When I first joined the company, what was it like to meet the leader s son getting married?

The day before my son's wedding, I discussed with four other intern colleagues, and they unanimously decided not to go, because they were afraid that they would not be able to stay in the future. Then I told them in person that I would go to participate, because after all, the invitations from the superiors were all sent. Because I am an intern, and I have just graduated from school not long ago, when I was in college, I didn't ask my parents for money, so I didn't have much money on me, this money was all my hard work before, and now, I have to rent a house and eat outside, so I only have a gift of 100 yuan.

Originally, I thought that this wedding would end like this, but what I didn't expect was that after returning to the company, the other 4 intern colleagues told me how I bribed my boss behind my back, and I took the initiative to apologize, and they also ignored it.

There are almost more than 20 employees in the company, most of the employees are newly hired college students, there is no work experience in the company, maybe one day I don't want to do it and resign, my colleague Xiaofeng is also a college student, he thinks that the boss and working atmosphere of this company is still good, the boss is also very amiable, treat employees as if they are their own family. It's just that after a month of work, the boss sent a wedding invitation in the company, everyone thought it was the boss getting married, the boss explained that it was his son's wedding, after the boss left, the supervisor discussed with everyone about the gift, and finally after the negotiation, everyone followed 800, for the gift of 800 yuan, Xiaofeng and other college students felt that it was too high, but in the end other colleagues also decided to follow 800.

A few days ago, I was still in the company I liked, of course, I was not a regular employee, I had only been in the company for more than 1 week, barely an intern, and there were 5 interns in the same batch as me. Among our 5 interns, although I am not the most powerful in terms of work ability, but in terms of comprehensive ability, I can barely rank second, in fact, I am very hopeful to stay, but because of one thing, I gave up on my own. When I joined the company for a week, I happened to meet the son of our intern's supervisor who got married, and our supervisor sent us an invitation to have a glass of wine at that time.

The boss invited everyone to have a meal alone, to be honest, those meals were really not good, that is, two or three hundred a table, a week later, an employee told Xiaofeng in the company, it turned out that the boss's son was not married, because the boss's son was still in college, Xiaofeng was not calm after hearing it, and other college students felt very depressed, the boss didn't make money? And it's 800 yuan per person, which is really a lot of money!

In the workplace, it is impossible for newcomers who have not paid to succeed easily, even if there are old fritters to take you, you need to invite old employees to eat, and people are willing to teach you. Someone to teach you can avoid detours, rely on your own exploration, and you can only stumble and hope for growth. Don't be surprised, that's the way the workplace is in reality.

It is in a probationary period. Because I am not in my hometown, I plan to change jobs and return to my hometown in two or three years. This public institution has a particularly serious habit of paying money with members, and the office collectively collects money to hang gifts.

is destined to change jobs, so the money of the people who go out will definitely not be recovered, which is equivalent to giving it for nothing. Colleagues who came last year said they had only started giving money after the probationary period.

Many employees and leaders like to send red bombs in the company, take the opportunity to make money, especially the leaders of some large companies, because the company does have a lot of employees, if you get married or have children, send invitations in the company, you can earn tens of thousands of dollars a day, which is much better than honest work.

A few days ago, our principal's son got married, and I didn't follow it, and the other teachers told me that I didn't need to do it, because I only stayed in this school for a year. But I'm thinking about not just this time, but also whether or not to follow it for the entire trial period, so that it's not just two hundred. The atmosphere of the unit is also okay, and it shouldn't be troublesome.

I have the heart to resign, and I guess this must have been said by the leader, because only the leader knows that I am saluting, and they will not know. After that time, I didn't say anything more, put away my things, and left my job.

Why save a few hundred yuan to make yourself scared, and think that you can't get back the money after resigning, even if you don't resign, you can't get back the money you gave him if you do it for a long time, okay? Don't be the first bird, the new man will follow the old bird.

Even if you don't share the money, he knows who you are, doesn't he? If this leader's son gets married, he is about to retire, do you need to ask him to do things in your future career prospects?

Method 1: Never transfer stress from work to family

When you are having difficulties or are too stressed at work, you may need a place to vent, and this place to vent, the first thing that comes to your mind is your family and your husband. But if you really vent it, then your husband must be the one you want to express your dissatisfaction, but it is you who unconsciously vent your feelings on your husband in this way, which has hurt your own family, and it is a wrong way to balance the relationship between family and work.

At this time, if you want to balance the relationship between family and work, you must learn never to transfer the pressure from work to family, which is a harm to your family, but also a manifestation of low emotional intelligenceTell your husband in a cheerful way, so that your husband does not feel that you are willing to share things at work with him, which is a sign of trust, but rather shortens the distance between you and the family.

Method 2: Never use your work ethic to kidnap the family

Some jobs require passion, some make people strong, and some work makes people introverted or moody. These are common things at work. We can't bring the negative energy and work characteristics that we have accumulated at work to the family, not to mention your work ethic to kidnap the family and separate work and family relationships.

For example, some women in managerial positions may be very powerful and controlling, they are used to giving orders, even in the family, and like to show their superiority, but you have to understand that your husband is not your own subordinate. Home is a warm place, not a place you can control, please pack your professionalism and professional character, and distinguish between the workplace and the family.

Working women want to maintain a balance between family and career, and it's actually a very simple thing to doAs long as you are at work, your body and mind are working, to discover the value of your work, and when you get home from work, in addition to work, your thoughts are used for your family and childrenGo on vacation and travel with his family, put aside some unnecessary socializing and work, so that you can balance family and work.

