Should I get the money back, should I take it or not?

I don't agree with the upstairs look.

It depends on the person, if they want it, they may not be able to give it

You also said that she only paid me back half of it at your strong request, and she often bought some very expensive luxury goods to prove that he was able to repay the money. Just don't want to pay it back. It can only be said that he is a woman who loves vanity, and he is a dependent person.

The skin is unusually thick. Friends are friends, but you can't be like this. I suggest you still have to get the money back.

It is easy to be nice to one person in the face of money. Now there are too many such people in society.

It's up to you. It seems that you must have liked that girl a little, otherwise you wouldn't have borrowed her for your own living expenses. But now this year.

You have to keep your eyes peeled, because today's society is too complicated. My brother is still settling accounts. Since she asked you to join in the first place.

There should be borrowing and repaying. If she doesn't pay it back, you're embarrassed to ask her in person. Then you can send her a message and ask her.

Isn't there any difficulty, or even better in person! If you really have a hard time, you don't have to embarrass people too much. If, like you said, she often buys extravagant things and doesn't pay you back if she has money.

You could have asked her for it. Don't be embarrassed. The money is yours, and it's not easy to make money now.

But even if it's a girl, girls are born to buy things. Hey hey

But it should always be said that the money should be paid back first. Don't be embarrassed. Besides, you don't have much to do now.

Just friends. By the way, did you sign any agreements or IOUs or something? If not.

Even if she tears her face and doesn't pay you back. You can't help it. Anyway, let's talk to her.

Good luck

Hehe, I have encountered such a thing many times pull! I don't know how big your amount is, borrow money in the future to do what you can, my current mentality is, don't borrow money easily, if it's really a good friend is in a hurry to borrow money from me, I don't plan to pay it back to me after lending, but the amount must be within the range I can bear, don't borrow more, so that I won't be awkward in my heart in the future, and I won't want him to pay back the money as soon as I see this person... This time it should be regarded as getting an experience of dealing with the world, and there is no need to ask for this money forcefully, even if you want to come back, you will not have friends to pull it!

If you don't open your mouth, you may be reluctant to lose such a friend, but have you ever thought about it, friends suffer together, and the person who accompanies you to enjoy is not necessarily your bosom friend, if she is her good friend, you will definitely give it to you if you ask her.

Actually, I think if I were your relative, I would prefer you to take this money, because I was afraid of the things that the ** bureau picked up, and I was afraid that you would let me buy things in the future, and then I also said politely, don't give money or something. As time goes by, we become more and more unclear. Maybe you think that the things you buy for us are more rental, and the things are expensive, and I may think that I buy you more things, and the things I buy are expensive...As a result, our relationship became very bad.

That's right, I just thought about it.

Many.

Legal analysis: whether the money of the voluntary gift can be returned, depending on the specific circumstances, if it is a paid gift, and the donee has not fulfilled the obligation, the donor can revoke the gift, if it is a free gift, and the money has been transferred to the donee, can not be returned.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 658:The donor may revoke the gift before the transfer of the right to the donated property. The provisions of the preceding paragraph do not apply to notarized gift contracts or gift contracts that have the nature of public interest or moral obligations such as disaster relief, poverty alleviation, or assistance to the disabled, which must not be revoked in accordance with law.

Article 661: Gifts may be accompanied by obligations. Where the gift is accompanied by obligations, the donee shall perform the obligations in accordance with the agreement.

Article 663: The donor may revoke the gift under any of the following circumstances:

1) Seriously infringing upon the lawful rights and interests of the donor or the donor's close relatives;

2) Failure to perform the obligation to support the donor;

3) Failure to perform the obligations agreed upon in the gift contract.

The donor's right of revocation shall be exercised within one year from the date on which the donor knew or should have known the reasons for revocation.