What is missing in married life that will make it difficult for the couple to last long?

First, there is a lack of trust between husband and wife, and the family lacks the foundation for long-term life. Second, if there is a lack of understanding between husband and wife, the family will lack warmth and will not last long.

In married life, if two couples lack in-depth and effective communication, do not communicate with each other, there is no fireworks at home, and they live their own lives, then the couple will definitely not last long.

Mobile phones, salary cards, quilts, if the husband and wife have not shared these three things, it means that there is a certain gap between the two people.

I think Hui Queyu is first of all to share tableware when eating, and secondly, you can share your bank card, you can share your own resources, this front rock is more important, if you can't share, then your marriage can't go too far.

There is such a sentence that everyone must have heard: Love can be without money, but marriage is not good. Falling in love is a matter of two people, and it is not a big deal to be able to eat a tryst as a meal and drink it as water, even if it is moonshine every month.

Because the important purpose of love is not daily life, but also to verify whether the two are suitable to be together, and whether there is a probability of stepping into the temple of marriage in the future. If it's wrong to meet someone to win, find your love goal again until you find the right person. Through the challenge of love, the two finally got married.

Most people only realize the importance of money after they get married, and there are so many places where they have to spend money. In the past, these women who cried and shouted that they just wanted to meet the right person are likely to regret it at this time. remembers Tong Jiaqian in "The Age of Naked Marriage".

She once kept saying, "I don't want anything, I just want to marry Liu Yiyang." But Ming Na is, the main reason for her and Liu Yiyang's disputes after marriage is mostly related to money.

Poor couples mourn everything, which can be said to be the cruelest truth in marriage. There is no money for a difficult experience, and no one knows what to expect. Marriage has to carry too many responsibilities, the responsibility of raising children, the responsibility of honoring each other's parents, the obligation to make life excellent for one's beloved.

It may be asked who does not want to move towards a life of economic development and superiority.

He understands that the contented man is happy to win people, and he can bear his own political embarrassment, but he does not want his sons, lovers, and parents to be politically angry. Money is never the most important thing in a marriage, but it can certainly determine the happiness of a family on some level. There is no doubt about this.

Whether in love or marriage, women often feel insecure. If you trace the problem of lack of security back to Wang Jianyuan, you will find that all insecure women are because they lack trust in their other half. When a woman trusts her husband enough, the sense of security is naturally strong.

Women like to look for security in men, although this method is not the same as consciousness.

Men often do wrong things in these areas, including the fact that his mobile phone keeps the woman's information secret, the woman never knows its benefits, and even sometimes he doesn't bother to tell the woman where he is going. A woman may feel as if she has never been in contact with the lover around her. He truly loves himself.

loves TV dramas, why do you have such a mentality. If you don't love her, why should you marry her?

Men want to gain women's trust, and the basis is that men's actions can first bring women to feel trust. In the same way, if a woman wants to gain the trust of a man, she also thinks in the same direction. Husband and wife are one of the most intimate relationships, and if they cannot guarantee true trust in their daily life of marriage, it is equivalent to the premise of marriage is unstable.

If you want to build a tall building on the ground, it must be an imagination that is not very likely to be achieved. Perhaps one day, a sudden storm will cause high-rise buildings to collapse in an instant. Before getting married, lovers should first understand the issue of trust.

Loss of money, loss of status, loss of emotion, loss of trust in each other, loss of trust in each other, loss of dependence on each other.

As long as two people lose love, patience, trust, tolerance, and feeling, it is difficult for such a marriage to last long.

It may be the loss of trust in each other, or the loss of the sense of security given to each other.

For two people who love each other in a marriage to come together, they must have an emotional foundation. However, if there are some couples together, the relationship will not last long. For example, if you have these four types of couples together, the relationship will not last long. I hope there is no you among them, and I hope you are a happy couple.

First, if you can't do it, respect each other.

Husbands and wives should respect each other. If you can't even do this, there will be a lot of unnecessary contradictions and troubles between them, which will make each other tired of each other, will make them hate each other from the bottom of their hearts, and will find each other's faults in all aspects. Couples with this kind of performance will not have a harmonious relationship, nor will it last long.

Sooner or later, they will come to an end.

Second, the two places are separated, long-term separation.

If you are both married, but live in two places and have been separated for a long time, there is no difference between a couple with this kind of behavior and a single person. Couples with this kind of performance can't get the comfort of each other's hearts and can't get what they want. After a long time, it has naturally become a blessing in name only.

Such a couple cannot be together for a long time, because after all, it is only nominal. Husband and wife have been separated for a long time, but they can't get each other's comfort. They are obviously husband and wife, but they live a single and widowed life.

It's good for a short time, but no one can accept it for a long time.

Thirdly, relatives and friends do not support your feelings.

