you don't care about any gaps.

The gap between people is actually a big factor in the family environment, but it is congenitally insufficient, and it can be caught up with the day after tomorrow. So we have to study hard, work hard, and make our lives better.

Of course, the gap between people is very big, I think the words between people will be because of family, because of self-reliance, because of a person's experience, a person's luck, etc., there will be a difference, very, very big.

There is a gap between people, so we need to use our own efforts to shorten this gap, instead of feeling sorry for ourselves and not distorting ourselves.

A person's background cannot be changed artificially, as long as they do their job well and work hard, they will live happily.

A person's gap is caused by innate genes, plus acquired education and training, so the gap between people and people is becoming more and more obvious with age.

This shows that the two are working in different directions. Let's put aside the inheritance of the ancestral industry, just talk about the direction of ordinary people's efforts, there is a kind of person who studies all day long in the legal situation to take advantage of the law, over time he succeeds, he moves his heart and eyes to have everything, is the so-called hard work of the rule of people. The other kind of person believes in hard work and getting rich, thinking that as long as he is willing to work hard, he can get rich, he is a good employee in the unit, he is a good husband at home, no matter how hard this kind of person is to create wealth for others, he still has nothing, this is called the rule of laborers.

The gap is really big, and the backgrounds, experiences, and other things are different between people, and the speed of growth is also different, so there are differences and they are very big. I've heard of the rule of 28, that is, the grading is getting more and more serious.

The gap between people is very different, there is a chance to make people more popular than people in a word, you are envious of others, and at the same time others are envying you.

Why do people live, in order to enjoy life? The ultimate goal of all human actions is to get the results they need, so as to satisfy their needs to enjoy life, which is the meaning of life. However, some people have achieved their goals and achievements through hard work and their own objective conditions.

Some, on the other hand, are unable to do so. It should be said that most people do.

There will be differences between people, this has to be said, but it can be changed through one's own efforts.

Of course, external resources are a very important reason, but if two people of similar birth class and resources give them the same resources, such as 1 million on the same day in the same year, assuming that the external environment is the same, they may still live completely different lives.

Sometimes, I think that the human body is just like computer hardware, and it is basically difficult for everyone to gain any crushing advantage in hardware.

All people are equal, and when they are born, they are all the same. Innate intelligence is only part of the reason, most of the words, or have to rely on acquired efforts, there is a gap between people, but you can through your efforts, shorten the gap between you. You can even become more successful than him. Come on!

Because there is a big gap between people and the environment in which people turn. Moreover, people will change with the environment of turnover. Therefore, the gap between people is very large. Even if the gap is large, you must work hard to do your best.

The gap between people is indeed very large, but it needs to be paid according to everyone's efforts in order to reap themselves. I didn't get anything myself, so I can still get some through hard work. Something that cannot be had.

Everyone pays attention to the fact that the environment he faces is different, and it is also related to his choice, and he chooses to escape or move forward in the face of this environment, which will get different results.

There is no genius in this world, not genius is just that everyone has his own good side, but you don't realize it, God is fair to people.

The difference between people and people is not very big, but there are too many environmental factors that affect a person's growth, and there will be gaps and deviations

At the same time, you are leisurely and leisurely, others work hard to improve, and after a long time, the gap is quickly pulled out.

This part is luck, your family is unlucky, if you don't catch it, you will fall behind, and if someone else's family is lucky, if you catch it, you will take a step forward.

Genetic gap - ancestors in the shade, wealth inheritance.

Ability gaps – learning, thinking, motivation, mentality, character, health, etc.

Opportunity gap – luck, opportunity, nobles, times, policies, etc.

With so much included, can the gap not be big?