I just joined today and feel super unconfident 20

I was born to be useful! Everyone has their own strengths, it's just that you haven't discovered them yet. Actually, what you described happened to a lot of people.

We tend to care a lot about the affirmation of our relatives and friends, but if you care too much, you tend to limit yourself to crises everywhere, because not everyone understands you, and it is impossible for everyone to agree with you, then we must at least understand ourselves. In the eyes of your colleagues, you are indeed a novice, they call you a child does not mean that they disagree with you, interpersonal relationships can also be changed through their own attempts, not everyone is born a speaker. Confidence is given by ourselves, first of all, only when we fully affirm ourselves, we will be affirmed by others.

Maybe we haven't done a good job at this stage, but if you believe in yourself, you will definitely do better. I'm the same, I always feel like I don't know anything, but I believe that my current confusion is just a preparation for getting to know myself better. No one is perfect, come on!!

Hehe, don't have such a heavy psychological burden, okay?

In fact, what you remember and care about in your heart are from the outside world, and they are not positive evaluations of you, they continue to superimpose and make you more and more unhappy, right?

It's very simple, take a deep breath when you feel like you're about to suffocate in the face of pressure, what you have to do is very simple, change the way of thinking, you will only graphic design is actually saying that your advantage is graphic design, so maximize your advantages, do it seriously and speak with strength, and allow those people to say that you are a child now, because they don't understand you, and plug their mouths with grades.

Entering a big company is an affirmation of you! Why don't you believe it, confident people are the most attractive, people who believe in themselves are the most handsome, cheer up, this must be a good start, let go of your hands and feet, no problem!

If you just arrive, you will be bullied by your old colleagues, and it will be good for them to get to know you after a while.

Learn to mingle with your colleagues, ask them for advice, and pat them appropriately. Talk to them and tell them jokes.

If you see which of your colleagues can speak well and be useful, try to have a good relationship with him and pull him to your side.

I have a backer among my colleagues, who are you afraid of???

Dress up so that you can't make your colleagues feel ashamed to walk with you!!

Be confident in yourself.

Be humble and ask others for advice, communicate with strangers (colleagues who are not very familiar with each other), you can use questions as a prerequisite for opening, it is best to see that when he is free, if you really like graphic design, ask more veterans (who have been in the industry for a long time, have high ability). Personal opinion, for reference only, hope.

Believe in yourself. You have to swim against the current.

In fact, when they call you a child, they don't look down on you or anything. Just a customary term for newbies.

How does it feel a bit like saying my feelings, I've been through this situation with you, too. But I'm just an apprentice.

I think you may have just arrived in a relatively unfamiliar environment, and it will be good after a long time.

In addition, you are more stressed about work, take your time when you have nothing to do, and study when you have nothing to do. Strengthen and strengthen your skills, and then there is your personal image, it doesn't matter what you look like, the important thing is to have a good image.

Since others look down on you, then you make achievements, let them see your efforts and results, actions prove everything, I just started in the company, I know that feeling, so I won't let them look down on me, work hard!

No one can do it absolutely, no one absolutely can't...

Your mood without anyone to help you....Even if I give you help, it won't help....After all, we can't say words more convincing than famous words, we can't say more beautiful words than the lyrics of inspirational songs...

Those imaginary things are useless, the key is that you have to observe life slowly by yourself, grow slowly, don't care about other people's opinions, and try to surpass yourself.

Summary. 1. After understanding through the interview, I found that the company's position was not suitable for me; or find that they are not satisfied with the company's treatment and other aspects. Rejection Method:

Hit ** and tell the company's personnel that he felt that this job was not suitable after in-depth understanding. Of course, at this time, HR will definitely ask why? What's not suitable?

At this time, job seekers don't have to worry too much, just tell the truth.

1. After understanding through the interview, I found that the company's position was not suitable for me; Or find that the company's treatment is not satisfactory. How to refuse: Call ** to tell Sun Xu to apply for the company's personnel, saying that after an in-depth understanding of Shen Kaizai, he felt that this job was not suitable.

Of course, at this time, HR will definitely ask why? What's not suitable? At this time, job seekers don't have to worry too much, just tell the truth.

2. The two companies interviewed at the same time notified me to go to work, chose the company I liked, and I wanted to quit the other one. Rejection of arguments: Here you can also use the method in case 1 to refuse.

In addition, I can also say that I have found a job that I am satisfied with and am currently employed, so I'm sorry and I'm sorry. 3. I went to work the next day after receiving the interview success notice, but I didn't want to go again after the trial day. Or during the probation period in the first company, I received a notice of work from another company with excellent overall conditions.

Rejection method: This is actually best to refuse, you can say that you have gone through the trial and feel that it is not suitable or adaptable, so you will not come tomorrow. If HR continues to ask questions, it can be arbitrarily pointed out from the aspects of work, corporate culture, company environment, etc.

Rejection method 1, a sincere **hit** tone must be polite, and then show the other party the thank you button, and say to keep in touch or hope their recruitment process goes smoothly. You've also indicated that you're willing to stay up to date with their job opportunities, or to reconsider if your external factors change.

It's not an employer that you're thinking about today, but it may appeal to you later, so keep the relationship positive and let the doors of opportunity open for you.

Summary. Reasons why I don't want to go after a successful interview 1. The salary is low, not within the range I expected, comprehensive survival problems, etc., after consideration, it is not suitable. 2. Accommodation conditions.

Living far away, low salary, difficult to rent, and the company does not provide accommodation, so it is not suitable. 3. Distance reasons. The place of residence is far away from the place of work of the company I applied for, and it is too difficult to go back and forth, so I don't go to work, so I'm sorry.

4. Industry problems. After thinking about it, I felt that I was not suitable for the job. 5. There is something temporary, it takes a while to handle it, and I can't go to work in your company, I'm sorry.

6. I have found a job and am at work. This reason is the most powerful, no matter what situation you are in, as long as you say that you have found a job and are at work, most HR will not say anything more to you, and will end the call with a message wishing you a happy job. 7. Don't reply to text messages, don't answer.

This method is not recommended, but there are some job seekers who do.

Reasons why I don't want to go after a successful interview 1. The salary is low, not within the range I expected, comprehensive survival problems, etc., after consideration, it is not suitable. 2. Accommodation conditions. Living far away, low salary, difficult to rent, and the company does not provide accommodation, so it is not suitable.

3. Distance reasons. The place of residence is far away from the place of work of the guess-type company, and the back and forth is too inappropriate, so Sui Hanchai will not go to work, sorry. 4. Industry problems.

After thinking about it, I felt that I was not suitable for the job. 5. There is something temporary, it takes a while to handle it, and I can't go to work in your company, I'm sorry. 6. I have found a job and am at work.

This reason is the most powerful, no matter what situation you are in, as long as you say that you have found a job and are at work, most HR will not say anything more to you, and will end the call with a message wishing you a happy job. 7. Don't reply to text messages, **don't answer. This method is not recommended, but there are some job seekers who do.

The interview is a form of shaking the limbs through writing, face-to-face or online communication (**, **) to examine a person's work ability and comprehensive quality, and through the interview, you can initially judge whether the candidate can integrate into his team. It is a recruitment event that is carefully planned by the organizers.