My boyfriend gave up our relationship because my family was poor, and it was very uncomfortable, how

Updated on healthy 2024-06-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In a person's life, we will meet a lot of people, and we will miss a lot of people, if you break up with your boyfriend, it can only prove that two people are inseparable, and your boyfriend gave up this relationship because of your family environment shows that your boyfriend is not reliable, more concerned about interests, even if you don't break up this time, you will often quarrel because of the problem of interests after marriage, so it is also beneficial for you to break up in time now, there is no need to regret because of a wrong relationship, Learn to relieve the bitter emotions in your heart.

    Confide in your best friends. I believe you must have some girlfriends, make these appointments to talk about your heart, tell each other about your own things to ask for each other's opinions, and release all the negative emotions in your heart in the process of confiding, your heart will be much more cheerful, don't stuff the painful things in your heart, otherwise it will be more sad, and many times it will be more comfortable to say things.

    Travel to your favorite places. Let's go on a trip, the world is so big, there is always a place to accommodate you, to the grassland for galloping, sleeping with the stars at night, to see different cultural landscapes, at this time to find the vastness of the world, their own smallness, do not have to be entangled because of some trivial things in life, to use every minute of life, so that you will not feel regrets, in the process of travel will make people forget their troubles, start again.

    Have a beautiful meal. There is nothing that cannot be solved by eating one meal, and if there is, then eat two meals, and turn grief into craving, and forget all the pain. In fact, it is not your fault that you broke up, but your boyfriend chose to leave, what you need to do is not to blame yourself all the time, but to find your own direction, strive to improve yourself, and become better, so that you will definitely be sought after by more people of the opposite sex, and continue to move forward, I believe that you will definitely reap your love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can go out for a walk more, and you can slowly relieve your sad feelings, in fact, if you think about it, this is also a good thing, which shows that he doesn't like you at all, and you don't need to waste your youth on such people.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This aspect can be alleviated by watching movies, watching TV series, listening, singing and traveling. Because these methods can distract oneself and also make oneself feel happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Uncomfortable? It's normal! Because never use your kindness to challenge the ruthlessness of the world, live yourself, I don't have so many big truths from others, I am more direct, because that is experience, not for what experience, one day, you will feel that everything is a cloud of smoke!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's break up early, I think it's good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Men have been abandoned too much because women are poor, and I am not the same.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Not true love, I think.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello! Being broken up from a relationship, no matter what the reason, will make people feel frustrated, and even fall into pain, and can't extricate themselves, so I can understand you very well and hug you!

    Adjust your emotions and accept reality.

    Don't let yourself fall into the mood of falling out of love for too long, give yourself more love and positive cues, and find ways to adjust your emotions to let yourself come out as soon as possible.

    The more we fall into bad emotions, the more we will be prone to narrow-mindedness, the more narrow our thinking will be, the worse our emotions are, and we must understand such a law, so the more we are at this time, the more we must control our emotions.

    You can go for a walk in nature and bask in the sun; Confide in your friends; Do exercise, listen**; Turn grief into motivation to devote yourself to work or other more important things......In short, there must be a willingness to take the initiative to adjust emotions, emotions are only temporary, and they will definitely pass.

    On the road of life, some people miss it may be a good thing.

    Marriage is a two-way street, everyone has different values, and here we are not going to judge your boyfriend's values, but it is clear that your values are different.

    Two people with different values insist on living together, and they may not be able to go to the end in the end, maybe it is a good thing to be separated now. It is a timely stop-loss that can prevent you from having more investment and wasting more time.

    Don't let yourself get caught up in fantasies.

    Every relationship has something worth remembering, when you are in love, there must be a lot of unforgettable memories between you and your ex-boyfriend, the more you are the one who is broken up, the more you will remember each other's good, and it is easy to beautify each other after the breakup, and let yourself indulge in fantasy.

    does not deny the sincerity of her boyfriend's tears when he broke up, but also see that he proposed to break up with his decision. There's no need to cry over spilled milk, maybe you've just met the wrong person at the right time.

