How do you do it to live a more delicate life?

Women want to live delicately and elegantly, all rely on self-discipline, my hometown is in the countryside, after graduating from junior high school, I worked on the assembly line in the Shenzhen factory for three years, at that time I only knew that the assembly line was not my goal, for the word exquisite, as strange as luxury. My dream of going out to work is to become a writer, so no matter how hard the assembly line in the factory is, how busy I will always insist on reading and writing, even if there is no result, I will always insist and never give up. Opportunities are only reserved for those who are prepared, and later because of writing, I met my mentor and went to Guangzhou to develop together.

A little girl, a completely unfamiliar place, unfamiliar with life, even the bus is often wrong, but I can bear the hardship, can stand the tired, only half a year, I opened my own advertising market, the culture is not high, the time is free, no need to squeeze the bus, the monthly income is more than 10,000, I feel that this is a very delicate life.

In fact, everyone seems to live exquisitely, but everyone's pain is not felt or understood by others at all. If you see those little fairies and little fairies outside. It takes a long time to dress up at home to reach that level.

It looks like it's a delicate life, but it's actually very tiring.

Clothes are very intuitive embodiment, women over the age of 24 should pay attention to the texture of the fabric and the workmanship of the clothes, try not to choose poor texture, easy to pilling fabrics, and do not choose poor workmanship clothes. Pay attention to simple style and tailoring, because it is simple, so versatile! Abandon the unfit version, the length of fat and thin should be appropriate, more fat and less thin, long and short, and embarrassing.

Learn to use solid colors as the main clothes, you can occasionally have small pieces of color-matching clothes, learn to abandon all kinds of floral and exaggerated clothes, if there is, it must be versatile, or wear it on vacation.

Delicacy is the dignity of a woman's life, it is not perfunctory to life, we want to live exquisitely, first of all, start with our exquisite dressing. A sophisticated outfit should start with an inner layer. A woman's delicacy depends on the clothes, and there is no need to pile too many luxury goods on the body, it is simple, a slim skirt with a soft and comfortable texture, with a turtleneck, which is fashionable and temperamental.

Everyone feels that there is something to do every day, and delicate people will use their limited time to improve their standard of living, and they will carefully plan what to do every step of the way. For example, watering flowers in the morning, keeping a dog, making a breakfast and lunch, and asking friends to have a coffee, a meal, and a spa after work in the evening.

Makeup embodies the starting point of a delicate lifeFor women, every step of makeup is time, and every step should be exquisite. In the morning, in order to rush to work, some girls don't pay much attention to their makeup and hurriedly draw a makeup and go out. But as delicate girls, we all pay attention to each step, and we have plenty of time to draw each part, and we won't rush things.

Living exquisitely and not perfunctory is the dignity of being a woman! Some people dress themselves up beautifully, but their homes are in a mess, their clothes are messed up, and their shoes are thrown away, which is not exquisite, right? And delicate people even live in a rental house, they are refreshing and refreshed, and pursue the quality of life.

Many people may think that delicacy requires a lot of money to fill. But what I want to say is that refinement is not about enjoying luxury, but about enjoying the pleasures of life, and refinement can also be said to be a way to live life to the fullest, not luxury! Delicacy is an attitude to life!

Only hard-working people can realize that lazy people are not worthy of refinement!

Since childhood, he has been very assertive, choosing a major, choosing a hairstyle, choosing to go to school....She also chose her husband.

In a person's life, it is inevitable that the appearance will gradually decline, and the tangible things will disappear sooner or later, but the temperament will always remain.

Have a good routine and dress yourself up every day before going out.

First of all, I would like to say that sophistication does not equal luxury luxury! Everyone has their own different way of living, less money is less delicate, more money is more delicate. Refinement is embodied in every little detail of life.

If you want to live a more delicate life, I think you really should work hard and start a business, otherwise you won't have more funds, and it will be difficult to improve your life without funds.

Refinement is a pursuit, not an extravagant expectation. The young man who writes calligraphy on the construction site, and the old man who plays the guitar and collects scraps, all let us see the other side of refinement. So as ordinary people, how can we live more delicately?

1.Have a yearning for a better life and put it into action as much as possible. It has something to do with money, but it's not directly related.

