At what point do you realize you re getting old?

When I saw a group of children playing with toys, I felt that I was old, and I actually felt that the toys were very childish.

In the past, I didn't dare to drink my favorite carbonated drinks and milk tea every day, and I had to add some honey, wolfberries, red dates, etc. to boiled water. I am no longer willful and eat and drink, and I slowly pay attention to my health, and I feel that I am no longer young.

When I was already on my own regimen, I realized that I was getting old.

When everyone else shows their feet and necks in winter, I put on autumn pants and wear a stocking, and I feel that I am already old.

When I looked in the mirror, I found that I had the same wrinkles on my face as my parents.

Last month, as soon as I got into the elevator when I got home one day, I heard a woman running towards the elevator at a trot, shouting "Wait!" Wait a minute! I quickly pressed the elevator door button twice, and the elevator door that was about to close was struck again, and a woman who looked to be thirty-five or sixteen years old came in with a little boy in a panic.

Thank you, thank you" The woman said politely, looking like a warm and easy-going person, "You're welcome, what floor are you?" I was going to help her press the floor button, and asked her with a smile, "Tenth floor, thank you", she replied, I pressed the tenth floor button. "Son, call grandpa, thank you grandpa" The woman suddenly bowed her head and said to her son in a commanding tone, "children must know how to be polite."

I looked at the woman in a daze, as if I had suddenly been hit with a hammer, a little stunned and a little frightened. "Thank you, grandpa" The boy's voice was very sweet, and I moved the corners of my mouth in embarrassment, but I didn't respond.

The most annoying thing is that walking halfway, I don't remember whether the door is locked, which makes people uneasy, and I turn back home, the door is locked well, people are gradually aging like this, memory is reminding themselves, faces are reminding themselves, sideburns are reminding themselves, we are about to grow old.

Some of the discomfort in my body made me really feel like I was really starting to get older. I remember when I was twenty years old, I played crazy with my friends all night, went home to sleep, and my mental state immediately recovered to be refreshed.

When I was studying, I sang K on the Internet and stayed up all night, and the next day I could still go shopping, go to class, and climb the mountain, but now, let alone all night, I slept a few hours late, and I didn't have the energy to go to work the next day. I can only feel that I am getting old and my energy is not as good as before.

When I saw the children playing the games of their childhood, I felt very naïve in my heart, and suddenly I thought that I was like this at the beginning, and then I really felt as if I was really old.

It's not the youngest in our office anymore. The moment the newcomers approached the "post-00s" and they called me "big sister", I realized that I was getting old.

When I was studying, I bought some water and lotion to smear, all of which were full of collagen, and slowly, cosmetics went from dozens of yuan to hundreds of yuan to thousands of yuan, and the eye cream became more and more high-end, but it still couldn't cover the crow's feet on the face. So, I've realized I'm old, don't talk to me in the middle of the night, eye cream is too expensive! ‍‍

I wanted to say a person's name, but suddenly I couldn't say it, although I usually pay attention to this person, but my memory is still stuck, and my memory is declining, so I began to have a wrong language, and I was going to say "east", but when I said "west".

Memory loss also makes me feel terrible, wearing glasses to find glasses, just lock the door, go out suddenly startled, broken, my door locked? My wife always does things like this and forgets that, and I really hate myself when I have time, what happened to me, I have to admit that I am indeed old.

Realizing that I'm no longer young is something new.

I've been working hard for many years, and I don't want to go out this year. So I responded to the call of "good employment in the nearest place, and I can take care of the young and the old", and found a job in the place where I lived.

That day, when I went to apply for a job at a company, I was greeted by a female supervisor in her forties, who was wearing a mask during the epidemic, and she couldn't see her true face clearly. I handed over my resume, full of confidence, to say that the academic qualifications completely exceeded the recruitment requirements, to say that the work experience is not less than ten years, to say that the body also has a figure, 1.78 meters tall I am a little proud.

The female supervisor of recruitment looked me up and down, flipped through my resume, the mask covered her face, I don't know if her face was written satisfied, and then she asked for my ID card, asked me to wait for a while, and the female supervisor turned around and went inside.

The door to the middle room reads, "Manager's Room.""Three words. After a while, the female supervisor came out, I still couldn't see her facial expression, she gave me my ID card, and said, "Unfortunately, you must apply for the position of ...... under the age of 40."”

It is common for some people to walk out of the door of this company and run into a wall when they apply for jobs, but this time, at this moment, I suddenly realized that I was no longer a young man.

When a person thinks about age at any time, it means that the person is old.

1.No longer obsessed with the pursuit of pure love.

2.No longer judge things by what you like or dislike.

3.Begin to accept most of the injustices in the world.

4.I will no longer be in front of the public, jumping and walking.

5.Take every choice in life more and more carefully. Because I am no longer young, I no longer have time for trial and error.

6.More and more attention will be paid to every detail that reflects the health of the body:

The heart beats faster when you stay up late; If you sleep for too long, you will feel dizzy and dizzy when you wake up; When you sit for too long and twist your body, you will hear a small rattling sound from the cervical spine and neck.

In the past, when the fever reached 38 degrees, I chose not to take the medicine, but to get into the quilt and carry it silently for a night, but now I have to go to the hospital to register for bleeding gums.

7.When I think of what I said a few years ago, I will feel blushing when I think of what I have done.

8.From a gushing center of attention to a silent listener.

9.When facing the bottom of society, we will no longer simply think that "it's not that they haven't worked hard enough." ”

10.I gradually recognized the boundaries of my own abilities and understood that there must be trade-offs in the end.

