The mother had just prepared a meal and was ready to eat, and the child kicked over the dining table

I believe that for the above question, many mothers and fathers have the same questions. Many parents are first-time parents and they don't know how to educate their children. Everyone's education method is different, and the character of the children they educate is also different.

Personally, there are a few ways I would educate my children.

First, we need to learn to teach by example. Because parents are their children's first teachers, if parents usually have some bad habits, children will learn from them. Therefore, the strengths and weaknesses of parents will imperceptibly affect their children.

If our character is more brave and strong, our children will be stronger and braver.

Secondly, when the child is too naughty, we need to figure out her intentions first. Because children do everything for a reason, not every time it is vexatious. Therefore, when the child is behaving in some bear behavior, we should not think about blaming her first, but first understand her thoughts.

When we fully understand our children's thoughts, we will know what aspects we should educate our children.

In addition to this, we also need to learn to communicate with our children. Some people think that their children are too young, and they have no way to understand the big truths with their children. But in fact, we are underestimating our children's ability to understand.

Sometimes, as long as we are serious enough to talk to our children, they can understand the whole story.

In our daily life, we must also consciously cultivate children to develop good behavior habits. It's not easy to break bad habits. However, it is relatively easy to develop a good habit.

When we consistently accomplish one thing every day, we can gradually develop a good habit. When we develop good habits, bad habits are naturally corrected.

To find the cause of the bear child bear. Many bear children are because they don't know how to express their needs, so they choose the most simple and crude way to get the attention of their parents. Guide your child to use language to express his or her needs.

First of all, the bear child should be punished to make him understand that this behavior is wrong, and secondly, it is necessary to communicate with him carefully, so that he realizes his mistake and corrects it to ensure that he will not do it again in the future.

Bear children's education can not be beaten and scolded, but patiently guide the right direction, so that children obey you from the heart, is the real education.

A lot of people are very annoyed that their children have such an attitude.

Parents should force themselves to calm down in the face of this situation, because the table has been overturned, and the result is irreversible, and if you blame your daughter again, it will not only not work, but also make the parent-child relationship strained.

The first is to use positive encouragement to help children build good self-worth. Parents need to take the initiative to teach their children basic values and behaviors. Let children grow up in society.

Of course, role models speak louder than words in this regard, and we can be good role models for our children. It is important to create a good family atmosphere. So, we can't let our children do what we don't want to do, and we can't do one thing ourselves and let our children do another.

The second is to teach children to appreciate others and not be self-centered。Most of the children are now only children, and generations are around one child. So he rarely thinks about others, and he doesn't know how to appreciate others.

Naturally, he can't talk about cooperation, which will bring trouble to interpersonal relationships in the future and have an extremely adverse impact on his future career. Therefore, parents should educate their children to appreciate others, let their children see themselves correctly, cooperate with others, and often invite other children to participate in activities with their own children, and guide children to discover each other's advantages and guide children to appreciate each other's advantages in the process of activities.

Then there is appropriate praise and rewards. Family atmosphere is one of the important factors in the implementation of family education. In life, there are many opportunities for parents and children to work together.

It is also very knowledgeable to praise and reward children. Praise and rewards can stimulate children's self-improvement, help cultivate children's self-esteem and sense of honor, cultivate children's self-discipline, enhance children's sense of right and wrong, and help deepen the relationship between parents and children. You can often invite other children to participate in activities with your own children, and in the process of activities, guide children to discover each other's strengths and guide children to appreciate each other's advantages.

It is important to know that children are born with a spirit of exploration. What parents should do is to educate their children as early as possible during their sensitive periods, cater to their inner needs and interests, support their children's free exploration and development, and encourage children to actively absorb knowledge, rather than passively waiting for the knowledge instilled in them by the outside world. This is the only way to fully develop your child's potential.

In addition, there are elements that are essential if a child wants to acquire a skill or knowledge.

This requires parents to be serious, they should say something that scares the child, so that the child understands that this is not a joke.

The meal that was just cooked was overturned by a naughty girl, and I personally feel that when educating children, we must not spoil them, and we must be stricter.

Be responsible for your actions, be independent, don't mess around, play games in the right places, and be time-conscious

Work with your child to set rules for rewards and punishments, with clear rewards and punishments.

If you want to make the "bear child" become a good child who understands the rules, the most critical step is for parents to discuss with their children to formulate corresponding reward and punishment rules, which is a very effective method. For example, when the child finishes his homework on time when he comes home, parents can reward the child with a medal or a small toy, and if the child does not follow the rules, the parent will withdraw the child's medal and punish him by not watching TV for three days.

For example, the rules of the dinner table, the rules of sleeping, the rules of going out, etc., can also be formulated with the child to develop the rules, the reason why there are rewards and punishments is so that the bear child can become a child with rules.