What should I do if my parents oppose my love?

Updated on society 2024-06-30
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I can understand your feelings.

    The first is that you can't give up first, otherwise you will feel like you can't afford to give your boyfriend, what you should do now is that you make both sides balanced, you can say to your parents, the current family is not like before, the background is required, the status is similar, the current door is required is whether the two people are compatible, if the personality of the two people and other aspects are not compatible, even if the family, background and other aspects are similar, there will be no common language together in the future, After all, talking about friends is also a matter for the children themselves, and their own happiness is up to them!

    At the same time, you also want your parents to see that your boyfriend is very motivated, after all, a little worse now does not mean that he will be worse in the future, and you should also say more good things about him in your parents.

    In front of your boyfriend, you should also actively encourage him, and strive to make him excellent and acceptable to your parents!

    In short, you can't argue, take your time, things will always work out!

    I wish you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then you should tell them, what if you don't have my high education, what does it have to do with whether you can afford to raise me, as long as you love each other, even if it is any difficulty, you can spend it together! Although his family background is not very good, I believe that as long as he is a person who loves each other, his life will be very happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm just as bitter as you are.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm just as hard as you. When you've solved it, can you tell me what to do?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you think your boyfriend will be successful in the future, and if you think he is a self-motivated person who will be promising, then continue to be with him.

    But if there is no future in the future, it is still inferior to you, I advise you to listen to your parents, break up, and find someone with the same education when you fall in love, and there will not be so much trouble.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think this kind of thing can be confessed, after all, parents want you to be happy, not necessarily with a certain person.

    However, you can pay attention to the timing of the speech. Pay attention to the timing of speaking, it must be after everyone has eaten a full meal, talking before eating will affect everyone's appetite, don't talk about it at dinner, it will affect everyone's sleep, and talking after breakfast will affect the mood of the day, so it can only be said at lunchtime.

    However, I think that whether children are in love or break up, they can actually talk to their parents, you know, as we get older, there are not many things that parents can participate in their own lives, and there are not many things that can communicate with parents.

    In fact, whether you can share your life situation, opinions, and experiences with your parents depends on your parents' "thinking age", "emotional intelligence" and "ability to work".

    For parents who are strong in their hearts, respect their children's intentions, and have perception, "sincere communication" itself is a kind of healing, and they can experience the warmth and application of true feelings, and the beginning and end of feelings are all good at sharing with parents.

    Whether the love blossoms or not, and whether the love is happy or not, usually the home is your harbor, and the parents who love you the most will always be the most supportive.

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