What is it like to be a child of a wealthy family?

I think that the children of rich people's families are squeamish and ignorant, they always feel that they are superior, they look down on people who have no money, they will never have the pressure to buy a house and a car, and they can always be a young master. The most important thing is the education of parents, not every child of a rich family is ignorant.

It is true that the material will be better than the ordinary family, but the spiritual care and cultivation will not be as good as the ordinary family. Because I am the youngest in the family, I spend a lot of time seeing my parents in the family, but compared to others, it is very little. Because my father is abroad, he may return to China on statutory holidays, but generally he will work overtime, once or twice a year when he is not busy, and if he is busy, he may not see each other for two years, but he can chat.

My mother is a workaholic, and because she is so close, I often go to her ten times a year.

The children of the rich should not have the pressure to buy a house or a car, and it is better to find a job or even not to work than the children of poor people, but everyone has their own lives, and it is good to live well.

Since childhood, it is the current way of life, with housekeepers and some aunts in charge, the quality of life is high, but without the company of parents, the sense of security is very low, and I will always be afraid. To put it mildly, I don't have the role of parents at all when I was young. But after a long time, I got used to it.

It's really good materially, you can have whatever you want, you can meet privately in order to chase stars to watch idol concerts or have relationships, then you can ask for leave from school and buy a first-class ticket to fly there, I have done this before, but because chasing stars has slightly affected my studies, I don't chase it now.

My parents will give pocket money every week, one or two thousand, because the tutor since I was a child "We can give you a lot of pocket money, but you can't spend it indiscriminately, use it where you need it, I hope you can use it to the greatest value" So I have been saving, usually going out with my classmates to relax and play, will spend, and will save at other times.

Coordinates Hangzhou, female, senior high school, studying in a foreign Chinese school. He has two older brothers, one in New York and one in Los Angeles. I am alone in Hangzhou, with a housekeeper in charge, a driver to and from school, a meal aunt burning, and living in Wulin No. 1.

My father is perennial in the United States, chief economist, and my mother is in Beijing, and has her own brand, which has settled in Wanda Yintai Raffles, and has two companies under her hand, engaged in clothing design, from fabric production to pattern design to the final product.

In your eyes, the unattainable rich people may not always write the three words of the rich second generation on the door of their heads, a classmate of mine in junior high school, we have five yuan a day to spend on him, he doesn't have it, and as a result, his family has a big courtyard house in Beijing.

When I first came to work in the south, I came into contact with the son of one of my suppliers, who was wearing an anta with one trouser leg and one of his trouser legs held down, and the other was still covered in mud. It is the image of migrant workers on the construction site, but, but their families are at least hundreds of millions.

Since I was a child, the economic conditions in my family have not been very good, and as a child of a poor family, it was only when I grew up that I really realized that there were the following aspects that made me feel powerless.

First of all, for the children of poor families, there is a very classic sentence, that is, many children from poor families work hard all their lives, and in the end it is only the starting point when some people are born, and it is even far from the starting point of the birth of some children from rich families. Especially for the children of poor families, after graduating from college and stepping into the workplace, this feeling is more clear that the income obtained from their hard work can only barely maintain their basic life, and those children of rich families do not need to work hard at all to live a glamorous life, which will naturally make the children of poor families feel helpless and lost.

On the other hand, for the children of poor families, what makes them feel powerless should be some unreasonable phenomena encountered in the workplace, they work hard, cannot be recognized by their bosses, and are even criticized or even punished by their bosses for no reason, but in this case, they can only endure it, because without the current job, it is difficult for them to find a suitable job, and it is difficult for them to survive, and for the children of rich families, when they encounter this situation, They can quit their jobs and find a job they like, even if they can't find a job they like and don't have to worry about their livelihood. But even so, for children from poor families, if they want to change this status quo, they still need their own efforts, and they need to improve their own cognition and pattern before they can finally achieve it.

In fact, there are many children in our rural areas, who are basically raised in poverty. Later, I became a teacher in Chayan, and I also came into contact with such students. Combined with my own experience, let me talk about itWhat are the characteristics of children who have been raised in poverty?

Less knowledgeable

Those children who were raised by their parents from a young age often have a narrower vision and a smaller pattern when they grow up. Because when they were young, their parents never took them out to see the world, and what they wanted was rejected by their parents again and again, and they rarely communicated with others.

Love takes advantage of small advantages

Those children who have been raised by their parents since they were young often grow up to be more calculating and love to take advantage of small advantages. Because such children, when they were young, they were used to being poor by their parents, and they only bought the cheapest things, bought discounts, and were very happy if they could take advantage of them.

It's rather dull

Those children who have been raised by their parents since childhood often have no mood in life when they grow up, so such children are instilled with the idea of poverty and economy by their parents when they are young, even if they have money in the future, they are reluctant to spend, not willing to enjoy life, and there is no mood!

No self-confidence. Jujubes

Those children who have been raised by their parents since childhood often grow up without a little self-confidence and have low self-esteem. Because when they were young, they were always poorly raised by their parents, they had no good clothes to wear, no pocket money to spend, and no friends were willing to play with such children, so such children grew up with low self-esteem!

When we were young, we didn't need to be indoctrinated, we could see that our family was very poor. The dishes I eat every day are potatoes, and the new clothes I buy can only be worn until the New Year, and the snacks I eat or the pocket money I give are very little.

Today's rich people let their children who are still in primary school learn financial management, participate in interesting financial management lectures in banks, and let them manage the money in their hands, the purpose is to let their children learn financial knowledge as soon as possible. When other people's children play mud and computer games, rich people let their children go to summer camps and winter camps to exercise, so that they can learn to take care of the "little money" in their hands. Riding a bull and watching a bear thinks that the story of "a talented man from a poor family" has become an old saying in the past, and now rich people pay more attention to their children's learning, and use money to smash out their children's hobbies, can people who have no money afford to spend tens of thousands of cram schools a month?

American investment guru Warren Buffett started investing at the age of 11, everything he has is earned from the market, he now has a worth of $40 billion, and is still enjoying the game of "money makes money" in the financial market. For these super-rich people, money is no longer something they want to pursue, they want to feel the happiness of capital growth through financial management, when others feel that it is difficult to make money, some people are "stealing fun", just like Warren Buffett said: "As long as I am given enough time, nothing is impossible!"

If you say, "Warren Buffett is a god-like being, how can I compare with him, he is a master who has always won!" However, the fact is that 11-year-old Buffett invested his and his sister's pocket money**, and eventually suffered continuous losses; When he was 20 years old, he was in college, and other classmates were playing everywhere, but he went to the library every day to learn all kinds of financial materials, and it was this financial management mentality that allowed him to directly enter a financial company after graduation, and finally set up his own investment company.

However, the earlier you make financial investment, the lower the cost of trial and error, and you can respond more rationally to various situations when you have money in the future, which is also a rational investment caused by financial experience.