For example, in the same rented house, some people just use the house as a place to sleep and play games, while others use it as a home. "The house is rented, but the life is not. "People who believe in this will take care to transform the house to create a warm living environment.

Of course, everything is inseparable from careful planning, which will drain brain cells, but this is more a reflection of their yearning for a better life.

2.Cultivate a high level of taste. A 100 yuan dress can be matched with a 1000 yuan effect, and the sense of design offsets the sense of cheapness, which is the taste.

So how do you improve your taste? Get in touch with beauty and feel beauty. Take clothing as an example, if you don't know how to match it, you can see how the store staff and e-commerce models wear it.

If you observe more, you will be able to summarize a set of principles. If you want to improve overall, go to art exhibitions (forget about those that are too avant-garde), and visit more artistic cafes, bookstores, and home furnishings.

3.The pursuit of high quality, high quality, rather than indiscriminate. Don't use a lot of copycat products, you get what you pay for, and the buyer is not as good as the seller.

Instead of buying 10 rags, it is better to buy something of better quality, which is helpful both for the use experience and for the improvement of your taste. Loving yourself is not a face-saving project to show others, but your own feelings. The same goes for choosing a partner.

4.Peace of mind and relax. Delicacy is a kind of temperament from the inside out, which is closely related to the mentality.

Calm can be elegant, can be well-behaved, and can produce attractive power. Reading more, cultivating one's heart, and broadening one's horizons are the most helpful ways to put aside anger and move towards nobility.

For us girls, how to live exquisitely, in fact, girls have exquisite activities, not necessarily beautiful girls, but must be girls with connotation, because a girl has cultivation, her life will be colorful.

I have a girlfriend who is not too pretty, but she is very comfortable to look at, and I feel that she lives a very delicate life. She is very independent, she has her own job so that she doesn't have to spend her boyfriend's money, don't reach out and ask her parents for money, she is never clingy, so her boyfriend loves her especially because every man likes independent girls.

She never wears heavy makeup, but she says that she must take care of her skin every day, because only by taking care of her skin every day will she let others see that she looks good, and she will be energetic when she goes to work every day, and she will feel confident. If she takes care of her skin every day, she will look very old, but she doesn't like to wear heavy makeup, because heavy makeup will make her look very charming and too ostentatious.

She also has a very good mentality, she will calm down first and then think about anything, she will come up with a solution, instead of blindly frowning and not thinking about a solution, but she is always very calm, which makes me appreciate her very much.

I feel like my girlfriend lives a very delicate life, so I'm moving in her direction now. Be a delicate girl, so that you will be appreciated by everyone.

Perhaps in the eyes of many friends, a word that is very entangled, what is the delicacy of life? The concept is different for different age levels, whether you want to buy tall bags and accessories, or you need to have enough money in your pocket. I don't think so, in my opinion, the delicacy of life is just to use a small amount of money in an effective time to make your life more fulfilling, to make your body healthier, and to take care of everything in life.

The last time I heard the phrase "women want to live exquisitely" was when my sister-in-law said to me, she said: "Whether you have a partner or not, ** is a part of what you need to take care of as a woman, even if you have more money and a very healthy body, if your ** is not good when you go out to meet people, it is an act of impoliteness to people!" "Since then, I have started to do the things that women need to do, such as having to put on ** every night, making sure to wear makeup every day when I go out, and so on, ......I can take care of my life very well, even if I get up in the morning every day in order to go to work, I won't fold the sheets, but every Sunday when I rest on a sunny day, I will clean up and down the house, and then take a bath very comfortably, put on a ** turn on the computer and start coding words, when I am bored, I will also read books, not celebrity gossip but some books about life and psychology, which can be regarded as an aspect of enriching my knowledge base!

I have my own independent job, and gradually I began to get used to and learn not to accept money from my parents and brother (because they would ask me if I was strong enough before and after the time of paycheck), but now I want to make myself hardworking, even if I can't get up every day, but I still work hard for this life that I feel is perfect. It's not terrible for a woman to have no object, it's terrible to lose confidence in life!

