What should I do if I always think other people s girlfriends are good?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think other people's women are friendly because they don't understand them. Cherish the person in front of you, and you will definitely feel that your girlfriend is the best after breaking up, and it will be too late by then.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Isn't it, it's not a good thing, it's better to think about yourself, think about your girlfriend's goodness, think about how good she is to you, miss her... When you see what's good about someone else's girlfriend, and you try to think about yourself, think about all the good in her, and then you're very satisfied.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No way. I guess I didn't experience it myself.

    People who haven't experienced it well will feel that everything is good for others.

    In fact, if you really sit down and think about it.

    You will slowly remember the usual little bits.

    Then you will know whether it is your girlfriend or someone else's.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just swap it out with others and find out how it feels. Wouldn't it be okay to see if yours is good or his?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're miserable. You're running out of feelings for your girlfriend.

    If you still want to love her. Then hurry up and cultivate feelings.

    Otherwise, they will soon disperse. It's a pity for your girlfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, it's better to really get in touch with yourself. That person will actually say that your girlfriend is good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Grab her and you'll know who's going to do it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Participate in the club and change women's.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Eat what's in the bowl and look at what's in the pot.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Try a few more and you'll have experience.

    Immediately understand that it is good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm afraid that you can't see so many people's girlfriends, and in the end, you will lose your wife and soldiers.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Flower heart big radish die a little farther away!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Prove that you are not capable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You also learn from her, everyone is narcissistic together.

    First keep the original good to her, or even better, and then suddenly ignore her for a few days, you must hold back, and then see her reaction, because once people get used to receiving care and suddenly can't feel it, she will care, that is, once you lose it, you will know to cherish it, if she still ignores it, maybe she really doesn't love, you have to consider whether your relationship will continue. I hope to find someone who really meets you.

    This kind of person has a cheerful personality. Love to show yourself. Rest assured that there will be no dissenting intentions.

    What should I do if I feel a fever in my heart? Arrive. Hospital.

    Examine. One time.

    bar. Isn't it nice to be a confident man?

    Do you think so, are you not yet into her psychology, if you enter her heart, will his selfishness, ego, will the potato clan surround you?

    It's not mature yet, and it's inevitable that there will be some problems with your thoughts, study hard, little brother.

    You wanted a glass of wine, I only had a glass of water, and you poured the water, and you didn't get the wine in the end. People always waste the best things before they begin to feel that life is only as it was first seen, and I hope you can understand: it is difficult to recover from the water, don't look back, move forward.

    Find it yourself, and don't think someone will chase you.

    My daughter is also married, and I am so busy with housework and food that I don't have time to surf the Internet. She is married, what else should you be aware of, the two of them will live their own small lives, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, they are all adults. Just let her go.,Live your life happily.,Play games online if you're fine.,Wait.。。

    You'll get used to it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then become someone else's boyfriend, or change yourself

    From childhood to adulthood, I grew up in the comparison of my parents, and at the same time, I grew up in the comparison of my parents, people are really angry with people, not to mention my favorite girlfriend, compared with my boyfriend in other people's homes, it is even more uncomfortable for boys, because boys love their own face more, once compared to the lack of more than the bottom, this is the most embarrassing thing, and people's desires are endless, compared to come and go, always dissatisfied.

    If your girlfriend often compares, then choose to break up and become someone else's boyfriend, which is the most direct choice, so that you don't have to hear the comparison of your girlfriend, and you can get a new relationship, but once you make such a choice, it is possible to meet a girlfriend who likes to compare, because girls are always vain and compared, just like comparing their own father and other people's fathers when they were children.

    The second option is to change the appearance of becoming someone else's boyfriend, so that your girlfriend can be envied by other girls, so that not only can your girlfriend get extreme satisfaction in face, but also make your feelings go further, get the sublimation of love, and maintain your love will not deteriorate, of course, the process of change is painful, but if you stick to it, the ending must be happy.

    Changing yourself to learn from others is of course the best state, but when you can't meet your girlfriend's needs no matter how you change, it's not your problem, it's recommended to break up directly, because you can't meet it, and the final outcome is not good, even if you are reluctant to be together, you will get an unhappy marriage, so deciding as soon as possible is the best option.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, you yourself have to be good enough, du, you are a very good man, and your girlfriend always says.

    Dao other people's boyfriend is good, back is she self-answer that she is not confident, afraid that she is not worthy of what you intend to say to you, and there is another kind of that you are indeed not as good as someone else's boyfriend, she wants to ask you to learn from others, you have to analyze yourself, the good aspects continue to maintain, the insufficient aspects strive to improve, of course, no one is perfect, as long as you work hard.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This bai people are often not.

