Very confused, very self blaming, begging for enlightenment 50

Dude, it's normal, everybody has a real energy, but you're too impetuous, and if you just do anything, and keep doing it for a few months, you'll understand a lot, and if you keep doing this, you're going to lose more and more confidence in yourself, get a job, and stick to it, whatever it is, come on.

Classmates, understand.

I don't know what you studied in college? Isn't there anything you want to do? If you don't have a particularly ideal, then start with the relevant work of your major, and climb up little by little, you have a play, I can feel it!

Action first, don't waste time.

It's all the same. We can only encourage each other.

I'm so hard to watch. That's the case for people of this age.

After thinking about it for two months, you will understand.

I'm also a science student, now in my freshman year, and I've had the same confusion as you, but you have to know that it's useless to die and do questions, for a problem, a question type, you must understand its method, know which knowledge point it is testing you have learned, you have to think like this before doing each question, this will get twice the result with half the effort, for what you said is not firm, then make a long-term plan, in making many short-term plans, when you complete each short-term plan, you will be more confident to complete the next plan, This will also strengthen your willpower. This is my personal method, I don't know if I can help you, come on.

I also have this confusion, usually I do the questions well, but I am nervous about the exam.

I came up with the reason: the speed of doing the questions was too slow, and I couldn't memorize the questions.

1.Slow speed of doing questions. I have a lot of subconscious actions when I do the questions, such as clasping my hands, grabbing the brain, and there are many students who like to turn the pen, I think these are not advisable, because you should pay full attention when doing the questions, it is recommended that lz try to do the questions as well as possible, and in addition to meditating on the known conditions of the questions in your heart, it will be easier to put into the state if you practice more!

2.Memorize the question. I still remember the difficult scene when I first studied biology in the first year of high school, and each question was new to me, and doing one question was equivalent to learning a new knowledge point.

But after spending time analyzing, I found that a large number of problems have a fixed model, such as finding trigonometric functions, and it is easier to mix inducing formulas and simplification, in fact, these problems are the same, I have done more questions, and I have left an impression in my mind, and I will have a sense of déjà vu next time I do it.

It seems that your mental quality needs to be strengthened.

1. Science students must be full of interest in the subject.

2. It's best not to do too many questions in one go, when you feel that you have been doing a certain subject for too long or are tired.

You should stop and switch to other disciplines to ensure your enthusiasm for learning.

3. Be sure to use your mind more, which can improve the speed and accuracy of doing questions.

4. If you feel nervous during the exam, you might as well relax yourself. For example, clench your fist and open it slowly, so that the tension will be relieved; Imagine you lying comfortably on the grass and imagine everything that is comfortable.

It can be seen that you really want to improve your grades, but the method is not right, in fact, the questions that you will do are good, and your grades will be greatly improved. There is also a relaxed mindset.

The best way to learn is what suits you, so let me give you some advice! In fact, the topic does not have to do more, but to be fine, it is more important to listen carefully in class, if you are distracted, just take notes, take notes back to concentrate, do the wrong questions after class, the same category should be summarized, it is best to copy the wrong book, often read, before the exam to see the homework assigned by the teacher, that is the most classic, the most useful, read the wrong question book, and have a good schedule, sleep well, people will be smart, don't do the same subject for too long, do a liberal arts, good exam mentality, let me tell you that the multiple choice questions are controlled within 30 minutes, If you don't know how to do it, you have to jump, and in the end, you have to leave a little time to check the multiple-choice questions, and in the end, you don't do the finale at all, you can do the first question of the final finale, the review question is more important, you have to read it one word at a time, come on, I wish you success,

It's your emotions that affect you, you can do more exercise in your daily life, communicate more with your classmates, and maintain a good attitude is the most important thing.

It is necessary to pay attention to learning efficiency and methods.

I'll give you a sneak in the air.

Science students learn test-taking skills and formulas.