It depends on whether you want to focus on career or family, focus on that aspect, and spend more time on that aspect, and you can also grasp it with both hands.

After marriage, women will inevitably shift their focus to the family, and two people cannot all take care of their work without having one to take care of the family. It is difficult for women to take care of the family while juggling work, and if you have money, you can ask your aunt to help with household chores, or you can put less energy into your work and spend more time on your family.

The main thing is to allocate time to communicate with my husband to solve this problem. Two people cooperate with each other, take care of family matters, and don't leave everything to one person.

Allocate your time wisely and communicate effectively. You can't have both fish and bear's paws, you have to learn to focus on it.

You must learn to solve the company's affairs in the company, don't bring your work to your home, home is a place to live.

I think it's okay for you to keep improving your own abilities, don't rely too much on men, and don't be a full-time wife.

Don't think about crossing these three mountains in the face, these are all things that must be experienced, don't look at these things as particularly troublesome

This can only be said to be one step at a time, and when you get to that point, you will naturally know what to do, after all, no one can imagine it now.

It's okay to spend it peacefully, and it's okay to give up when it's time to give up. Don't be anxious, it's a major life event that needs to be spent happily.

Don't get married and have children at the most important time, and when your career is stable, you can try to get married, have children, and have a family.

As a woman, don't treat these three things as three mountains, these three things are natural, how can it be as difficult as you imagined to cross?

I think that as a woman, you should be independent, and when it comes to the family, you should find someone who can understand you, understand you, start a family together, and then get married and have children, and don't let this matter cause you not to work.

It is still necessary to face it, it is difficult to be a strong woman, and individuals will still choose to have more families.

Each time period has something that needs to be done in each time period, and you can do it at that time, without thinking too much about it, and it has become the annoyance of too many people.

This is a necessary stage of life, and in the workplace, this is a common problem for all women, so you don't need to worry too much, just take it slowly.

Nowadays, there are many women, especially working women in big cities, and many of them do not want to be bound by marriage. There are various reasons for this type of phenomenon.

First of all, with the development of society, the pressure of life will become more and more intense, and if you get married, you will not be able to shop and travel as much as you used to. and also have to give birth to children for her husband's family, and become a yellow-faced mother-in-law herself. Therefore, many independent women would rather be single.

Secondly, many women have a strong sense of career, and they feel that marriage will limit the development of their careers. Therefore, even when you reach the age, you are easily reluctant to get married. Eventually, it leads to being too old and missing the first year of marriage.

Finally, due to the limitations of the working environment or job position, their circle is relatively simple, the resources available around them are relatively small, and the social contact area is narrow, so they cannot meet the other half of their favorite in the limited contact with the opposite sex.

There are more and more leftover women in modern society, and there is a trend towards a larger age. Especially for women in the workplace, almost 4 out of 10 people are leftover women, and there are many reasons for this.

First of all, it's their own reasons, for example, I don't want to get married right now. On the one hand, it's because I'm so busy at work that I don't have time to take care of my private life if I want to achieve something at work. On the other hand, they simply don't want to get married, and even to the point of fear of marriage.

I really think it's terrible to get married, and I can't think about it when I think that I will be trapped in the family in the future, I have to worry about everything, and I don't even have my own private life when I have children.

There are also external factors, the older women get, the more difficult it is to find the right person, and they can only be single when they look for it. In addition, many men's families do not want to find a strong woman in the workplace, which is also one of the reasons.

It's not that I don't want to get married, but I don't want to find someone to marry casually, because I don't need to, I have a successful career, I can do everything by myself, and I don't need those cheap companions, so I naturally don't need to find someone to marry casually.

Their work is fine, there is nothing to worry about, although they are old, but what is the definition of this age? How old is to be considered old, our lives never need to be defined by others, so it's okay not to get married.

There is a possibility of not getting married because I have looked down on it, and I don't have that obsession with feelings and marriage, and there is also a kind of thing that has been hurt and knows that if I touch this thing again, then the person who is played to death must be myself, so I would rather be single all the time, and wait for the only suitable soul in the world.

1. The job position has reached a certain height.

Older working women have accumulated rich work experience and a lot of contacts in the workplace for many years, and it may be a better time to work hard.

Second, the salary is high, and the quality of life is high.

She can support herself and live well, and now there are a lot of people who don't know whether it's chicken soup for the soul or poisonous chicken soup, such as money, I will earn land, I will sweep the food, I will cook, I am free and happy alone, why should I get married, it still makes sense, and the current high divorce rate and not so good men also make women not want to get married.

3. The level of ideal partner is high.

Her own conditions are good, and she has high requirements for her partner, and people who can meet that kind of requirements rarely appear in life, and they are basically indifferent to those men who are prevalent in life, so it may not be that they are unwilling to get married, but they are not suitable for marriage.

Nowadays, there are many so-called "older leftover women" in society", and most of these women are successful career women, at this time, some people will ask, why don't you think about your life's events when you are so old?

In my opinion, there are several reasons: First, these older working women have made achievements in their careers, are enough to support themselves, and can even create good living conditions for themselves. Second, their education and work are excellent, so the requirements for finding a partner are higher, and their education, work and car are all the standards they measure, or this is the so-called door-to-door, right?

Third, they want to find what they like and like themselves, the right person, they will never compromise, and they are not afraid to wait for a few more years after waiting for so many years.