11.Stop self-knowledge and internal friction, and guide others to pay for themselves.

12.No longer seeking freedom from parents, but wanting to be closer, closer to them.

Hello, seeing that the children have grown up and are in love, at this time I also realize that I am no longer young, and as I grow older, I will gradually feel that I am no longer young. Specifically, when you feel a decline in your physical fitness, see yourself with wrinkles and gray hair, and surround yourself with people around you who are young and lenient, you will realize that you are no longer young.

1. When you feel that your physical fitness is declining, you will feel that you are no longer young.

When I was young, my physical fitness was very good, I could run and jump, and I felt full of strength at that time. But as I get older, I feel that my physical fitness is declining. I started to become clumsy, and when I felt this situation, I realized that I was no longer young.

I've started to age.

2. When you see that you have wrinkles and gray hair, you will feel that you have carefully changed and are no longer young.

As I grew older, I began to have gray hair and wrinkles, and when gray hair and wrinkles gradually increased, I realized that I was no longer young. This feeling was not very obvious at first, but when I turned 40, it became more and more obvious that I was really old and no longer young.

3. When you are with young people, you can feel that you are really no longer young.

Young people are full of vitality, Bi Heng is full of energy, and he was like this when he was young. But when I got older, when I was with young people, I obviously felt that the gap between myself and them became very large. At this time, I began to realize that I was no longer young, and as I got older.

This feeling became more and more obvious, and after I turned 40, I finally realized that I was no longer a young man, but a middle-aged and old man.

Although we see a lot of people always saying that they are very young, and there is a lot of time, they can waste more time for me. Because they're so young. But there are also times when they slowly realize that they are no longer young.

So some people just want to know when you started to realize that you weren't young anymore.

For some people, when they realize that they are no longer young, it is when they slowly lose Namin that they find that their body is not as good as before, and many of them may be before. They often go to bed late or stay up late because they think they are actually very young. But after a long time, they slowly found that their bodies were slowly not as good as before.

So at this time, they realized that they were not as young as before.

Of course, there are also people who realize that they are no longer young because they felt very young before and had a lot of time to waste. Even they often waste time, and they don't care. But when they slowly realize that they don't have much time, or even much time to work and study, they find that they are no longer young.

I don't have as much time as I was young, and I don't have much energy. This, of course, will make them regret it very much. Even making themselves no longer young makes them feel very uncomfortable.

That's why we want to say to every young person. I hope that no matter what they do, they should seize the moment and work hard. Because if they always feel very young, not serious, and not hardworking, then one day they will waste too much time and energy.

And by the time they do realize this, they're not young anymore and they don't have many opportunities.

So for young people, they should seize the time in front of them, and work hard and study hard, so that in the end, they will be allowed to do so. Getting better and better, and ultimately making their future life happier and more satisfying.

When the people you grew up with have started their own little families, you will realize that you are no longer young.

I am aware of this problem and start with the three invitations I received.

The first invitation came from high school classmate Lao Wang.

Speaking of Lao Wang, he once ranked at the top of our high school class for three years, but this brother is not dedicated to reading sage books, and he followed (led) us to watch ** kickball games to eat, drink, play and play in high school.

Because Lao Wang's grades are good, he is a god-like existence in the hearts of his younger brothers and sisters, but every time a primary school girl worships him, we will roll his eyes, because every time everyone quietly runs out of the school cafeteria to improve the food, he runs the fastest and eats the most delicious.

Then, this thing is going to get married, really going to get married.

Suddenly, I thought of my high school classmates, the summer vacation of my junior year of high school, and the familiar faces in that classroom.

On the banyan tree by the pond, I know that it is crying for summer."

The second invitation is from the doctor's best friend Bingbing.

When I was studying for a PhD, I met several smart and beautiful girlfriends.

When I first met them, I said, "Wow, they're so beautiful," and after getting acquainted, "Wow, they're too smart and tough!" ”

In the past few years, I have also watched them wear white and beautiful wedding dresses one by one and enter the marriage hall.

Aside from me, Bingbing was the last to get married.

Bingbing sent me her wedding photos, she was dressed in a white veil, sitting in front of the piano generously, extremely beautiful.

At this point, I have completed the achievement of seeing all my PhD girlfriends get married.

The third invitation was from my little cousin.

To be honest, I was shocked when I saw this invitation!

This girl is six years younger than me, and she is still a little kid in my eyes, why is she going to get married?

Then my mother kindly reminded me, "The legal age of marriage in my country is no earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women." The first marriage in which a man reaches the age of 25 and a woman who reaches the age of 23 is considered a late marriage. ”

pinching his fingers, the little cousin got married late when she was still one year old.

Sure enough, it's not that my little cousin is too young, it's that I'm too old.

I looked at my little cousin's wedding photos, and then at my newly bought skateboard, and I was speechless for a while.

Since then, except for my little cousin, who is still in my first year of high school, and my little cousin, who is in the fifth grade, I have become the only one in my family who is not married.

Time goes by little by little, and the three invitations in my hand seem to tell me that the growth of people is accompanied by those who grew up with you, and they have established their own small families.

We are no longer us, we are no longer young, we no longer have the troubles of unbridled youth and hypocrisy.

You look at the boys and girls in your memory, married to the bride, married to the groom, to be a husband, to be a wife, to be a father, to be a mother.

One by one, they walked to their respective families, and then, waving goodbye.

Farewell to you, farewell to youth.

One day, you will become one of them, and that is called, middle age.