The mother had just prepared a meal and the child kicked over the table, how did the family react?

A lot of people are very annoyed that their children have such an attitude.

Parents should force themselves to calm down in the face of this situation, because the table has been overturned, and the result is irreversible, and if you blame your daughter again, it will not only not work, but also make the parent-child relationship strained.

I believe that for the above question, many mothers and fathers have the same questions. Many parents are first-time parents and they don't know how to educate their children. Everyone's education method is different, and the character of the children they educate is also different.

Personally, there are a few ways I would educate my children.

First, we need to learn to teach by example. Because parents are their children's first teachers, if parents usually have some bad habits, children will learn from them. Therefore, the strengths and weaknesses of parents will imperceptibly affect their children.

If our character is more brave and strong, our children will be stronger and braver.

Secondly, when the child is too naughty, we need to figure out her intentions first. Because children do everything for a reason, not every time it is vexatious. Therefore, when the child is behaving in some bear behavior, we should not think about blaming her first, but first understand her thoughts.

When we fully understand our children's thoughts, we will know what aspects we should educate our children.

In addition to this, we also need to learn to communicate with our children. Some people think that their children are too young, and they have no way to understand the big truths with their children. But in fact, we are underestimating our children's ability to understand.

Sometimes, as long as we are serious enough to talk to our children, they can understand the whole story.

In our daily life, we must also consciously cultivate children to develop good behavior habits. It's not easy to break bad habits. However, it is relatively easy to develop a good habit.

When we consistently accomplish one thing every day, we can gradually develop a good habit. When we develop good habits, bad habits are naturally corrected.

To find the cause of the bear child bear. Many bear children are because they don't know how to express their needs, so they choose the most simple and crude way to get the attention of their parents. Guide your child to use language to express his or her needs.

First of all, the bear child should be punished to make him understand that this behavior is wrong, and secondly, it is necessary to communicate with him carefully, so that he realizes his mistake and corrects it to ensure that he will not do it again in the future.

Bear children's education can not be beaten and scolded, but patiently guide the right direction, so that children obey you from the heart, is the real education.