    Cherish the people or things in front of you, you don't know how to be satisfied, you always eat in the bowl and worry about the pot.

    Dedicated. Do you still have the feeling of understanding and tolerance between the two of you? If your girlfriend still likes you as always, but just complains in your daily life, then I suggest you find an opportunity to sit together and talk calmly, see what the problem is, and say what you both think, so that there is no gap between the two of you, and it can also enhance the relationship between the two of you.

    If she has no feelings for you anymore, it is recommended that you get along and break up, and don't be enemies if you can't be a husband and wife. As the saying goes, twisted melons are not sweet, and since there is no chance in this life, they will cherish each other and forget each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The only thing you have to do is to make yourself better and better than others, so that your girlfriend will not have a good impression of other men. The second is that you should communicate well with her and treat her with sincerity, if she still thinks other men are good, then maybe she doesn't like you at all, you have to know how to let go.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You'll experience doing better, and if she's not satisfied, you can choose to let go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    She is motivating you to be better, using comparison to force you to be a better and more perfect boyfriend, the focus is to be good to her, and it can also make you have a sense of crisis, and you will care more about her and care more.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Try to be yourself, if, no matter what you do, you still think that someone else's boyfriend is good, then let it go, find someone who thinks you are very good, people's hearts are not enough, and give you a hat belt sooner or later.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You may not be good enough, try to make yourself better, let your girlfriend see your excellence, let him really like you, or you may be already good, but your girlfriend is the kind of person who sees things, then choose to break up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no harm without contrast, and he is not satisfied with the status quo.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girlfriends are all good for others, this sentence is not necessarily true.

    In general, it is this phenomenon: the lover's eyes are out of the eyes. Your girlfriend may not look very good or beautiful to others, but she seems to be able to see the attractive side of herself, so her girlfriend must be your own good.

    If you feel that your girlfriend is someone else's good, it is basically a very delicate stage between couples, and this situation will occur. In other words, the feelings are weak, and I often look at a person, and there is some fatigue.

    Secondly, the commonality of people is always envious and yearns for what they can't get.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, their girlfriends know better, and other people's girlfriends see their own advantages, so a comparison is the good of others, in fact, they are all the same, and the feelings lie in the maintenance of both parties rather than comparison.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because your girlfriend will make you happy, it will make you angry, it will also take care of you, it will also connect you, it will not beat you and scold you, and it will annoy you in front of you every day, other people's girlfriends will only make you happy, and will not be annoyed in front of you every day, and the most important thing is that the kind of things you get is not good, and what you can't get is always good.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now there is a saying that what you can't get is always the best, so your girlfriend will make you feel that it is no better than other people's girlfriends, after all, you have already got your girlfriend, and the person in your bowl is not so worth cherishing, that's the truth.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because. You only see other people's surfaces, and his girlfriend is good and has no actual contact, so you always feel that other people's girlfriends are the best.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because you don't need to pay, you can get benefits, so girlfriends are good for others.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You may have such thoughts because you see some shortcomings in your girlfriend.

    Then I will compare with others, in fact, what others see is external, and there is no long-term contact, only after getting along for a long time can we understand a person.

    So it's not that others are good, but that I haven't explored the inner strengths of my girlfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why are girlfriends all someone else's good? In fact, there are not so many girlfriends, it is the same as other people's good people, the ninth year of junior high school, you will see more of other people's shortcomings, and easy goods are his advantages, and other people's girlfriends, you don't get along for a long time, how can you think that other people's girlfriends must be good? You're just the tip of the iceberg.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's not, it's just that you've never been together, and you just see the surface, but you don't have deep friendships. Everyone has shortcomings, and you have to know how to be tolerant and generous, so that you can get back well.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not girlfriends are other people's good, an old folk saying: wives are other people's good, and sons are still their own relatives! It's just that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read! You don't know theirs.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is just the idea of some people, and it is their own women who live a normal life the best.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because it's fresh, there's no hassle with too much of a family chore.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's just like someone else's child!! A truth.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is what people say when the east mountain sees the west mountain high, and I always feel that other people's homes are good.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is an old Chinese saying: bad things don't go out, but good things spread thousands of miles. So what your girlfriend sees is how sweet they are, how good other people's boyfriends are, but you can't see the contradictions between them, and even if you see them, you will ignore them! So don't think about it so much, it's normal.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    A woman is very heavy-minded, it may be that he thinks that you are not doing well in some places, and he doesn't want to tell you very directly, so he will take her good friend's boyfriend as a list, and then there is, his feelings for you have begun to fade slowly, he actually means that he thinks you are not as good as someone else's object

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In a normal heart, what is easy to get will not be cherished, and what cannot be obtained is good.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    This is the normal psychology of people, and this is what it means to make you motivated!

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