In the countryside, it is said that good men have hair and do not have three, and good women have f

In our rural areas, there are many old sayings that come out of the mouths of the elderly, and we will learn from them the experience of the older generation, which will become a microcosm of our daily life and continue to pass on some excellent traditions.

There is a saying among the older generation: good men have hair, and good women have fat. We're going to find out.

A good man has hair and three refers to a strong and good man in our rural traditional thinking, usually the hair should be relatively vigorous, indicating that the man's body is strong, healthy and powerful. When you do farm work, you will be one step ahead. On the contrary, if you are not physically fit, you will not have an advantage in rural life.

As the saying goes, 30 is standing, and in the countryside a man is thought to have reached the age of 30, indicating that he has shouldered a lot of responsibilities and the quality of life of the family. So this puts a lot of pressure on men, and everyone doesn't want to be the thirty-year-old in their lives. But when the age comes, it is unavoidable, so when people arrive at this day, they will avoid this day in their hearts and become their thirty-one-year-old selves directly.

Since ancient times, women have been judged by "white" or "thin" as a basis to reflect a woman's beauty, so women want to be white and thin, so as to show their beauty, but in the past countryside and ancient times, everyone still usually likes fatter women. There is a saying of wealth.

In the past life, I often couldn't fill my stomach every day, so it is not rare to be thin, but what about fat? It will show that the family is very rich, the quality of life is better, and it can reflect their status. On the one hand, it is even said that a chubby figure can bring wealth and fortune, which will make the family better and better.

Like the former, the other four fingers are also age, similar to men, once a woman reaches the age of forty, her appearance and body will gradually decline, so everyone will also avoid this age on their fortieth birthday. It has the effect of reducing stress in your own mind.

It means that it is best to stagger the 30th birthday for men to avoid hair loss, and it is best to avoid the 40th birthday for women to stay in shape.

The meaning of these two sentences is that it is not easy for a man to marry until he is 30 and a woman is 40. Therefore, young men and girls in the countryside are advised to get married as soon as possible.

It means that a good man has more hair, but he is more likely to have a thirtieth birthday, and a woman is physically strong, but he is taboo for his fortieth birthday.

There should be no less hair, the more body hair the more robust the man's body, "don't have three" is that men must pay attention to the 30th birthday can not have, if a big banquet, it may lead to a man in the future life is more lonely. Then it is necessary to ensure that there is meat where there should be meat, so that a woman's figure can be healthier, and "don't have four" is that women must pay attention to the fact that they can't have a 40th birthday.

I think it's probably a traditional statement, and I don't think there's any scientific basis for it.

This is an ancient custom that doesn't have much practical significance.

It may be a summary, but it's not necessarily true.

I think it's about the relationship between people's body and wealth, so I would say that.

It means that a good man has a good temperament, but his wife will be strong, and vice versa.

I think it's a good guy and a good girl.

This thing is what it means, a woman should have a little bit of fat. Men still have to have contradictions.

This seems to mean that a man with hairy hair will not find a good wife, and a woman will not be able to marry if she is fat.

It's just a colloquial saying about some of the characteristics of a good man and a good woman.

I heard the old people in the village say that in the past, the medical conditions were backward, and in terms of health, they mostly referred to the common sayings handed down by their ancestors, such as this sentence, which is often on the lips of rural people, called "good men are afraid of three, and good women are afraid of four", what does it mean? It is closely related to a person's health.

Let's talk about the first half of the sentence first: "A good man has hair, and he is afraid of three". In the past, there were no developed instruments to test the human body, so it was generally believed that a man's vigorous hair proved that he was very strong and healthy. In fact, this is also based on modern evidence, a man with thick hair and stuffy branches, which means that the skin is covered with scum, the metabolism is fast, and the blood circulation ability is relatively strong, indicating that the body is in a fairly strong stage.

Why do you say "I'm afraid of three"? This is related to an old saying, "Thirty and stand". A 30-year-old man is in the most prosperous period of his life, at this time, people's focus should be on family and career, and they should strive to make the family stable and harmonious, so that their career can flourish.

Therefore, on the 30th birthday, it is better for men not to celebrate in a big way, otherwise it will seem extravagant and wasteful, and it is easy to be distracted. In addition, there is a superstitious saying, which is that the "three" and "scatter" here are homophonic, which means unlucky, indicating that the family is likely to be scattered in the future.

Let's talk about the second half of the sentence "A good woman has fat and is afraid of four". In ancient times, it was generally believed that a woman who was fat, that is, fat, was healthier. Such a woman has strength and can do farm work, in traditional society, farming is the only income**, and women generally have to work in the field.

If a woman has fat on her body, that is, she is relatively strong, then she can be a good laborer, and such a woman's in-laws like it very much. This is especially important in times of war and disaster. On the contrary, if a woman is slender and thin, she is not very likeable, because she lacks strength and is not energetic in work, and marrying will bring a burden to her in-laws.

This proverb is no longer applicable in today's society, but it is very much in line with the social background of the time.

As for "afraid of having four", the "four" here also refers to age, forty years old. "Forty-one flowers for men and forty tofu scum for women" actually makes sense. For women in ancient times, there were not so many cosmetics and skin care products at that time, and women began to work day and night after marrying into their husbands' families in their teens.

Therefore, in ancient times, many women looked very old when they were 40 years old, so women were afraid of coming at the age of 40. In addition, "four" is homophonic with "death", which is to regard the age of forty as the end of a woman's life, of course, this is also a superstitious statement.

Maybe it's because a man who is strong will attract other members of the opposite sex, and then his wife will be more jealous, so he won't have a good wife.

I feel that it is indeed very frustrating, it is difficult for a good man to find a good wife.

The first time I heard of such a thing, now I find that my knowledge is too narrow, I have read more than 10,000 books, and I write like a god! It seems that I have to take some time out of my day to read! It's a hard statement, but it makes sense!

I think this sentence still has some deep meaning, and it is also relatively correct.

Sorry, we don't have that there, haven't heard of it!

I guess it was said by the ancients, and then it has been passed down to the present.

Describe a hairy man with a short temper and a family that is not harmonious. If a woman is good-looking and follows the three obedience and four virtues, everyone likes such a woman.

What does this mean, I have never heard it again, and the first time I heard it, does it mean anything? I also want to know what you mean by the phrase you heard, where the source of this phrase comes from.

We all know that this truth is still the same old one.

This is a proverb passed down from generation to generation by rural people, and it is also experience, men with strong hair are generally very capable and responsible men, but often these men can't marry good wives, now is a new era, these are just proverbs handed down in the past, and women can't be measured by this.

That was the feudal society's bondage to men and women, and now it has no practical significance!

A handsome man marries an ugly wife, and a beautiful woman has an ugly man.

I want to know too! Sit back and wait for answers.

Good cabbage is arched by pigs!!

Having a healthy body and having a lot of hair means that your wife can't attract you. A busty woman needs five conditions to be really good.

This is a rural proverb, which translates to that a good man has a healthy body but does not have a good wife, and a good woman must be fat to look at it and not make the mistake of not being filial to her parents, stealing, going out of the wall, jealousy and disease.