How can I refuse a friend who asks me to borrow a car?

Updated on Car 2024-06-04
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Cut to the chase. Just say no, let him borrow it from someone else. The other party asked me the reason, and I said frankly, I watched the recent legal program, the owner of the car is also jointly and severally liable for borrowing a car, and he can't borrow it, if it is the manager who saves some face for others, and tells the manager that the car can't be borrowed, and if you are really in a hurry, I can go with you, and I don't borrow a car.

    Relatives and neighbors to borrow a car, borrow or not to borrow and sometimes make people in a dilemma, once the car has an accident, and ** accident, the owner of the corresponding joint and several liability, to bring inconvenience and trouble to people's normal life, direct and the most effective way, I use the car to do things there, with a tactful way to refuse.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Now there are usually cars, so it's good to talk. So a few friends who borrowed the car. Just find a reason for it, such as if you want to use it, your wife has something to use, travel, or a business trip?

    Refuse 2 3 times, and the person who borrowed the car will understand. I won't be borrowing from you. No one will break off your relationship with you because you don't borrow a car!

    Otherwise, it doesn't matter if it's broken, right? It seems that relatives and friends have cars. If the other party's technology is passable, then borrow; If the other party has just learned, then help pick it up, and then help find a skilled agent to open it.

    In case something happens, whoever drives it is the same, after all, there are still people who choke to death by drinking water.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's okay to do this, when you usually talk together, you deliberately mention it, and you are photographed illegally changing lanes in a certain section of the road, pressing the line, etc., just make up a violation, and then deliberately ask who is driving, and complain a little half-jokingly and half-seriously that the score is not enough to be deducted. Repeat this a few times, and you will have an excuse to refuse, just say that there are so many violations, and the points are not enough to deduct it, so you will not borrow.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No more driving. Other ways to get to work, bus, taxi, bicycle, electric car, walking. Don't drive for a month or two, they naturally think that you don't drive to work, and then come alternately, they don't drive when they borrow, and no one asks you to borrow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A notice was published in the newspaper: "Due to the failure of the brakes of the car, the car cannot be braked when the speed is fast, and the manufacturer has repaired it many times and the effect is still not good. Since the notice was published, every time a friend borrowed a car, I always reminded me that there was something wrong with the brakes, and the speed must not exceed 40 kilometers.

    When my friends found out about this, no one came to borrow my car casually.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You just say that the car is going to take my mother to the hospital for a health check-up today, or find a reason for it, in short, the car is not available. In this way, your friends will also know that you are not willing to borrow a car, and it will save face for everyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Usually talk a lot, and often borrow your car colleagues talk about the price of oil has risen, refueling is too expensive, a few hundred dollars a week will be gone, there are always people ask you to borrow a car, and embarrassed not to borrow, something wrong has to be repaired by yourself, a few days ago the wheel hub was broken, the fuel tank leaked and did not know who hit it, it took more than 1000 to repair the car, so that they knew the difficulty and retreated.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To be honest, this car really can't be borrowed. You can say that your wife (or your husband) won't let you borrow a car, otherwise you can divorce you, or you can help him drive and help him get things done.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think that if the other party is really in urgent need, as a friend, I should still help. If the other party is just borrowing a car to drive out for fun, you can just find a reason to say that you want to use a car, you can let him rent a shared bicycle, after all, there are quite a few shared bicycles in the city now.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Make excuses, you didn't drive today, the car broke down, a friend drove you here, and you actually parked the car downstairs in someone else's unit. When you leave work, you take a few extra steps and avoid your colleagues and managers.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Borrowing a car to see people borrow, if you don't want to borrow can only be shirked, find some excuses such as taking it for maintenance, or being driven away by your wife, now there are too many accidents in borrowing a car, the owner has joint and several liability, and it is not uncommon for a good car to become a bad thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look at the person, if the relationship is very close, the character is very reliable, I will borrow, otherwise find a reason to refuse.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello everyone, let's talk about it today, what would you do if you met a friend who borrowed a car from you? Some friends feel that they will not be able to wipe their face, after all, the friends who can borrow a car from you should have a good relationship with you, you are embarrassed not to borrow, but what if you borrow? Let's look at some a lot of news on the Internet, due to the accident of borrowing a car, and then in the end let the owner bear a huge amount of compensation, you should also be worried, so this is more contradictory, in the end how should I refuse him?

    We can politely refuse from the following aspects:

    1. It can be said that my wife does not allow me to borrow a car, and this is actually no face problem, that is, my wife does not agree to borrow a car, and this is okay.

    2. It can be said that our vehicles are being maintained in the 4S shop and cannot be opened.

    3. It can also be said that I have made an appointment with other friends today, I have something to do today, and I can only come back after two or three days of going out, and I need to use a car.

