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You can't want to, if you really love someone, you won't see that the other person is in trouble and leave, you can only say that this person doesn't love you so much, so let's end it early.
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Of course, such a person can't ask for it, and when he sees that you are in trouble, he leaves, usually he has nothing to do, and he wants to look for you, and when he is in trouble, it is better to bear it with you. Difficulties know happiness, such a person is not worthy of your life, stay away from him as soon as possible, and such a man is irresponsible and hypocritical. Look at men, sometimes it's so simple, occasionally when you think about it, he can't think of it, he won't look for you.
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Of course you can't ask for it, this kind of man is a scumbag, a selfish person, and there will be no good life with this kind of person. As the saying goes, adversity sees the truth, and the person who abandons you in your most difficult time is the most ruthless. When you meet a ruthless person, you don't have to regret it, you will eventually meet a lover.
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It mainly depends on how big or small the trouble you encounter, if it is just ordinary or some small troubles in work and life, then it is better for such a boyfriend to leave, and there is no need to date, but if it is a big trouble such as a life change turning point, such a boyfriend still needs to be further considered, but if you run away from the problem, then such a boyfriend is not worth relying on.
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No, a guy who likes you will only find a way to help you out of trouble after you get into trouble, instead of walking away.
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Boyfriend walks away when he sees you're in trouble? This kind of boyfriend is a bit bad, or maybe he doesn't like you so much, I think it's better to change this kind of boyfriend, otherwise it is estimated that you will only be injured in the future.
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The boyfriend is this kind of person who must not want it, but when he sees that his girlfriend is in trouble, he must help solve it, so he walks away for fear that he will get trouble, and this kind of person who is afraid of things must not want it.
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It depends on whether your trouble is within his tolerance, if it really can't be beared, at least I have to tell you, comfort you, if it's just a very simple thing, he won't let him help, then forget it, talk to him.
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I don't think you should have such a person because he doesn't care too much about you.
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Two people who really love each other are not the same, the other party receives a little hurt, you are in trouble and he runs away, do you think he loves you? If he loves you, he won't run, if it's me, I will definitely leave, and it's too tiring to carry it alone when I encounter many things in the future.
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Such a boyfriend has no responsibility, so it is better to leave him as soon as possible, so as not to regret it in the future.
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Couples should help each other, he should stand up to help you solve difficulties when you are in trouble, if you are in trouble and he walks away, this man is really unreliable.
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There is a question, you didn't make it clear, he walked away because he was forced to do so, or did he unconsciously don't want to cause trouble and walked away. If it's the former, then it's a little more examined. If it's the latter, the sooner you leave him, the better.
Such a person is definitely not suitable to be a boyfriend.
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In fact, a person's life will definitely encounter wind and rain, no person's life will be smooth sailing, your boyfriend still doesn't know you very well like that, you can tell him clearly and understand, he is also afraid that you will suffer like that.
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My boyfriend walked away when he saw that you were in trouble, and he didn't help you, I don't think I can ask for such a boyfriend.
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Look at your boyfriend, is everything else good? If everything else is fine. This is not good at all, so let it be left here. Nothing else is better. Let's break up quickly.
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If you can only rely on yourself, then don't look too far, I think you have to drink too much, then you don't need to be fast.
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Is this question still asked? Don't you have this in mind?
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What's the trouble, didn't he help you? Whether you can't help or don't want to help Ask him.
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You can't want such a person, because he can't protect you when you need him the most, let alone expect him to love you well after getting married in the future, so it's better to choose to break up.
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I think your boyfriend is still very naïve! has a dispute with you, and he can't leave you alone like this, it can only be said that his psychological development is not mature enough. With such a boyfriend, I'm afraid you will be very wronged.
The girl herself is more sensitive, and when there is a quarrel, she feels very helpless. Even if there is a problem with the girl's attitude or ideological considerations, she can't just walk away, at least she has to wait until her girlfriend is angry before reasoning.
If your boyfriend leaves without arguing with you, or even if he doesn't contact you or call you this time, this is even more undesirable. I have always believed that the Cold War will not solve any problems, it will only make your hearts slowly become cold, without the original emotional warmth, life together is very boring.
As for the question of whether you say that your boyfriend can have it, then it depends on whether he can grow up quickly. Sometimes boys have to go through it before they can grow. Your boyfriend needs to grow just like you.
You have to look at what the reason for your quarrel is, if it is really something that is too inconsequential, it can only mean that both of you are mentally immature. If it's worth arguing, then I think arguing will enhance the relationship between you, at least let the other person know what you want. The boyfriend's handling method is a bit lacking, but you can express your dissatisfaction, after listening to your opinions, he will slowly mature in his future performance, then such a boyfriend can be wanted, and he should be given time to grow.
If you and your boyfriend have discussed this issue and it doesn't change the way your boyfriend does things, then it's better to break up! Otherwise, both of them are tortured.
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In fact, in the hearts of most women, their boyfriends, no matter whether they are right or wrong, if two people quarrel, the man should bow his head first and coax himself first. Because even if a woman is unreasonable, it is because she loves a man, so she will be unreasonable in front of the people she cares about, and men should feel happy, so they should not coax each other after a quarrel. But what I want to say is that men are also tired, and men sometimes need women to coax him patiently.
Therefore, if you want a relationship to be happy and long-lasting, women must also know how to bow their heads, even if a man sometimes does something wrong, she must patiently guide him, instead of getting angry all the time and waiting for her boyfriend to coax her.
In fact, what I want to say is that men are also flesh and blood people, they will also be tired, and they will also have times when they have a little temper. So I think if two people have a fight, it depends on the cause of the matter first. If it's the man's fault, and he doesn't know how to bow his head to coax you, then there is really no need to maintain such a relationship.