Pay attention to the choice of fill-in-the-blank and beware of falling into small traps; Think intently about the big topic and don't give up easily; Thinking for 5 points without a clue, it is better to give up; The topic is very long and not scary, as long as you think about it seriously; The topic is short, not paralyzed, read the question carefully and read it carefully! It is very important to record the wrong questions, the best trick for the top student in the high school entrance examination! Exam problems should be recorded, each one is very important to understand, take the study and test seriously, study carefully and review.

Believe: I am not afraid of difficult people, I am not afraid of difficulties, people are easy and I am not careless! Make a study plan.

I am also a high school student, and I think that I am relaxed and happy in this aspect of learning, and my academic performance will improve quickly, and your emotions will affect whether you think positively or passively accept your studies. So don't be too negative, and communicate with your good friends more often. May help reduce your stress.

I think you're thinking too much, don't have so many burdens and baggage. You're only in high school, so there's still plenty of time. And there is a lot of flexibility in high school learning, so don't worry about not being able to study well for the time being.

I have a lot of friends who usually have a lot of fun, and they go to play as soon as school is over, but they don't study much. But as soon as the exam is a good test. There is a good saying, it's not a question of whether you want to or not, but whether you want it, we have a healthy growth in general, if you need to, I can introduce you to the study methods of those friends around me who have good academic performance.

Go outside to have fun, relax, don't be too nervous during the exam, do it question by question, it's not a big deal, I'm sure you will do well in the exam.

In this life, people are afraid that when they are old, they will look back and see that they have achieved nothing, and they will live their lives in a mixed manner.

People are afraid of boredom and loneliness. In order to want to live a more exciting and fulfilling life.

We have to find a goal for ourselves to strive for. Some people fight for their careers, and some people fight for love.

There are so many things worth fighting for, but you don't think of them for the time being.

Find a goal that you think is worth striving for!

Learn skills well to prepare for making money in the future, such as foreign languages, computers, car repairs, etc. Are you afraid that you won't make any money if you learn your skills well?

Find something you're interested in and do it well.

Slowly, I became confident.

Life is like a cup with water in it. The cup symbolizes material life, while water refers to the spiritual world of man. Whether it is full or not has nothing to do with the size of the cup, but depends on how much water in the cup is occupied.

If you don't have enough money and don't get enough mentally, you will feel empty. If you want to be full, get moving, don't let yourself have too much free time, do more things, and keep yourself busy.

Be self-motivated, and be anxious. Set yourself a goal, then work towards it, and then set a goal for yourself when you do it. Gradual. No one can kick the sky in one step. I wish you a good development.

Do a good job and enhance your self-confidence in life.

Love is the mutual admiration of two people, and love is holding hands to walk through a dull life. When you close your eyes at night and the first person that comes to your mind, the first person you want to tell the good news, the person who is not good and you will be very heartbroken, and the person you want to have the most is the same person, congratulations, the person you have in your heart, the person you fall in love with is him (her).

Love is "hello, I'm good".

It's excitement, it's feeling, it's worry, it's longing.

The greatest love is to give (forget it's ** to see).

Men should be free and easy, don't care too much about other people's opinions, live your own.

Be free and easy, some things, reluctantly, when you don't want to, you will push it to fate, and your heart is better.

Chill down for a while, or quit your job! Action can solve your distress and confusion, take a step forward! Friend, just one step.

You feel confused now, then you have been there for two years and you must not have made achievements, if there are certain achievements, you will not say so, I advise you to come out, that looks simple but in fact is not what ordinary people can imagine, which can indeed make money but you have been there for two years, if it is normal to deduce that you have already got what you want, so that industry is not suitable for you to do.

"I don't know myself anymore," you must have been in pain when you said this, so it seems that in the current environment, you have no possibility of adjusting, come out!

Oops

It's very vague

Let's take a closer look at what causes it.

Job? Relationships at work? What's next?

You have to figure out the cause to solve it, right?

