How my good friends always belittle and command me.

You are the same as me at the beginning, let's put it this way, the friend who makes you embarrassed and does not bring you any benefit is not a real friend, a real friend is one who will think about you and think about everything! Do you know that you just have a good temper, she knows you too well, maybe your mother told you that she has a heart better than you? Did you say that?

I used to be too, taking care of our feelings, but they will only get an inch, the same, I don't want to do one thing, she has to let me go, she will be angry if I don't go, I have to go, but I feel that I am very tired, shouldn't my friends be like this? What do you say, she won't force you to do anything if she treats you as a friend, what feelings are not emotional, if she uses this as a bargaining chip to take advantage of your good temper, then you don't care so much, you don't live for her, why live for others, think so much for her every day. You tell me!

Friends who are harmful to you and add to your troubles Hurry up and leave.

I feel that you should also be the kind of person who is afraid of hurting people and is embarrassed to say it, you can do this, slowly and slowly alienate her, so it's good, there will be better friends waiting for you, there are so many people around, friends It's not good to be old and emotional, slowly experience it.

I think it's better to separate, she seems to be very jealous of you. You guys aren't the best friendships you might think. One day you won't be able to take it anymore, and as soon as you explode, your friendship will end. Still, be proactive!

You have such a good temper and endurance, you will make more intimate friends, better friends for you, how many years do people live in a lifetime, some things can be endured, some things can't, why keep compromised? How nice it would be to have a few more friends happily. True friends need to treat each other well, they must be treated sincerely, not hurt each other and use each other, think about it carefully, does she have a good side?

If the good side is greater than the bad side, then you can still make friends, if not, then it's better to give up this friendship as soon as possible, ordinary friends, there is nothing bad, at least the shadow left in your heart will not increase over time.

Since you say you're a good friend, why do you still ask such a question? Think on the bright side. There should be understanding between friends. Why didn't he do this to others? It shows that he doesn't treat you as an outsider!

Jokes are forgivable. If it's belittling others and elevating yourself, it's not a good mentality.

It's important to make friends and respect each other. Be careful, selfish, unpopular, and dishonest, which is not good. Sincerity earns respect, hypocrisy loses friends. Learning to respect others means respecting yourself.

For people with bad character, no one will like them, everyone is far away from him, and the so-called Tao is not the same. No matter where people with good personalities go, as long as they treat each other with sincerity, they will meet friends who can make friends.

To do things for others, we must be sincere, empathetic, considerate, conscientious and responsible, responsible, and ambitious

I've had problems with friendships, as long as you try to prove it to them, make them want to play with you, and be yourself!

Cheer up, make a career, and prove your worth.

Increasing one's worth by belittling others is really not worth making friends.

Some good friends will not make friends after playing together for a lifetime

It's you who think he's a friend, and others don't necessarily think that way.

Is this still called a good friend! This kind of person is not worthy of deep friendship!

To improve oneself by belittling others, a kind of boring vanity is at work. If it's just between the two of you and he says that, you can talk to him, maybe it's a joke. If he always says this to others, then the Tao is not the same, and the quality should be paid attention to when making friends.

What is there to hesitate about such a person? Crisply.

It's your sorrow to make such friends.

What you think your friends are nice with you is what you think is low IQ.

People are not perfect, even if what your friend said is right, but he should not belittle you, that is just your personal character, even if you have a little shortcoming, your friend will help you correct, instead of looking down on and belittling, that is his personality defect, if he is always like this, then the friend asks you to leave him, such a friend does not make friends.

Some people are the kind of people who always want to hurt you once they get acquainted with you, not because they hate you, but because they don't treat you as an outsider. But there is also a kind of person who is always cynical to those who don't like it. You have to distinguish clearly, see if he treats you as a friend or hates you, and if the former is to tell him, let him not always hurt you, it will be uncomfortable to hear.

In the case of the latter, the damage will be returned, and the other party will be uncomfortable, and then try to minimize the contact.

Just ignore him and treat him as a dead man. Try to make real friends and leave behind those who are hypocritical.

Why bother with treating such a person as a friend and letting him fart!

Absorb what he said right, and slowly correct yourself, if you feel wrong, don't adopt it, refute or correct his point of view appropriately, don't blindly agree, listen.

The Tao is not the same, the words are not speculative, more than half a sentence, just ignore him!

You should calm down and ask him why he said that, and if you really are not right, you can correct it.

If you exclude personality problems, then it is indeed abnormal.

It can also be understood as jealousy, or other reasons, and if necessary, learn to communicate.

Not necessarily, it's the best friend who belittles you and decays you, but only they know in their hearts how much they care about you as a friend, if it's not the best friend, the so-called good friend is decayed, and those hypocritical friends are all behind their backs and on their faces.

There's a song called: "Best Friend". Only the closest friends hurt each other, and ordinary friends are of course treated politely.

That's too! They encourage you on the side.

They are used to getting along with their friends in this way, without problems.

If you mind.

You have to express it appropriately.

Now that you've said you're best friends.

Then why can't you just say it.

Look at what kind of friend it is.

Some friends are just joking, and some may really belittle, but they don't need others in their lives.

To recognize, to evaluate, to live a good life, as long as you work hard, no matter what others say.

Looks like you still don't have the ability. or extremely incompetent. Otherwise, you wouldn't have a friend say that about you... I feel that the friends I found are all a group of bad friends.

The relationship between the princess and the maid, if you can't stand it, don't be friends, you can't solve it if you want to, and when you slowly have self-confidence, you won't pay attention to her.

Since you want him as a friend, is there a way to make him change, then you have to endure it.

You just take it seriously and say to her, "I'm very uncomfortable with you talking like that, maybe you're right, but I don't like it." It's best not to do this to me in the future, not kidding you. I can't stand it. ”