What should I do if my boyfriend is too good and frustrated?

It is your luck that your boyfriend is excellent, only if he is excellent can you become better, because you will compare, always feel that you can't stay under his halo for too long, you will change yourself, so it is a good thing for your boyfriend to be excellent, then what you need to do is to make yourself better.

Only if you are better can you keep up with your boyfriend, so that you can spend longer and longer together, and through the common progress of two people, you will get happiness that others can't get, so depending on where your boyfriend is excellent, you can develop in the direction of his excellence, or in the direction of his poorness.

For example, if your boyfriend is excellent in his grades, then you have to study hard to improve your grades, try to keep up with his pace, and don't let others think that you are dragging him back, which is the case with a table mate in my high school, her boyfriend's grades are very good, he is in the top few in the class, and his grades have been maintained to at least be able to take one or two exams.

And my table mate's grades are relatively poor, she is the kind of person who has to work hard to get into the second book, at that time, some people said that she was worse than the boy, and felt that my table mate was dragging him back, not that I was at the same table and made up my mind to make myself better, she began to keep brushing the questions, and her grades improved by leaps and bounds.

Prove yourself with real grades, let them slap themselves, and tell them that they don't have the ability to read, but they don't work hard, so your boyfriend is very good, if you are excellent in grades, you can work hard to improve your grades, and then use your grades to tell them that you are worthy of him.

And if he is excellent in other aspects, and you have no way to develop in that direction, or there are too many excellent places for him, then you don't need to be like him, learn all his excellent points, but pick his bad places to work hard, after all, everyone has their own good things.

As long as you have a relatively good specialty that is worthy of praise from others, at least others can think of you when they mention things about their specialties, for example, you can play the piano is a good example, as long as you can, and then play a piece in a specific environment, others will naturally be able to remember you, and naturally know that you have the ability to match him.

You don't need to feel frustrated, after all, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, only two people complement each other is what others like, just imagine where your boyfriend is not great, you are very good, in the eyes of others will feel that you are very compatible, and your boyfriend can also see a different you.

So no matter how good your boyfriend is, you will definitely be able to deserve it, but whether you are worthy of it or not, you must work hard to make yourself better, so that your boyfriend can always like you and will not feel disgusted with you, all in all, there must be no frustration.

First of all, you must also have confidence in yourself, your boyfriend chose you, it must be because he likes you, attracted to some parts of you, you can aim for him, and constantly optimize yourself.

Listening to your tone, you feel that your boyfriend is too good and you don't deserve him, so you either choose to be as good as him or turn away.

In fact, if your boyfriend is very good, then you are naturally not much worse, because if you don't have any merits in yourself, how can your boyfriend take a fancy to you. Boys generally know very well what kind of person they want to choose as their girlfriend, either they are very beautiful or very good, basically these two things.

Maybe you will think that your boyfriend is too good, you will feel bleak and insecure when you stand next to him, and after a long time, will your boyfriend kick me, and then you will fall into a strange circle of cranky thoughts and random suspicions, and from your boyfriend's actions, you feel that you really don't want to be with me.

There is often "Murphy's Law", which is that the more you don't want to come, the more he comes. This is such a coincidence, the more I think your boyfriend will leave me because of this, and I start to be afraid, the greater the chance that my boyfriend will leave, in fact, it's good to have a correct mentality. But there's no need to be presumptuous, because you're just as good.

A sense of security is never something that others can give, even if it can be given to you for a while, it really can't be given to you continuously, a sense of security still needs to be given by yourself, if you know what kind of trait your boyfriend really likes about you, it will be much better, at least it will give you a certain amount of confidence, and you won't always feel like looking up to your boyfriend.

In love, it is very important to maintain a parallel relationship, if one party is always looking up at the other, the person who looks up for a long time will feel tired, because it is really impossible to reach the height of the other party, and may want to turn away.

Therefore, to make yourself as good as the male ticket, so that you will not feel that you are looking up to each other, the best love is to be evenly matched, so that the two of you can go on in parallel.

What you like should be the excellence of the male ticket, since you like his excellence so much, it is better to become excellent yourself, so that you will have a sense of security. Because if you're good, I'm not bad. Of course, when you become secure, you should not forget to lose your own qualities.

Because after you change, it is very likely that your boyfriend will lose the quality that he likes about you.

Only choose the right person, even if you are excellent, not the type that your boyfriend likes, it will be in vain, this is what this money says, you must know what the characteristics of the male ticket like you, so it can be regarded as a direction.

Unwarranted suspicion is useless, all you have to do is have confidence and become as good as the male ticket, that's all.

First of all, you are lucky. Your boyfriend is so good, he still chooses you. It may also mean that you have something different.

Indeed, it is easy to think too much about a good boyfriend, and even produce a kind of inferiority complex. In the long run, it is not conducive to the maintenance of feelings. Just like when Zhang Han broke up with Zheng Shuang, Zheng Shuang had plastic surgery, saying that he was afraid that he would not be worthy of Zhang Han because of his low self-esteem.

But Zhang Han said that he had never thought about it like this. It's a blessing for you to be with a good boyfriend.

Zheng Shuang chose plastic surgery to improve himself, in order to be worthy of Zhang Han. If you think your boyfriend is good and you don't deserve him, you should also sublimate yourself. Whether it is the appearance of the character, but also the connotation.

To love someone is to be better for him, and to love someone is to try to keep up with him. One day, you will also present your excellent self in front of him, standing by his side with your head held high. Wait until one day the world praises you as a golden boy and a girl, very compatible.

Shouldn't your boyfriend's excellence be your motivation to move forward? It shouldn't be a reason to have low self-esteem or think too much. The prince fell in love with Cinderella because Cinderella has extraordinary characteristics.

The story of the CEOs in the TV series falling in love with me is also because of their extraordinary qualities and personalities. If we have nothing to do, we will naturally not be able to attract good people. If you want to stay with him for a long time, you naturally have to try to keep up with him. Cultivate to be the best version of yourself to be with you.

There is no shortage of stories like this. Some people don't dare to confess because the person they like is too good, and some don't dare to be sincere because the other party is too good after being together. Some are distressed because of the other party's excellence, and even doubt themselves.

However, no matter what, if you keep hiding in the corner and don't dare to come forward, then you will always be that inconspicuous self. The gap between you will also widen. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight.

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I think in love, as long as you love each other, you shouldn't have such concerns, and you can become very good yourself, as long as you know how to work hard, it's great.

Try to improve yourself. Make yourself as good as your boyfriend. Isn't that okay? Why have low self-esteem?

First of all, I think you must have self-confidence, everyone has their own shining points, and you should also have something to appreciate in your body, so you must show your strengths, secondly, in some places you feel that your boyfriend is obviously better than you, then in these places you can better study hard to progress, you study hard and ask for progress is very cute, your boyfriend will see your shining points.