Everything needs to be done slowly.

First think about what you are most interested in now, and then it is best to discuss with your family whether there is a future for what you are interested in, and then you can achieve it in various ways.

After listening to your question, I think you are a very self-motivated person, and now there are many people who just want to mix, or are willing to gnaw on the old people, and you can consider your future is very good.

As for your problem, that's something that happens to everyone. You said, you have a good computer foundation, which is your advantage, but you don't say whether it's software foundation, hardware foundation, or networking. Now, computer science majors are not too easy to find a job, young people, it is good to have more tribulations, you should be a kind of wealth accumulation.

You said it, now you still have money to make, and society is not too bad for you. You have to understand that many people are not as good as you, your company should be that kind of game boosting company, this kind of job you feel bored means that you are not addicted to the Internet, it is recommended that you find other jobs as soon as possible.

It's not easy for people to live, you must be strong, otherwise it will only make the people who love you sad, and if you feel uncomfortable, you will speak out, and everyone will be willing to be your audience even if they can't help you solve practical problems, and if you think you are bored, I will be even more unlucky. I have been preparing for a speech contest for a long time, but it was hacked. Also teased by ill-intentioned people.

If you feel that life and society are not good for you, you have to face it with a smile, don't be depressed, otherwise it will only make your relatives hurt and your enemies happy, the more unfair the society, the more we have to face it strongly.

Having said so much, I don't know if it will be useful to you, that is, I have my own feelings and hopes for you.

Finally, I wish you to get out of the bottom and get better soon. If you have any questions, I'm sure everyone will be willing to help you. I wish you all the best. A good man has a safe life.

You're self-motivated, which is much better than a lot of people, and you're a very good guy!

It is recommended that you accumulate silently first, whether it is the technology and capital needed in the future employment, you need to accumulate.

First of all, it is recommended that you change jobs. There is no future in the current job. You have to accumulate a certain amount of money before changing jobs, and you have to be prepared to not work for a few months, because it is difficult to find a job now, and you have to save up for living expenses in these months.

Then you find a job where you can learn something, for example, if you want to open a computer company in the future, you go to work in a computer company and study while making money. Learn how others manage the company, how it works, and so on.

Once you have accumulated a certain amount of experience and funds, you can do it yourself.

Learn to manage yourself and plan for the future. You must also know how to take one step at a time and be down-to-earth.

I believe you will succeed in the future!

Good luck!

It's okay to find hope in despair.

Friend, if you have a little savings, open a small shop, if you lack experience, go to a similar shop to do a small job for a while. There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge. Or go to a soldier and go to a technical school, as long as people are diligent in this society, they can earn money, and being a man is very important!

Communication is important. First of all. Don't hold back on anything.

Speak up. Tell them. To love you, you have to listen to you first.

You tell them. You love basketball. Because you're not in good health.

Exercise is very important ... Only exercise can strengthen physical fitness. The body will be healthy.

Your parents love you too. There is no parent who does not love their child. It's because you're not in good health.

Parents are worried about what will happen to you when you exercise outside or what kind of health you have. They are also afraid that you will have something to do when you go out. Just say what you have.

Just because it's worry. That's why I order you to give up on him. In fact, you are older and have your own ideas, and let them know that you are right with your actions.

My parents were the same, who used to tell me all day not to do this or that. Later on, I was older. I've become sensible.

They were relieved. I know I have my own ideas. I'll know what to do myself.

So whatever. They all supported me. So communication is really important.

Tell them. Your thoughts.

Home is always the most important, without family affection, you will have nothing, don't try, people have to give up some things when they grow up, such as playing. You also have to care more about your family, because you have grown up, not a child. No matter whether they grow up or not, there is no parent who does not care about their children.

Tell you to give up, why don't you ask what the reason is? Parents are the most important thing. When you grow up, you can't quarrel with your family.

Talk to your family and they'll understand you.