    4. There is really no way to say that I have an emergency, that is, what time do I have an emergency in the afternoon, if you want, you go**, I can send you there**.

    It's not that you have a good relationship, if you borrow a car, he has a traffic accident, and you are liable for compensation, this is your friend, and in the end it can't be done, and there is another point, even if you lend him the car, you borrow it once, he will borrow it from you for the second time, borrow it for the second time or the third time, and you won't lend it to him once, he will also have an opinion on you, so there is no need, when you borrow a car for the first time, we can completely refuse it, don't borrow this car, you don't have to worry about offending him, Let's find a tactful excuse to talk about it.

    We don't want to be embarrassed to say because we don't borrow a car, we can't wipe off the face, this is a matter of our own interests, on how to euphemistically refuse to borrow a car, we will share so much today, I hope you can sometimes use it, if there are better ideas, welcome to add, thank you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can directly say that your car has been lent to your family, so you can't lend it to him, and I don't think it will hurt the feelings between each other to refuse so tactfully.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't want to borrow a car, you can say that the car has been driven to the 4S shop for maintenance, or that you are about to use the car, and you can't lend it to a friend at all.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think the best thing to do is to say no, because if your friend is driving your car and has an accident, you are jointly and severally liable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You tell him that your car was temporarily driven away by your family, and it is inconvenient to lend it to him, and that if you lend it to someone else, you will be scolded by your wife.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a friend asks you to borrow a car and doesn't want to pick it up, I think it's okay to refuse him directly, because it's very unsafe to lend a car to someone, and then, well, although it's a friend, I think you can tell him that you have something.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is indeed a headache, I believe that most car owners have also had such an experience, my car is 7 seats, MPV, being borrowed is a common thing, anyway, the people who ask me to borrow a car are also I think it is more important, borrow it, it doesn't matter, I don't see it very seriously.

    Some friends are most annoyed by someone to borrow a car, which is completely understandable, hard to buy a car, they cherish it very much, of course it is not at ease to lend it to others, and there are corresponding risks in borrowing a car, such as accidents, violations and the like; If you don't borrow it, you may offend people because of it, so it is most annoying for someone to borrow a car.

    How do you refuse to borrow a car? Netizens have also shared their experiences, such as it's time to maintain....I promised to lend it to someone else....I'm going to have to use the car later...The car is out of gas, etc., so that it may be able to block it, in fact, if the other party understands something, he will know what is going on, and maybe he will no longer open his mouth.

    In fact, I feel that the car is borrowed or not, completely divided into people, and their own relationship is more reliable friends, especially those who have helped you, have kindness to you, borrow without any reason, the car itself is a means of transportation, sometimes don't take it too seriously, don't think about anything else at the moment of lending; On the contrary, the relationship is average, there is no friendship, and people who don't feel very reliable, depending on the mood, don't want to borrow no reason at all, just refuse directly, borrow is love, don't borrow is duty, love to get angry and go, if you don't lend him a car once, you have a grudge against you, don't want such a friend!

    Not to mention the responsibility in case of an accident, is to use a car of your own, really unwilling to borrow, most people have the same experience, I have a few experience to say:

    First, for some of the door-picking, your car will keep the fuel very small, as long as he drives it, he has to refuel, and you have to clearly tell him when you want to use it, what time must be sent back, this kind of person will not use it again.

    Second, use your wife as a shield, and make it clear that your wife has instructed that no one can use it, and you can tell me not to go home, and ask him to call your wife **, you can communicate with your wife in advance, this trick is particularly easy to use, I have been using this trick, if you are single Wang, it is not easy to do, look at the third one.

    3. As soon as he asks you to borrow a car, you find a reason to drive out, every time you do this, and after many times, you will not borrow it again, unless he is particularly shameless, every time he looks for you, deal with the shameless one, you are polite, just tell him that he doesn't want to borrow.

    I really can't refuse, the thing to pay attention to when borrowing a car is to remember which day I borrowed it, and if you deduct points, tell him that your driver's license is gone, and you don't pay the money, just pull him to deduct points and pay the money. I won't be looking for you next time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There will always be this kind of helpless thing in life, I think this kind of thing should be directly refused, if you are not clear about an attitude, he will always borrow from you, the best way is to explicitly reject him, so as to solve the problem.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My friend always borrows my car and I don't want to, we can say that the car is broken down and parked in the repair shop, or I need to drive today for something.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It can be said that there are several violations of the car that have not been dealt with, and driving out may bring unnecessary trouble to friends. In addition, you can use your wife as a shield, just say that your wife has told her not to lend her car.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    used his wife as a shield, and made it clear that his wife instructed him, and no one could use it. Ask him to call your wife, you just need to communicate with your wife in advance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can tell him that the car is about to be serviced, or that the car has been damaged.

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