My boyfriend said he started running away from me because he was stressed?

1. The pressure on men in this society is generally greater, and sometimes he does not agree to marry you, perhaps because he feels that he is not strong enough now, because he does not want you to suffer with him, and when he is financially strong enough, he is ready to marry you, if his boyfriend is like this, it is enough to prove that you have found a responsible and good man.

Second, the boyfriend doesn't want to get married and doesn't break up.

1. If a man neither wants to marry you, nor does he want to break up with you, then you should carefully and seriously consider the relationship between you.

2. Everyone who likes each other, in their hearts, what they desire most is to form a happy family with each other, but if this man has no intention of marrying you, and he doesn't want to break up with you, and whether he wants to continue your relationship, it depends on whether he is still willing to give him a chance, give him time, and the day when he is willing to marry you.

When you meet someone you really like, you will have such a small wish in your heart, that is, when can he propose to me? Therefore, if you like someone, you must be responsible.

The boyfriend said to run away from you because of the pressure, that may be the pressure you put on your boyfriend too much, let him. Can't afford it, so he starts to run away, then you should cut it. The burden on your boyfriend should be lightened.

It made it a little easier for him. I don't know what you think. It should be given.

A certain amount of space for boyfriends. That's fine. Being able to associate with you very freely, very happy when dating, if there is pressure when dating, then he is likely to run away.

Your boyfriend's behavior can only show that he is not very mature, since you are already in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, he should tell you even if he is stressed, instead of running away, which is an irresponsible performance.

There must be a reason for saying this, between boyfriends and girlfriends, the pressure is high but avoids, this is not **, either he doesn't want to talk to you, or there are people outside but feel sorry for you, or do something sorry for you, depending on the situation, it doesn't mean that there are only these three, but these reasons may be relatively large.

You can tell your boyfriend, I don't give you too much pressure, if you feel stressed, it's all you give yourself, so you must not think like this, you should still communicate and communicate with me well, I will definitely make you feel very relaxed.

In this case, it is recommended to contact him again after a while, give him a little time and space, and let him relieve his pressure.

1.This phenomenon is likely to be as follows: 2The first is that the pump has not been used for a long time, and the inside of the pump head is rusty, and the water page is stuck, which causes it to not start after powering on, and can only buzz.

3.The second is that the starting capacitance of the water pump is attenuated very badly and cannot achieve the effect of starting. 4.

The first reason is to find a way to get rid of the rust inside and it can rotate normally.

I also know that my outlook on life was really not so mature at that time. But if you ask me, "Do you want to continue to listen to your parents when you grow up?" The source of the fear is that the basket corridor is scarred.

When your boyfriend tells you he's stressed, that's what it means.

When your boyfriend tells you that he is stressed, it means that he wants to be cared for and comforted by you. I say this because feeling stressed can be uncomfortable, uncertain about my motivation and strength, and I want my partner to give me support, encouragement and comfort. However, whether this analysis is correct or not requires more information to judge, I wonder what your specific situation is?

Aggrieved love, do you still want it?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years in May, and there are two things that I am particularly puzzled about?

1: My boyfriend's 89-year-old is still sleeping with his parents and sister (92)! Because of the controversy, the subject said that I was mentally ill!

I never answered at eight o'clock in the evening, and I sent a message during the day to reply after a long time, only two words! One word! Once I sent a message saying that I was going to call him, it was more than nine o'clock, but he said I was going to rest, and then turned off the **, if you want to pick me up**, I'd rather stand outside at night and freeze to pick me up**, than sleep in a room alone!

2, he made me understand as an object that he owes money now and is not in the mood to discuss any love! But I just want to have a basic greeting, a **contact feelings, at least I will give him a ** can receive it, without any evasion! It seemed to him like forcing him!

He only replied to me, I can't do it at all! But I just want him to treat me as a family member, and as soon as he talks to me, I owe money now and don't want to talk! Is it the same with his parents?

To be in love is to rely on each other.

Hello girl, I also have one thing that I am particularly puzzled about, why can you maintain such a relationship for nearly 3 years, curious about what kind of perseverance and courage you rely on to support it?

Let's start with the universal issue. Girl, you lost in the intimate relationship, you should have taken the initiative to give up the initiative. You are completely passively decided by the other party.

The other party and your adult sister sleep with your parents and you have doubts, the other party accuses you, you can't help it; If the other party doesn't answer, you can't help it; Romance and love each other refuse, you can't help it... I think there must be many, many more ways in your relationship that you haven't written.

3 years in such a relationship?

Here are three questions for the girl:

When it comes to falling in love, you must first be happy, right?

I want to ask the girl, are you happy in this relationship?

You need to know each other to fall in love, right?

I want to ask the girl, have you gotten to know him better and better in the past three years?

Relationship is gradually moving towards a more long-term and stable partnership, right?

I want to ask the girl, do you have confidence when you think of the company of your current boyfriend in the future.

In love, I can't help but steal fun when I think of you :)

You do a good job of raising questions and demands in the relationship, and you are able to take the initiative and communicate with the other person. But when the other person rejects you, you are helpless. At this time, you need to tell the other person two things:

One is that if the problem is not solved, the way of avoiding the problem is bad for the intimate relationship; The second is that you have to make it clear to the other party that if the other person does not change, you can choose to leave. In this way, you will have the initiative in your own destiny in life.