Couples with this kind of performance are most likely to end their relationship and break up, because even the people around you, friends, and family members don't support you to be together, so you won't be happy together, because you can't get the blessings of relatives and friends, so this kind of marriage is also very sad, and you can't bear the gossip outside. After a long time, the two of you will definitely have conflicts and quarrels, and such a couple will not have a long-term relationship together.

Fourth, there is no bottom line, no principles together.

There is no bottom line, no principled couples, their relationship will not last long, because the other party is at fault, you blindly tolerate, will only make the other party less and less concerned about you, will only make the other party more arrogant, the longer the more fierce the more fierce, such a couple together, no bottom line, no principles, outsiders seem to have a harmonious relationship between the two people, in fact, only they know what kind of relationship between two people is? It is only a matter of time before such a couple divorces and breaks up.

Couples who do not have a long-lasting relationship often have arguments, quarrels, and cold wars to get through the marriage.

They will quarrel a lot in life. And there will often be conflicts, and they will say bad things about each other.

They will be very distrustful of their other half, because trust is the most important aspect in marriage, and distrusting the other person will only break the marriage of two people, and it will also increase a lot of conflicts.

When two people encounter things, they don't discuss it, they make their own decisions, and they rarely communicate, and they are not very close together.

Don't understand each other, don't give each other some personal space, often complain and calculate, don't think about each other no matter what they do, don't give each other a face, and some trivial things in life are also careful, and finally cause emotional discord.

They usually communicate less, secondly, they are not considerate of each other, they do not consider the problem from the other party's point of view, and more importantly, there are not too many topics to talk about, and the three views of the two sides are inconsistent, which eventually leads to parting ways.

Some couples who do not have a long-lasting relationship after marriage will be more selfish in their lives, and they will not think about each other, nor trust each other, nor understand each other, so they will not go too long.

If two people have not lived as husband and wife for a long time, the maintenance of marriage depends on the trust and respect between the two dates, and if there are children, they use children to maintain the marriage of two people.

It all depends on mutual trust, and there are children as the bond of marriage, so that the married life can be maintained

It's all based on the previous relationship and the habit of living together for so many years, as well as the reason for the child.

Shili: Some people say: Marriage is a matter of two people, and it is also a lifelong thing, so no matter what happens between husband and wife, as long as you endure it, it will pass, because between husband and wife, there is no hurdle that cannot be crossed.

Some people also say: marriage matters, you must be responsible for yourself, if there is no love marriage, instead of stupid insistence, it is better to let go early to find your own happiness, sometimes letting go is the right decision.

I am half in favor of the above two points of view, half against, in my opinion, these three kinds of couples are destined to not go long, it is better to let go sooner!

1.Couples who have nothing to say.

In the relationship, those couples who have nothing to say, no quarrels, and no communication are really better than divorce, even if they are still struggling under the same roof for a certain purpose, but they are already dead in name only.

In my opinion, such a couple is already destined to not go far, because for marriage, communication is a big thing, if there is no communication between husband and wife, then their distance will only get farther and farther, and love will slowly dissipate.

This is also why I often say that the Cold War hurts a marriage more than quarrels, because when you quarrel, you at least have to communicate, and the Cold War is really a knife and two parts.

2.Couples complaining about each other.

In the relationship, those couples who will only complain to each other are also destined to not go far, because in marriage, if the husband and wife learn not to appreciate and tolerate, then they will not be able to go on at all. It will only make the relationship between husband and wife weaker and weaker.

This is also the reason why those who only complain to each other and bring their negative emotions to each other are basically unhappy. Because marriage is a mirror, what you do to the person in the mirror, he will do to you, and people are mutual.

3.To each his own game.

In the relationship, those couples who play their own games and do not interfere with each other are actually destined to not go on, if the most important thing in marriage is love, it must be love, if the other party does not feel your love and attention at all, then he will meet to find the love and understanding he needs.

That's why I often say that those couples who play their own games might as well let go earlier, because such a marriage has no meaning at all, you are the most familiar strangers, and there is no possibility of happiness at all.

Ten miles has something to say:

Some people may say that there is a reason why they are still struggling to maintain this unbearable marriage, some for their children, and some for their parents, but in my opinion, they are just covering their ears and stealing the bell, what is your relationship, and the children and parents really can't see it? In my opinion, sometimes, letting go may be the beginning of happiness.

There are three kinds of couples, which can't last long.

Two people who don't know how to manage a marriage can't last long. In married life, we must pay more attention to respecting each other, understanding each other more, and have a sense of ritual in life, not too bland.

Couples who have been in love for too short a time and will soon get married in a flash. After the husband and wife get married, they actually have to be more mature, if you don't understand marriage at all, just a whim, in fact, you will miss it for life.

Couples whose relationship is not particularly good will definitely not last long, and they must be treated with care in their married life, take care of each other with their hearts, and consider each other's feelings when two people do things.