I don't know what is the delicacy of life, I can only read the words and observe that some people are easy to get excited, when they hit the decision, choose quickly! I hope you will be calm and calm before making a final decision! Ordinary people can't get the evaluation of real people! Just feeling, I don't know if it's right?

To live delicately means not to be lazy in life, to work hard to be motivated, to be kind to yourself, to enjoy life, and to give people a positive and elegant feeling.

Exquisite life is never manifested in the so-called material, and rough life is only for pseudo-refinement, which is a real love of life.

The popular life of contemporary youth is quiet, and there can be one thousand and one kinds of them.

Recently, according to the American "World**", young people in many big cities in the United States have gradually given up their dream of saving money to buy a house like their parents and have begun to live a life of "not owning anything".

Before that, a tuba posted an article that made everyone think about it, "Exquisite life, in fact, is not expensive at all", especially for women, when they can choose life, do not be a slave of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and should pursue a refined life. And the exquisite life is not expensive at all. But people who are forced to go by life will say that who doesn't want to pursue high quality?

No money, what kind of exquisiteness!

Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said: "Take a bath, look at a flower, eat a meal, if you feel happy, it is not all because the bath is clean, the flowers bloom well, or the food suits your taste, mainly because you have no obstacles in your heart." ”

What if I can't afford a villa in the middle of the mountain, I prefer my hometown in the countryside, still enjoying the fresh air, and having kind neighbors; What if I can't afford Chanel, I prefer the thick and practical canvas bag; What if you can't eat the delicacies of the mountains and seas, I prefer the clean pesticide-free at home... The former is higher than the latter, but the quality of life is far less than that of the latter.

Exquisite life needs to start from the details. There are a few hand-sewn things at home, which adds a bit of atmosphere to their house and life, not every decoration is not bought with money, and the ones made by themselves are priceless and unique.

Food, clothing, housing and transportation are the structure of everyone's life, which is a very rough way of living. Women have to learn to dress up themselves, but it is not the meaning of dressing up and showing off, it is to tidy up their appearance, so that people look comfortable, decent and elegant, so as to show their temperament and inner beauty, and tidy themselves up from the details.

For example, eyebrows, this is a very important detail about appearance. What is your quality of life, you can see it at a glance from these details. Some people have sparse eyebrows, and if you have an attitude towards life, then you will definitely find a way to save.

If you live a rough life, you may be seen as a godless person.

At present, we do not need to worry about food and clothing, but pursue the time to improve the quality of life. When you can choose life, you should choose a refined life. A person's life should not be lived for money, it should be lived for the sake of living, experiencing and enjoying life.

In the past, there was a wrong concept: brand-name clothes and bags are the exquisite and elegant life. In fact, today I understand that the real exquisite life:

1.Let yourself live in a clean, tidy and refreshing home environment every day. Exquisite living starts with making your bed every day.

2.Participate in group lectures and study every day, work hard from the heart, build your own spiritual quality, let yourself learn to truly grow, work hard and harvest, and seek from inside rather than outside. (I haven't gotten up at half past five every morning to read.) ）

3.Wear ironed clothes every day, and greet each day with a clean and tidy face. Even if it's a little old and a little worn (few people wear torn clothes now), as long as it is cleaned, there is no need to wear delicate heavy makeup every day, and it is refreshing.

4.The gentleman is constant, and the villain is not. In fact, only a true gentleman will realize his mistakes through introspection. If a person is not a sage, he can be without fault, and he can change after passing by, and he is very good.

5.Determination: If you don't have a will, there is nothing to do in the world, although you have a hundred skills, there is no one who is not based on your ambition. Today's scholars are wasted and abandoned, playing with the old age, and nothing has been accomplished, all because of the lack of ambition. When a person does not know the direction in **, all the winds are headwinds.

6.Born in sorrow and died in peace. Suffering is glory, the greatest meaning of life is to live the meaning, whether others understand it or not, we must go on firmly.

As long as we adjust our mentality, this experience will slowly become a part of our life and slowly shine brightly. When we are sad and desperate, think more about the beauty and kindness of this world, envy lead believe in the power of belief, believe in our own strength, let our life be like a spring, the greater the pressure, the stronger the stronger, one day our strength and optimism will leap out of our life should be wonderful!