Why is it always me who gets hurt?

Of course, why are many of us afraid to make demands, or even actively choose to give up or leave a relationship? This involves another problem, in fact, most of us are lonely and lack love, and once we enter a relationship, we want to hold on. That's not the topic.

Girl, show your courage and hold the throat of fate! Blessings and good luck!

This can only be done by encouraging him to change, not by forcing or sneering. This is easy to hurt self-esteem and cause the jar to break.

The boyfriend's personality of being content with the status quo and being afraid of pressure is related to the lifestyle and education of the original family. Generally, people in this situation have been well taken care of by their families since childhood. is too doting on children, this must be a mother's man, on the whole, their family conditions are okay, and they don't worry about eating and drinking, so they will be content with the status quo.

When they are stressed, they are afraid of weakness.

There is pressure to be motivated, you and he realize that the boy will be the pillar of the family in the future, to let him learn to live independently, usually when there is a problem, it is to let him take the initiative to find a way to solve it, and the problem is solved, you must praise vigorously, so that he will feel proud, the more he will feel.

It is advisable to break up decisively. You have different outlooks on life and values, you are self-motivated, dare to fight, resilient, yearn for a better life, and yearn for a bigger city. Your boyfriend is content with the status quo, afraid of pressure, and willing to live the same life, such a guy means that his character is not decisive enough and even a little indecisive.

The most important thing is that there is little guts and ambition.

What he wants is a hot kang for his wife and children, working from 9 to 5, three meals a day, and raising his children. If that's what you're looking for......

Obviously you are not, you have more ambitious goals, you are eager to put down roots in the big city, and try to move towards your goals, there are always companions in the road of life, and you can come and go in a hurry.

You are excellent, kind, beautiful, self-motivated, self-confident ......He deserves better.

1. Understand what he does.

If you don't put yourself in his shoes, you won't understand him, and you won't be able to help him, because you may oppose a lot of his actions, and this will only increase his pressure, so you need a certain understanding, how to understand it? Of course, it's communication, and you have to reach a consensus on one thing.

2. Accompany him to exercise and decompress.

When your boyfriend sits and smokes or drinks because of stress, it means that his mental activity is not often hail, and it is very annoying, you can directly pull him out for a walk or exercise, there are many studies that show that exercise can help people release stress, I think most people have a deep understanding of this, go out for a run, sweat, and the mood will be much better in an instant.

3. Travel and relax.

In addition to the usual sports, you can also travel on specific festivals, which can not only release stress, but also enhance feelings. Traveling is a necessary activity for many people and families. As a girlfriend, if you find that your boyfriend is out of breath due to stress, you can consider finding a suitable holiday to take him out for a walk.

4. Let him play the game freely.

Most boys love to play games, if a boy will occasionally play after getting married, as a girlfriend should not be forbidden, because it shows that he is releasing pressure, the process of playing games is always happy, the lead oak in the brain only has the content of the game, so the whole person will be more relaxed, don't think that he is not doing his job or too naïve, just make him happy.

Then you can usually persuade your boyfriend more so that he doesn't put so much pressure on himself. And tell him that you will stand behind him and support him, and if there is anything you can tell you, the two of you will work together to solve the problem.

It's normal for your boyfriend to say it's stressful. The young man who is now digging potatoes is facing the pressure of work, financial pressure, and the burden of marriage, you can encourage him, or you can relieve his pressure.

What kind of pressure did he say? Is it the economic pressure? Or when it comes to getting married, there is a lot of pressure on the stupid side of the family?

If it is a large pressure source slag in terms of hail and quiet, you can save a little bit of life. Spend less of his money, and I will ask him to save more money for the bride price. If it's mentally stressed, you can praise him more when you get home.

Give him some lively vibes and let him relax. Hope.

Everyone is stressed!! Learn to release yourself!

I don't know the specifics!

Men's pressure, girls are the easiest to relieve!

A simple massage is possible!

Obviously, at least your boyfriend and you are very out of sync when it comes to getting married. You may think that everything is a natural thing, but you don't know what his attitude is with his family.

Analysis:1His family difficulties: I don't know how much you know about his family's financial situation, maybe his parents could not afford to buy a house, but in order not to lose you, he maneuvered in it.

2.His family's requirements for his daughter-in-law are very different from yours, and he is afraid that the family will oppose it and cover it up3He doesn't want to marry you himself.

In short, either situation is not very beneficial for you, if you really love your boyfriend, talk to him well, talk to him about your doubts, and if he is still perfunctory, you can consider breaking up because he really doesn't want to marry you yet.

You must have been deceived.,There are many of these men now.,It's good to say everything when you're dating.,When you get down to business, there's nothing.。。。 You haven't seen his parents, you don't know what his family is like, this kind of man is the most annoying, he likes to cheat girls, buying a house is what kind of pressure can there be, what pressure can he say, the pressure he is talking about is that he doesn't have a house at all or doesn't buy a house at all or can't afford to buy a house at all, so if he doesn't be honest with you, do you think this kind of man can't see it? Then you have to think carefully, after all, women can't afford to wait...

In terms of buying a house, it may be that he lied to you, but do you think he is a person worth entrusting? If he's a potential stock, then there's nothing to do without a house now, and he'll definitely be able to buy it later, but if you don't know anything about him, then be careful...

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