Is my mom mentally ill?

Menopause varies from person to person, our family also has this situation now, and both of them are like menopause, my dad doesn't want to make money anymore, always says that we don't want to watch TV with him, don't want to talk to him, tired and tired no one looks at ......I'm quite speechless about this, he suddenly looks like this, my mother too, always said that when my husband's family got married, the gift money was too small, the house was too small, and the old and young lived together, and from time to time I gave an example: "Look at your eldest cousin, everyone took 26,000 as a meeting gift, and you only got 12,000 when you got married, and the other party wanted to give 100,000 when you got married, and after getting married, start a small business, how good, look at your .......""I'm about to be driven crazy by her, she is sometimes very reasonable, my husband's in-laws actually have other houses, because we are still young, take us, food, utilities do not cost us, my mother sometimes says, your mother-in-law is very good, and take you ......

As soon as I quarreled with my father over money the next day, she began to count me and my husband's house again.

Ignore her words and deeds, communicate with her more positively, and be filial to her!

No, it's just that your mother pays too much attention to the outside, and people have to look at the essence.

Something affected her three or four years ago.

Three or four years ago, your family was very wealthy, right?

Then Dad started a bad business.

Were your relatives as wealthy as your family three or four years ago?

Why don't you want to?

The age of 50 is just the beginning of menopause. It's time for the outbreak, so let Lz and his father bear with it.

Summary. Usually a bad environment at home is easy to get angry, which will cause the mother's mood to deteriorate.

What is the situation, and can you tell us about it? In this way, I can help you analyze and solve problems more accurately.

What is the situation, and can you tell us about it? In this way, I can help you analyze and solve problems more accurately.

My mother lost her father when she was 3 years old, and my grandmother took my mother to marry into another family. lived a very hard life, went to other people's families and didn't give them food, looked at the role, and lacked love since childhood. Later, my mother got married, and her temper was very short-tempered, and if things didn't go well, she would have thoughts of suicide.

I remember when I was a child, my mother once ate cephalosporin. When I found out, I called someone next door to save her.

Are you working now?

My brother and I are both married now. Mom often said that she was very unhappy, and she said that she didn't want to live anymore for some small things, and my father was not good to him. My brother's daughter-in-law is not good. Tell me a lot. Teacher, do you say that her mental illness is serious?

This condition is indeed mentally problematic, and it is advisable to see a doctor.

Usually a bad environment at home is easy to get angry, which will cause the mother's mood to deteriorate.

As a child, I can empathize. It is recommended that you communicate with your mother more often.

The teacher's analysis is very good, I just want my mother to lend money psychologically, be happy. It all has to do with her childhood and personality. I can only listen to her and obey her. It could be better. Physical and mental health is important.

Because I'm not a doctor, I can only give you some advice from your life, and you need to solve the specific situation by yourself.

When you are depressed, you will be depressed, your temper will be capricious, you will often want to commit suicide, you will feel that life is boring, and you will feel very powerless. It is often because of psychological problems, usually not in a good mood, unable to regulate their emotions by themselves. The main one is probably because of depression.

So it is recommended to have a psychological examination and a positive **. Avoid excessive stress. Always stick to outdoor activities.

In fact, many elders actually have "mental illness", but they don't know it. For example, parents who have a call for defense are depressed every day, full of pessimism about life, dissatisfied with their other half, quarreling every day, or dissatisfied with their children, always angry, nagging, and not having a word of positive energy.

There are also elders, they have a very poor ability to resist pressure, are extremely emotionally unstable, treat others harshly, have a strong desire to control, are very hypocritical, and even their own children are disgusted with them. Such elders will always forget the sky in their hearts, break an egg to vent their anger to their families, forget to turn off the lights and insult them, and get sick as if the sky is about to fall, which is a manifestation of mental illness.

You have to know that normal people are very peaceful in their hearts, and they will also have emotions, but basically they are on the facts. They are full of hope for life, they are happy most of the time, they are very kind to their loved ones, and you will be very comfortable with such people.

So, don't think that the previous generation was healthy after being educated by violence, maybe the ones you see are healthy, and there are many more that you don't see. and filial piety.

The mother's situation mentioned in the question is not very specific, and if it is an elderly person, it is prone to the following psychological problems:

1. A sense of loss.

After retirement, the biggest feeling of the elderly is that they are somewhat disconnected from society, and then they will feel that they are useless, and there is a huge gap in their hearts.

2. Fragile and inferior.

Because they can't keep up with the pace of the times, many things for the elderly will not use, even if they are less and less at home, they will have an inferiority complex, sensitive and fragile.

3. Strong sense of loneliness.

This is one of the most common psychological emotions of the elderly, and gradually, they will slowly fall into the world they feel and close themselves.

4. Lack of security.

With the decline of physical fitness, especially the regeneration of diseases, many things that were easy before have become difficult. When children are not always around, the elderly begin to feel anxious and feel that there is no safety guarantee in case of trouble.

5. Senile mental disorders.

These problems can be alleviated if children can spend more time with the elderly and have psychological counseling.

For example, talk to the elderly and listen to their hearts. Sometimes, after some chatter, the mood of the elderly becomes particularly happy.

If possible, accompany the elderly to go out to play and relax.

Cultivate a hobby for mothers, such as photography or something, which the elderly like.

Find peers who come with what the old man says, let them gather more, and so on.

If you care more about your mother, you will feel the love of your children, and your psychological problems will naturally be alleviated.

Love Mom so much! Mom is the epitome of our own old age. The genes are powerful and humans can't crack them.

You are of the same origin as her, so be sure to take good care of her, this is your life lesson, and if you do it well, you will receive the praise of life. To some extent, every child's heart has hated or disapproved of their mother, and the current state of the mother is that she expresses the need for you to care for her like you, just like a flower will wither if it is not watered for a long time, and she will get sick if she is not cared for for a long time. Connect well with your mom and she will give you a lot of energy.