But if it's your own fault, then there's no reason to blame the other party for not coaxing you. The feelings are mutual, and the feelings that only one party is paying are destined not to last long. When two people are together, what they need is to be considerate of each other.
Men also have fragile times, and women must also know how to bow their heads to coax men when necessary, only in this way can the relationship between two people be more stable.
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It shows that he doesn't have you psychologically, at least he doesn't care about you at all. Such a man can be dispensed with, and it is not worth your reliance. The immature approach of ignoring you directly is too unauthentic.
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Your boyfriend walked away directly after arguing with you, such a man, feeling a little irresponsible, you can communicate with him, point out his problem, see if he can correct it in the future, if he insists on going his own way, you can choose to break up.
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I don't think such a guy is very considerate of others, not so mature, I think you have to think about whether you want to be together, I once saw such a news, a couple quarreled on the highway, and the man drove away at the rest stop where his wife was still telling.
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Leaving directly after a quarrel doesn't necessarily mean that you don't care about you, or it may be that you are afraid that you will be angry and say something that you shouldn't say will affect the relationship between two people, so you choose to walk away and calm down and deal with it.
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I think it's a bit impulsive and irresponsible if your boyfriend always leaves on his own after a quarrel and doesn't care about you at all, after all, no matter how angry you are, you shouldn't be left alone, and if you don't change it many times, you can consider breaking up.
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Boys have a short temper and often leave after speaking, so if this situation continues many times, I think it's time to consider whether the personalities of both parties are suitable.
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I think it depends on what the reason is, if it's because you're vexatious, I don't think it's your boyfriend's fault, but if it's your boyfriend's fault and he still does it, then I think he probably doesn't like you that much.
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I think this kind of plot should happen to girls, it should be girls who throw their hands and leave, and boys chase after them, how is it the other way around? Isn't this man a bit of a mother?
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I think you can choose to communicate with a boy like this, after all, the boy will definitely not think very thoughtfully after quarreling and getting angry, so if the two can reconcile after communication, they can continue to be together.
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If he leaves directly and no longer takes the initiative to contact you, I feel that he doesn't care about you, because the Cold War is the most hateful, and it is more conducive to communication if he is happy to say it.
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Can't want it, let's break up decisively, so as not to regret it, it's like this now, do you think you will have a good life in the future, believe me, I'm from here, but I don't have regret medicine.
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As a woman, you can't let him go to choose between you and, it's a man's pain. A person will eventually have shortcomings, and a good face can be endured. But in addition to his relatives, he should take care of you, and if you can't do it, share it.
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I don't love you deep enough, if he really loves you very much, his face is that floating cloud, I have seen many buddies and daughters-in-law around me have no self-esteem at all, all kinds of pets and all kinds of happiness, only two people who can tolerate you can last for a long time. And this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship ......Your boyfriend is acting so clearly now......Think about it, I suggest you still look at the big forest behind the leaves in front of you.
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No, although there is filial piety, but ignoring you, it's not good.
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This man is very good, and a man with filial piety is the best.
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Of course I can't ask for it, if I really love you, I won't care about my face, and I won't care about you.
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This boy is very filial and is a good child, this depends on whether she is usually good to you, she loves each other, if you don't want your boyfriend to be embarrassed between you and his parents, try to go with him to be good to her parents, your boyfriend will be better to you than before, love the house and Wu.
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Don't ask for a boy with a mother-love complex, that kind of boy would rather listen to his mother than his daughter-in-law.
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Don't do it, it's not good for a man who cares too much about face.
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It's not a matter of face, it's a question of who is right and who's wrong, if he still only cares about his own face on the premise of his own fault, then this kind of person still doesn't want it.
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It's too machismo, and it certainly can't be wanted.
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He's not good like that! Patronizing the and ignoring you! I really shouldn't have asked for it! Find one that's right for you!
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No!! The man who hates everything and listens to his mother the most.
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Don't, you'll be tired and out of position.
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Truth be told, such people are good....You think if he could even ignore his own mother...Sooner or later, you'll end up like this.
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No, he's too ruthless to you.
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You should cherish it, he doesn't even care about his parents, and it won't be long before he doesn't care about you.
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Filial piety is a good thing, it's not good to take care of face, and a man can't make a big deal if he dies to save face.
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Does he have his own opinions? If not, break up, the daughter-in-law and the mother are coaxed on both sides, not on the other side.
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Throw it away! What else do you want him to do with such a boyfriend?
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Let's separate, life after marriage will be very difficult.
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Such a man really wants to save face and suffer crimes, and he doesn't have a bit of manly temperament, so I think such a man is too stingy, too stingy, and there is nothing warm and romantic for such a man to be with him. Say goodbye to him.
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Of course, there should be no such a big contradiction because of this, so there is a way to solve any problem, so it is better for you not to break up easily, and it is better to communicate with the other party well.
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I don't think there is any need for such a man anymore, because he feels ashamed to do something for you, so what's the use of asking him for him?
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Your boyfriend values his face more than you, but he doesn't love you enough, I think you should still be cold to him and let him understand your importance.
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It's common for a small couple to have an awkward quarrel, to see if this matter is worth arguing for so long? If you love your boyfriend a lot, forgive him.
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It shows that his face is more important than yours, and this kind of man really can't be wanted.
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If your boyfriend is like that, you can't get used to it, after all, no matter what the situation, if your girlfriend is arguing with someone else, a man should protect his girlfriend.
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That means that this man loves face very much, he thinks that you have lost face by quarreling with others, so he is angry, but he has not spoken to you for more than 20 days, so this man's anger is too long.
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