    Don't dwell on the past, and then think about how many mistakes it has, how much unwillingness you have in your heart, it's meaningless.

    For young people, the future has unlimited possibilities, some people are destined not to be your dish, just to accompany you for a period of time in your life, I believe that as long as you are positive and full of expectations, there will be better people waiting for you in the future!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Because men are poor, they will have low self-esteem.

    In this life, from childhood to adulthood, what kind of life to live, the decision depends on the state head over the parents; And many people's families, because of the poor conditions, will naturally have an inferiority complex; As long as people have an inferiority complex, no matter what kind of things they do, they will not be confident; I always think too much, I am afraid that I will not do well, I am afraid that others will look down on me, and I am afraid that others will not like me; So sometimes, because of this kind of inferiority complex, a lot of opportunities will be lost; It's the same on the road of love, because the inferiority complex is making trouble, so if there is a result, you will endure the pain and let go.

    A man gives up love because he is poor, that is because there is an inferiority complex in the man's heart; Sometimes, on the road of love, not all of them are aimed at money; There is also a lot of pure love; Many women, when they are in love, don't care whether a man is rich or not; But in the heart of a man who has no money, he doesn't think so, because he has no money himself, so he always feels that women will not like him and look down on him; thus gave up love and a beautiful marriage; There are not a few such people.

    2. A man's abandonment of love because of poverty is a character flaw.

    A person's character is formed from childhood; Children from poor families, in general, are less confident and less social; Of course, this situation is relative, and it is a conclusion that is drawn after comparing it with the people around it; But if a person gives up love because he is poor, then this is a person's character flaw; This is not only a psychology of inferiority, but also a subjective judgment of its own; That is, he has created a dilemma for himself, and he cannot cross the age at all; Therefore, it is impossible for a person with such a character to really devote himself to feelings.

    It is a character flaw for a man to give up love because he is poor; In a man's mind, what is actually impossible to happen, he himself gives the result; He always felt that he was not qualified to love, and that others would not love him; He felt that he would be looked down upon and disliked by others; In fact, the real situation is not as bad as he imagined, but he just thinks bad about this result; Such a character defect, in fact, if a man has been poor, then there is a great disadvantage for a man to walk on the road of love, and a man may be lonely for a lifetime.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think you're wrong, and you're thinking about your future life. I think you're a very assertive girl.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's nothing wrong with that, after all, you yourself also want to find your own happiness, and feelings without money can't last long.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's nothing wrong with that. Although such an idea is a bit selfish, the girl should also think about her future, otherwise she will suffer a lot in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you are bored with the poverty of your boyfriend's family, do you want to save the relationship? This is a difficult question because everyone thinks differently and has different situations. However, there are a few things we should consider sooner rather than later.

    First of all, family poverty should not be a reason to reject someone. While money is indeed important, it doesn't represent the whole of a person. You should respect his values, personality, and character, which are all important factors.

    Therefore, if you really like him, you should accept his background, and it will also make you a more sound, open, and mature person.

    Second, you need to discern how you really feel about the relationship. Do you really like him, or are you just with him because he's nice to you and rich? If you really like him, then you will accept all his shortcomings and strengths and face any difficulties with him.

    If you just want to be with him because of interests, then the relationship is doomed to fail because any relationship requires a certain amount of sacrifice and effort.

    Finally, you need to recognize that emotions are not one-way. If you decide that you want to win him back, then you need to make him want to be with you. You can give him some time to think about it, or you can try to communicate with him to understand his thoughts.

    When you express your true feelings to him, you should avoid criticizing him and instead make him understand your desires and expectations. Then, you need to respect his reaction, whether it's acceptance or rejection.

    In short, disliking your boyfriend's poor family is not an independent problem, because it involves your attitude towards life and emotional development. You should think hard about your true feelings and the future you want before making a decision. Ultimately, no matter what choices you make, you should respect and love yourself and others.

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