Why is the probability of success of confessions between good friends very low?

That's because after being friends for many years, even if they are interested in each other, many people will be cautious about handling this friendship, maybe a confession, this kind of friendship will end, and it will be more embarrassing to become the most familiar stranger to each other or meet again, so many people will not take the initiative to break this relationship, which is the so-called everyone understands in their hearts, but no one will say it. Maybe everyone is reluctant to destroy this hard-won friendship, and the success rate of confession will be relatively low.

I think the saying that rabbits don't eat the grass next to the nest makes sense, and good friends are usually too familiar with each other, and there is nothing new about it. Leads to two people.

I feel awkward, and the other party also feels uncomfortable, so it is difficult to accept the confession between good friends.

When I was in high school, I had a boy friend in the class who had a very good relationship, and he sat behind me, and we often played backgammon after class, and he basically won, but he still didn't dislike playing chess with me. At that time, in our science class, he studied quite well, and he often took the trouble to analyze the mistakes I asked him for. In this way, I plucked up the courage to confess to him, but he rejected me, probably because I was too familiar, since then, we basically don't have much contact, that feeling is really uncomfortable, the better the relationship, the more difficult it is to accept being rejected, which is also the main reason for the low success rate of confession with good friends.

Since they have been good friends for many years, they are already familiar with each other. Since you haven't confessed for so many years, you naturally don't like it, so when you confess to your friends, the chance of failure will also increase.

To be honest, since it was a friend relationship from the beginning, because there is a relationship foundation of friends, it is difficult for this kind of relationship to be converted into love between men and women, and most people can't accept it from friends to lovers.

Although the long-term companionship did not show him through words, but the true expression of emotions can not be concealed, when you are good to someone, you don't feel anything for a short time, but for a long time, even people with low emotional intelligence can also see the clues. But most friends basically can't convert from friends to love, which feels awkward.

Everyone's psychological endurance and personality are different. Some people feel that it is a big thing when they are rejected, but they will hate each other a little in their hearts, and being friends like this will only make each other uncomfortable in this relationship, so it is better not to be friends.

Between good friends, it can only be suitable to be friends, so it will be better, if you are lovers, then you will feel more awkward, so you will often refuse.

Because you have always been friends, what you believe in the other party's heart is friendship, and it will be difficult to accept it when it becomes love.

Because they never thought you would like him, their affection for you has always been friendship.

In fact, I think that if I had feelings for her at the time, I shouldn't be a friend to get along with, and it would be very embarrassing to confess, and once I was rejected, I wouldn't even have to be a friend.

I have a boy friend who basically started as friends, and quickly blocked him when he failed to confess, saying that it was impossible to be friends again. Because of that familiar feeling, it would be embarrassing to be friends.

Hello, I think that you can still be friends after the confession fails, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later. Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest.

So how do you deal with this relationship?

1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship.

In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship. After rejection, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection, whether it is because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other party, or because your relationship is not yet in the heat of that official relationship. However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily.

If this rejection is just because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, then you might as well give each other more time together, and maybe next time you can keep the clouds open and see the sunrise.

2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure.

Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if their confession is rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if they fail, it can be said that they are just joking with each other. However, you never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you. Therefore, when boys confess, it is better to be sincere and not too casual.

If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.

3. Calmly and maturely face failure.

After being rejected, you seriously reflect and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, then you don't have to be sad and sad, and you don't need to "self-deprecating", because love can never be obtained by force. At this time, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague your life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and the next time you make a move, you can grasp the opportunity more confidently and find your own unique love.

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If you don't confess when you fall in love, it's like getting married without a license, you always feel that something is missing, and the two people get along with each other in a very awkward relationship, especially girls, who have no sense of security.

Therefore, couples need to confess, and confession is equivalent to a promise, proving that both parties recognize the relationship, are willing to be responsible for the relationship, be loyal to each other, and give each other enough security. Instead of starting at random and ending at random, treat love as child's play.

Without the confession of the cherry blossom key love, it can only be regarded as ambiguous or "spare tire". Because when you love someone, you can't help but want to express your love to them, and at the same time hope that their love is also exclusive to you, in their hearts, they are special, different from others, there is a feeling of "you belong to me, your love is given to me, you can't give it to others".

After the failed confession, do you think Sakura-ling can still be friends?

Of course, you can't be friends, because you decided to confess to the other party after you made a lot of efforts, but the other party refused, you will be very sad at that time, and you will also quietly complain, so it is impossible for the two of you to be friends.

If you have a person you particularly like, but you have failed to confess, then you have to learn to adjust your mentality, because confession of this thing, there are times when there are successes and unsuccesses, we don't care too much, although we will be sad for a while, but I think as long as we are good enough, we will be able to meet a person who is particularly suitable for us in the future, and after the confession fails, we don't need to bother each other, and there is no need to be friends with each other, because even if we are friends, The relationship between the two will also be particularly awkward, and there is nothing to talk about when you get along, so it is better to be a stranger.

You can find that many people will not be friends with each other at all after they fail to confess, because they know that even if they are friends with each other, the other party will not necessarily agree, it is better to do nothing, when nothing happens, if you fail to confess, and insist on being friends with the other party, then the other party will feel particularly embarrassed, because he doesn't know what kind of identity to get along with you, after all, you have just confessed to him, and you have to be friends at this time, This will be particularly difficult for any person, so in order not to embarrass the other party, you should not be friends with the other party, and the other party may also find the other half in the future, and you will be even more uncomfortable at that time, it is better not to know him and treat him as a stranger.

Confession of this thing has a time of success, when it fails, so before you confess, you must have a good attitude, to be prepared for rejection, so that you will not be so disappointed, and after the confession fails, do not have anything to do with the other party, and do not think about being friends with the other party, so that you will leave a good impression on the other party, if after the confession fails, you still have to pester the other party, and you have to be friends with the other party, then the other party will feel very annoyed and will not agree to your request at all.

After the confession failed, I couldn't be friends.

After the confession fails, all that remains is embarrassment. Even if you go back, your hearts will change a little bit. It won't be so pure.

So don't confess to your friends unless you're very sure or you don't care about the friendship. Or maybe you befriended her just to chase her. Because when you confess, regardless of success or failure, this friendship is no longer the same as before.

If you succeed, you become a couple and will no longer be friends. Of course, if it's not suitable to break up, they won't become friends. Fail, and your relationship becomes different.

For example, if you are kind to him, the verdict may be out of the concern of a friend. But that's not what he thinks in his heart.

Don't think that after this confession, if you don't agree, everyone will continue to be friends, how can there be such a good thing? The decision made will definitely have consequences, so you need to be cautious in your confession, and if you don't succeed, you will be benevolent.

Of course, there is still a kind of person, after you confess, he refuses, and he treats you as a good friend, and this requires you to have a high degree of skill. For example, after you confess, you find that she doesn't like you, you can say to her with a playful attitude: "You are actually serious, how can I like you?"

Silly, kidding you. ”

I've used this before, and it's worked. And the two of us are good friends now, and we don't have that in mind. No matter how good they are to each other, they will not think about anything else.

Confession can ruin a friendship, but if mastered well, it can also make the friendship purer. After all, after the confession fails, you will know what the other party thinks, and you won't think about it anymore. The premise is that you have to die after the confession fails, and really just treat him as a friend.

This scale is still difficult to grasp, so I still recommend that you don't easily express your love to your friends, so as not to be embarrassed for the rest.